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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.
For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.
I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.
Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear. |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.
For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.
I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.
Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear."
Love kissing but only with girls and my dog. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So it sounds like the general consensus of opinion is that kissing is acceptable to ask about pre meet, and to most people is essential.
Thanks for your replies. |
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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago
Walton on the Hill |
I do understand why some couples reserve intimate kissing just for themselves, but for me personally, sex without kissing is a bit like driving with the handbrake on. You are still going to get to the final destination, but the journey is not as enjoyable as it could be!!! Kissing is one of my biggest turn ons, and makes you want what's coming next even more. |
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"If you do not want to kiss me then you won't ever get to touch me. Simple."
Exactly this! After the worst meet I ever had, where the female didn’t kiss others, I always ask up front, and won’t meet people who don’t  |
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"So it sounds like the general consensus of opinion is that kissing is acceptable to ask about pre meet, and to most people is essential.
Thanks for your replies."
Yes there have been loads of threads on the subject. You are best off asking if it's something that's vital for you. We mention in our profile that we don't kiss other people passionately it gives everyone the choice then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.
For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.
I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.
Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear."
What's this... Swingakissathon. Count me in for snogging..
Its best part. |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
I find kissing to be an important aspect it can also be an icebreaker, often after that first kiss people relax more but then I do also enjoy the build up to that very first kiss.
I personally think without kissing it's too clinical and don't think I could meet with someone who doesn't kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.
For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.
I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.
Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear."
Looks like it's just me who doesn't lol, I find kissing more intimate that sex, just something I reserve just for us. We have kissed at meets, just think some things need reserving. Bit totally get why people like it x |
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"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.
For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.
I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.
Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear.
Looks like it's just me who doesn't lol, I find kissing more intimate that sex, just something I reserve just for us. We have kissed at meets, just think some things need reserving. Bit totally get why people like it x"
Not just you. We don't kiss other people either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find kissing an amazing turn on and it just seems the right natural thing to do when having sex. I understand people’s views about it being intimate but you’re literally inside each other! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We choose to keep kissing between us as that’s an intimate part of our relationship we choose to keep those feelings separate. Prefer playing and having sex in front of other couples and soft swap. Kissing others is obviously very popular and is sexy but conscious the intimacy needs to be separate for us. Mr S |
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"We choose to keep kissing between us as that’s an intimate part of our relationship we choose to keep those feelings separate. Prefer playing and having sex in front of other couples and soft swap. Kissing others is obviously very popular and is sexy but conscious the intimacy needs to be separate for us. Mr S"
That's a boundary you choose to have in place, you don't need to justify it. Some people need intimacy to have sex but we don't find it necessary and don't think it possible to establish proper intimacy with a casual partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We choose to keep kissing between us as that’s an intimate part of our relationship we choose to keep those feelings separate. Prefer playing and having sex in front of other couples and soft swap. Kissing others is obviously very popular and is sexy but conscious the intimacy needs to be separate for us. Mr S"
Fully agree, thought it was just us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing, for me, is more intimate than sex, and can be extremely horny. Soft, hard, slow or fast, its the closeness, eye contact and feeling the other person breathing on your skin.
Absolutely love a good kiss! |
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"Kissing, for me, is more intimate than sex, and can be extremely horny. Soft, hard, slow or fast, its the closeness, eye contact and feeling the other person breathing on your skin.
Absolutely love a good kiss! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kiss... or go home!
It's so many things. It is a connection, and indicator, a barometer of the feelings between you, and while it is a portal to pleasure, it's also a pleasure in itself. The soft touch of lips, the tenderness of tongues, the tempo, the breathing, the tingles that rush through your body... I love kissing, and sex without kissing is not the same for me. |
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It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.
Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions 
I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?
Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.
Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions
I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?
Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?! "
Foreplay meets are absolutely acceptable for me. The orgasm from oral are explosive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met a couple previously where the only kissing they'd do was fem to fem. Kissing was reserved for them as a couple which we respect and appreciate. Don't think we'd meet another couple with no kissing though. For us both kissing is part of the foreplay. Kissing is what gets us aroused. It felt sterile fucking them but not being able to kiss them. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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It’s essential for us, lots of kissing is all part of a lusty meet, without it it seems passionless and clinical.
But that’s our preference, and we can understand why it’s not one everyone shares. |
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"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.
Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions
I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?
Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?! "
By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.
Do people kiss at gang bangs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.
Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions
I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?
Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!
By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.
Do people kiss at gang bangs? "
True, but the percentage that actually partake in gangbangs is we suspect quite low too? |
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"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.
Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions
I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?
Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!
By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.
Do people kiss at gang bangs?
True, but the percentage that actually partake in gangbangs is we suspect quite low too?"
Yes it probably is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.
Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions
I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?
Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!
By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.
Do people kiss at gang bangs? "
Great comment x  |
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