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By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago
Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire |
My membership is expiring, and in these glorious days of tenure...
- my profile is visited only by men and alas, I am straight
- ladies and couples who pass by, just pass by
- I have contacted 84 people got 6 responses and all disappeared when have seen my face pics
- all in all I keep having sex with myself by watching the others having sex
Is it time to take a break? |
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over a year ago
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"My membership is expiring, and in these glorious days of tenure...
- my profile is visited only by men and alas, I am straight
- ladies and couples who pass by, just pass by
- I have contacted 84 people got 6 responses and all disappeared when have seen my face pics
- all in all I keep having sex with myself by watching the others having sex
Is it time to take a break? "
As I have been told by many the men out number the ladies by plenty. But don’t give up pal, there’s someone for everyone. Just be patient. |
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"My membership is expiring, and in these glorious days of tenure...
- my profile is visited only by men and alas, I am straight
- ladies and couples who pass by, just pass by
- I have contacted 84 people got 6 responses and all disappeared when have seen my face pics
- all in all I keep having sex with myself by watching the others having sex
Is it time to take a break? "
I sense that you don't want to take a break, but rather proclaiming your frustration.
Us men are all in the same boat, but we can sometimes handle things a little bit differently.
6/84 isn't a good statistic, but you do have some great verifications. This tells me that you are capable and you must have a rough understanding of how fab works in order to get that far.
If you want feedback, which I'm not sure if you do, here's what I'd say;
Improve your pics. They do not sell you well at all.
Remove the "acclaimed" bit from your profile. The rest of the profile is good.
6/84 tells me that the messages you're sending aren't capturing attention. Basically on here, the first thing you need to do is capture attention. Most men on here are saying "hey babe", and crap messages like that and immediately go into sex talk. Don't pay attention to a woman in your first message to her - capture her attention instead. Word it so that it begs for a reply. That's what I do anyway and it works for me.
That being said, still don't expect more than 25% response rate. Women get so many messages that they can't reply. There are also a lot of women on here who have no interest in any men - they simply like the attention. So don't dwell on the lack of replies too much.
Be the best you can and keep trying.  |
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"My membership is expiring, and in these glorious days of tenure...
- my profile is visited only by men and alas, I am straight
- ladies and couples who pass by, just pass by
- I have contacted 84 people got 6 responses and all disappeared when have seen my face pics
- all in all I keep having sex with myself by watching the others having sex
Is it time to take a break?
As I have been told by many the men out number the ladies by plenty. But don’t give up pal, there’s someone for everyone. Just be patient. "
It's true. In my area, at this very moment, the ratio is 39:1. |
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By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago
Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire |
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I sense that you don't want to take a break, but rather proclaiming your frustration.
Us men are all in the same boat, but we can sometimes handle things a little bit differently.
6/84 isn't a good statistic, but you do have some great verifications. This tells me that you are capable and you must have a rough understanding of how fab works in order to get that far.
If you want feedback, which I'm not sure if you do, here's what I'd say;
Improve your pics. They do not sell you well at all.
Remove the "acclaimed" bit from your profile. The rest of the profile is good.
6/84 tells me that the messages you're sending aren't capturing attention. Basically on here, the first thing you need to do is capture attention. Most men on here are saying "hey babe", and crap messages like that and immediately go into sex talk. Don't pay attention to a woman in your first message to her - capture her attention instead. Word it so that it begs for a reply. That's what I do anyway and it works for me.
Be the best you can and keep trying. "
Thanks for your lovely comments. I will put your suggestions into practice.
My messages are not simply one sentence... I always adapt them to the person /s I am sending to... Here is a sample
he sexiest thing you can see on a lady on here is a smile. Women who enjoy being naughty will always catch our eye. Regardless of size and shape.
I loved your smile in the first picture!
Have a lovely day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you are on a swinging site as a single male, what did you expect?
you are a small minow in a huge sea of guys, why not try a dating site or something, and dont forget most havnt been meeting for the last 6 or so months |
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I sense that you don't want to take a break, but rather proclaiming your frustration.
Us men are all in the same boat, but we can sometimes handle things a little bit differently.
6/84 isn't a good statistic, but you do have some great verifications. This tells me that you are capable and you must have a rough understanding of how fab works in order to get that far.
If you want feedback, which I'm not sure if you do, here's what I'd say;
Improve your pics. They do not sell you well at all.
Remove the "acclaimed" bit from your profile. The rest of the profile is good.
6/84 tells me that the messages you're sending aren't capturing attention. Basically on here, the first thing you need to do is capture attention. Most men on here are saying "hey babe", and crap messages like that and immediately go into sex talk. Don't pay attention to a woman in your first message to her - capture her attention instead. Word it so that it begs for a reply. That's what I do anyway and it works for me.
Be the best you can and keep trying.
Thanks for your lovely comments. I will put your suggestions into practice.
My messages are not simply one sentence... I always adapt them to the person /s I am sending to... Here is a sample
he sexiest thing you can see on a lady on here is a smile. Women who enjoy being naughty will always catch our eye. Regardless of size and shape.
I loved your smile in the first picture!
Have a lovely day
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Times are hard for everyone atm, but keep faith. I'm sure it'll get better.
To me, that message just sounds like a compliment (and if I'm honest, it reads a bit of a generic copy and paste one) and not the start of a conversation.
Why would they be inclined to reply, apart from to say 'thanks', which isn't usually going to lead into a decent conversation.
Try asking her something, so that you give her something to reply to.
If her profile doesn't give you much to go on, tell her something about yourself, and ask her something related to that. |
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"My membership is expiring, and in these glorious days of tenure...
- my profile is visited only by men and alas, I am straight
- ladies and couples who pass by, just pass by
- I have contacted 84 people got 6 responses and all disappeared when have seen my face pics
- all in all I keep having sex with myself by watching the others having sex
Is it time to take a break? "
When the fun stops, stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sense that you don't want to take a break, but rather proclaiming your frustration.
Us men are all in the same boat, but we can sometimes handle things a little bit differently.
6/84 isn't a good statistic, but you do have some great verifications. This tells me that you are capable and you must have a rough understanding of how fab works in order to get that far.
If you want feedback, which I'm not sure if you do, here's what I'd say;
Improve your pics. They do not sell you well at all.
Remove the "acclaimed" bit from your profile. The rest of the profile is good.
6/84 tells me that the messages you're sending aren't capturing attention. Basically on here, the first thing you need to do is capture attention. Most men on here are saying "hey babe", and crap messages like that and immediately go into sex talk. Don't pay attention to a woman in your first message to her - capture her attention instead. Word it so that it begs for a reply. That's what I do anyway and it works for me.
Be the best you can and keep trying.
Thanks for your lovely comments. I will put your suggestions into practice.
My messages are not simply one sentence... I always adapt them to the person /s I am sending to... Here is a sample
he sexiest thing you can see on a lady on here is a smile. Women who enjoy being naughty will always catch our eye. Regardless of size and shape.
I loved your smile in the first picture!
Have a lovely day
Times are hard for everyone atm, but keep faith. I'm sure it'll get better.
To me, that message just sounds like a compliment (and if I'm honest, it reads a bit of a generic copy and paste one) and not the start of a conversation.
Why would they be inclined to reply, apart from to say 'thanks', which isn't usually going to lead into a decent conversation.
Try asking her something, so that you give her something to reply to.
If her profile doesn't give you much to go on, tell her something about yourself, and ask her something related to that."
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"why not try a dating site or something"
Because dating sites are flooded, *absolutely drowning*, with strictly monogamous people looking to Settle Down™ with The One™.
A lot of people end up on here because what they want isn't available on vanilla dating sites and they hope that what they have to offer will be more valued on Fab.
"I have contacted 84 people got 6 response"
Stop counting. That way lies madness. |
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