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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
Can't tell you how many times I've struck up chat with couples/singles on here been going well then ZERO/NARDA/NOTHING from one message to the next like just no reply. Anyone else experience this or can shine some light on it. |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Yes it happens to us. Usually it comes to an end when it becomes obvious we aren't going to engage in prolonged "sexy chat". "
think what i was trying to say was just reoly saying "this isn't for us" i always try to chat about non sex related stuff as i like to get to know the person on the other end try and form a conection
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"People get bored. Or get better offers. Or lose interest.
Many reasons."
yes i get that totally understand. I've had two people a couple and a single female message me on the back of this post. One giving me there opinion the other a wink then instant block lol rude x |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Some people don't like to turn people down so let the messages just drop off after a little while instead x"
yeah i get it but personally I'd prefer a no thanks I'm a big boy i can take it..no pun intended lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes people are just after wank material, or pic collectors, or just get too familiar and pushy, or they send a face pic and the conversation ends. Just move on x |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Sometimes people are just after wank material, or pic collectors, or just get too familiar and pushy, or they send a face pic and the conversation ends. Just move on x"
oh i do believe me. I've just moved on by adding you guys to my hotlist x
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
You can expect conversations to peter out eventually, just like in real life lol 
That doesn't mean there will be another topic of conversation along later if you get on well enough.
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Sometimes you do get a conversation stopper though,
and you just cannot think of anything to say to what they've just said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes people are just after wank material, or pic collectors, or just get too familiar and pushy, or they send a face pic and the conversation ends. Just move on x oh i do believe me. I've just moved on by adding you guys to my hotlist x"
Lol x |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I find that men generally want to steer conversation to sex related things, or flirting.
Whilst I an happy to chat, the above will usually result in me losing interest rapidly."
to be honest I'm the opersite i like to get to know the person..as in tell me something about you other then sex related stuff x |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"We have found in the past that the first one or two messages are ok but subsequent ones become just one or two words, and which point things feel a bit one sided and we just stop responding."
i like to think i but a bit of effort in x
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"You can expect conversations to peter out eventually, just like in real life lol
That doesn't mean there will be another topic of conversation along later if you get on well enough.
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Sometimes you do get a conversation stopper though,
and you just cannot think of anything to say to what they've just said "
Yeah i get that it's just strange sometimes how it seems to be going well then nothing x |
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I will always reply to a (polite) message and my chats are invariably initiated by the other person. But when you start getting back "That's good", "Okay", "Thanks" or the dreaded "Mmmmmmmm", I find it somewhat difficult to keep a chat going. A chat should be just that - a conversation  |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I will always reply to a (polite) message and my chats are invariably initiated by the other person. But when you start getting back "That's good", "Okay", "Thanks" or the dreaded "Mmmmmmmm", I find it somewhat difficult to keep a chat going. A chat should be just that - a conversation "
i couldn't agree more x |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
Wigan |
With an inability to meet at the moment.. After a while there is nothing to talk about as there is no meet to aim for.. Obvs it's easier to chat with people you already know which is why the mojority of established accounts are still on here..
Not much point to the site at the moment as people's hands are tied and not in a good way. May as well shelve it until this Flu has blown over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the time, it happens to everyone - it's because this site is overloaded and people are talking to multiple people.
Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the beast due to the numbers involved. |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"With an inability to meet at the moment.. After a while there is nothing to talk about as there is no meet to aim for.. Obvs it's easier to chat with people you already know which is why the mojority of established accounts are still on here..
Not much point to the site at the moment as people's hands are tied and not in a good way. May as well shelve it until this Flu has blown over "
people's hands tied? I'm in lol |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"All the time, it happens to everyone - it's because this site is overloaded and people are talking to multiple people.
Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the beast due to the numbers involved."
yep i hear you guess i was just saying send a message saying that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes happens to me a lot. Was chatting to a lady a few months ago,we seemed to be getting on really well,she sent a friend's request, which of course I accepted. I ended up helping her through a bit of an emotional crisis,she seemed happy as long as I was paying her compliments,then all of a sudden we were no longer friends,sent her a message to see why,just deleted with no reply. Think she was just an attention seeker & got bored with me. Did feel a bit deflated for a while. But decided not to waste my time on people who throw my friendly caring nature back in my face. |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Yes happens to me a lot. Was chatting to a lady a few months ago,we seemed to be getting on really well,she sent a friend's request, which of course I accepted. I ended up helping her through a bit of an emotional crisis,she seemed happy as long as I was paying her compliments,then all of a sudden we were no longer friends,sent her a message to see why,just deleted with no reply. Think she was just an attention seeker & got bored with me. Did feel a bit deflated for a while. But decided not to waste my time on people who throw my friendly caring nature back in my face."
fab can be a very strange place sometimes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that men generally want to steer conversation to sex related things, or flirting.
Whilst I an happy to chat, the above will usually result in me losing interest rapidly."
Same. Or they ask personal questions.
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