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Picking someone less attractive to meet
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There shouldn't be any feelings of jealousy in swinging in our opinion. If one of us felt jealousy then we would have to take a step back. We aren't here to be feeling bad and negative emotions, just the good feelings. |
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"Has anyone on purpose picked someone who they consider less attractive than themselves or their partner to avoid jealousy issues?"
Oh hell yes my wife picked me.
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"You or your partner
There shouldn't be any feelings of jealousy in swinging in our opinion. If one of us felt jealousy then we would have to take a step back. We aren't here to be feeling bad and negative emotions, just the good feelings."
I know what you mean, but it’s always an emotional reaction that sometimes can appear. |
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When meeting with a partner, it should be by mutual consent imho - unless the dynamic of your relationship allows for one of you to always make the choice |
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Of course there is jealousy. But jealousy isn't the problem. How we respond to it is the issue. Personally I find jealousy to be motivating and exciting. If I wasn't a little jealous I would have to assume it is because I didn't care anymore. |
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"Has anyone on purpose picked someone who they consider less attractive than themselves or their partner to avoid jealousy issues?"
If that's the case, then there's issues already. |
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"You or your partner
There should be no jealousy in swinging.
There shouldn't be but there is... It's part of being human "
Those people are playing a dangerous game. So many become Male or Female playing alone. There definitely should be no jealousy. Swingers should actually enjoy their partner giving or receiving pleasure. |
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"Are you a plain Jane? I'm talking about picking someone in purpose because they are less attractive...not because you haven't got any choice."
A couple chose me because of exactly that after the meet. Well the mr did.  |
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No, never.
For me jealousy wouldn’t be something I felt over looks. If I was to feel it it would be because my partner did something like take another woman somewhere he'd always promised to take me but never had, how she looked wouldn't matter. He's never done anything like that so, no jealousy |
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