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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally it will be looks first and then I will read the profile. I have to be physically attracted to someone first. But if I like the looks and the personality is not there then I won’t take it any further |
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"What most attracts you to a potential partner/s? Is it reading their profile or is it simply looking at their pics and thinking they’re hot?"
Both really. If they are not attractive to us their profile means nothing.
But if they are attractive to us and have taken the time to creat a decent profile it shows effort. Which we appreciate.
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By *egasusQ OP Man
over a year ago
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"Both I like looks and a mentally stimulating mind and it has to be both for me. "
Ok, but if you HAD to choose, would you rather meet with someone who you found physically unattractive but with a gorgeous personality, or someone you found literally drop dead stunning looking but with a horrible personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Attraction - looks play a part, but how they interact with me and others is important
Public visibility / representation isn't particularly important to me, but how they act in private is |
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"Both I like looks and a mentally stimulating mind and it has to be both for me.
Ok, but if you HAD to choose, would you rather meet with someone who you found physically unattractive but with a gorgeous personality, or someone you found literally drop dead stunning looking but with a horrible personality?"
Neither, I have dildos. But if it was choose or die, and just a one-off, I’d go for the attractive one. If I find someone physically repulsive it doesn’t matter how nice they are, I just won’t be able to have sex with them. However, those two extremes are rare and in the real world, I want a mix of looks and personality. You originally asked pics or profile, I’ve recently deleted messages from several very attractive men because their messages were generic and when I looked at their profiles there was nothing there. I need to be able to have a conversation with someone before I think about meeting them and if I don’t think a conversation is possible, it doesn’t matter how good-looking they are. |
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I’ve got chatting to some hot ladies on here but Personality Wise it wasn’t there. I couldn’t find my self sexually attracted to someone with the personality of a fly but the looks of Meganne fox. Has to be a happy medium. But in the past I’ve found myself attracted to people I never thought I would be, further down the line after spending so much time with them (at work etc) and realising they have a great personality. |
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"I’ve got chatting to some hot ladies on here but Personality Wise it wasn’t there. I couldn’t find my self sexually attracted to someone with the personality of a fly but the looks of Meganne fox. Has to be a happy medium. But in the past I’ve found myself attracted to people I never thought I would be, further down the line after spending so much time with them (at work etc) and realising they have a great personality. "
 when someone “isn’t your type” but they grow on and u start to see beautiful things about them the more u learn about them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Has to be both, however, If the profile is ill written or has the ubiquitous "fill in later" we tend to overlook them, no matter how appealing the pics may be.. |
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