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I don't like my body. Too many wobbly bits. Doing something about it though. I want to feel sexy
I know I post a lot of pictures and they aren't filtered or anything but it takes a long time to get the right picture!!!! Lol. X |
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over a year ago
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I am far from happy with my perception of my body but still willing to show it. I want to be leaner that's for sure. Not bothered about abs showing, just wanna stop being fat |
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I like myself from the back or chest upwards. Below the waist is a car crash and I dislike a lot. I especially dislike my tummy and dysfunctional left leg. However, I have no qualms about stripping off in front of others. If they don't like what they see, then tough *shrug* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always been quite insecure about my body think its quite normal to feel that way these days
Really just seen your two photos what you complaining for lol or is that a body double lol x"
Regardless of how others perceive my body doesn't take away from personal insecurities about it |
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"Always been quite insecure about my body think its quite normal to feel that way these days
Really just seen your two photos what you complaining for lol or is that a body double lol x
Regardless of how others perceive my body doesn't take away from personal insecurities about it "
So what don’t you like about it? I’m sure when you go out you get smiled at, love people watching always checking out or what’s around me... maybe try it |
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over a year ago
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"I think we all have our hang ups/insecurities which tend to resurface when you meet someone new. My confidence is a working progress, lets just say."
Totally agree always harder when you meet someone new. |
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"I think we all have our hang ups/insecurities which tend to resurface when you meet someone new. My confidence is a working progress, lets just say."
I’m sure with the right people u can light up a room with your personality
The trick is getting the boring farts talking lol |
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"I think we all have our hang ups/insecurities which tend to resurface when you meet someone new. My confidence is a working progress, lets just say.
Totally agree always harder when you meet someone new."
You should always talk on the phone or Skype a lot before meeting that way you know then and they know you so your not having to have those long silences when you don’t know what to say I always say the phone call is the killer to a meet happening or not |
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It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes "
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away  |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away "
I always assume the latter. I get my validation from people whose respect I've earned. |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
I always assume the latter. I get my validation from people whose respect I've earned."
Or who've earned my respect.
I can't brain today I have the dumb |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I go through phases of being comfortable/less so with my body - the happier I am with myself the better I am at losing weight and feeling more confident with who I am. Right now, I like the way I look a lot. I don't think I'd do dress down/nudist beaches ever regardless of my size because they're not for me but I don't shy away from getting naked when having sex. |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away "
Exactly that ive had it with a previous ex partner, he would tell me he loves the way i look etc and then during a row he would do nothing but slam me down on my body etc and he apparently loved me then so yeah how can you tell if your getting the truth |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
I always assume the latter. I get my validation from people whose respect I've earned.
Or who've earned my respect.
I can't brain today I have the dumb"
Braining is overrated. Yes, you verbalise what I think (sorry guys). |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
Exactly that ive had it with a previous ex partner, he would tell me he loves the way i look etc and then during a row he would do nothing but slam me down on my body etc and he apparently loved me then so yeah how can you tell if your getting the truth"
He or her is an idiot you look amazing and that’s a great bum |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
Exactly that ive had it with a previous ex partner, he would tell me he loves the way i look etc and then during a row he would do nothing but slam me down on my body etc and he apparently loved me then so yeah how can you tell if your getting the truth"
I fully believe S when he says I'm gorgeous, perfect etc. And I know my fwb finds me attractive. Beyond them, I don't think I'm "conventionally" attractive and thus not the sort of woman guys come on here ideally looking for. I take everything with a ginormous pinch of salt on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
Exactly that ive had it with a previous ex partner, he would tell me he loves the way i look etc and then during a row he would do nothing but slam me down on my body etc and he apparently loved me then so yeah how can you tell if your getting the truth
I fully believe S when he says I'm gorgeous, perfect etc. And I know my fwb finds me attractive. Beyond them, I don't think I'm "conventionally" attractive and thus not the sort of woman guys come on here ideally looking for. I take everything with a ginormous pinch of salt on here "
Since all that with my ex i too take everything with a pinch of salt hopefully in time my body confidence will grow and the insecurities will dissappear  |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
Exactly that ive had it with a previous ex partner, he would tell me he loves the way i look etc and then during a row he would do nothing but slam me down on my body etc and he apparently loved me then so yeah how can you tell if your getting the truth
I fully believe S when he says I'm gorgeous, perfect etc. And I know my fwb finds me attractive. Beyond them, I don't think I'm "conventionally" attractive and thus not the sort of woman guys come on here ideally looking for. I take everything with a ginormous pinch of salt on here
Since all that with my ex i too take everything with a pinch of salt hopefully in time my body confidence will grow and the insecurities will dissappear "
Learning not to focus on what others think, but what you think, is part of the challenge. I wouldn't say I've mastered that entirely, but I do have a "don't care" attitude about others POV towards how I look. |
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Love the skin you are in. Through life we all create false beliefs about ourselves and others. It's understanding where these insecurities are rooted, whether they have substance or are justified.
When you reach the deepest depths of introspection you will learn to let go. You will realise there is no such thing as a perfect human with perfect form and accept yourself for the beautiful person you are in every dimension.
Learn to forgive yourself
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away
Exactly that ive had it with a previous ex partner, he would tell me he loves the way i look etc and then during a row he would do nothing but slam me down on my body etc and he apparently loved me then so yeah how can you tell if your getting the truth
I fully believe S when he says I'm gorgeous, perfect etc. And I know my fwb finds me attractive. Beyond them, I don't think I'm "conventionally" attractive and thus not the sort of woman guys come on here ideally looking for. I take everything with a ginormous pinch of salt on here
Since all that with my ex i too take everything with a pinch of salt hopefully in time my body confidence will grow and the insecurities will dissappear
Learning not to focus on what others think, but what you think, is part of the challenge. I wouldn't say I've mastered that entirely, but I do have a "don't care" attitude about others POV towards how I look."
I totally understand that as i used to have that same attitude ie dont like it dont look etc.. need my old attitude back lol |
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"It’s a bit of a problem for us sometimes thinking about our own bodies. For S her size makes her insecure and so making her feel sexy can be hard, especially when I’m an avid believer that she’s stunning. Guys on here also give her a confident boost with kind words. For L it’s just not being able to feel sexy, how does a guy present himself in a way that’s enticing. It’s a weird position to be in but we take it as it comes
I never know whether guys on here are being truthful or just saying nice things to get their end away "
Depends on the guy I suppose but when playing with a couple a couple of years ago the lady had surgery to her left breast and said that she was uncomfortable taking off her top. I respected her privacy and after a short while she asked what I thought about scaring which I said I was fine with. She then relaxed and I was allowed to share her revealing her scaring with me to which I made sure I paid careful exquisite sensual attention too. We have had some lovely relaxed times together before covid. |
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I strongly dislike my own appearance. I have no illusions about my litany of shortcomings. I *hate* photographs myself.
On the other hand, I have zero issues getting naked and performing in front of an audience. The loophole that allows this is that I'm not exhibiting *myself* – I'm exhibiting what I can *do*.
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By (user no longer on site)
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At my age I've learned I'm never gonna have a six pack again (many moons ago I was a size ten with abs). So I've come to embrace my curves and work with what I've got |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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"I like myself from the back or chest upwards. Below the waist is a car crash and I dislike a lot. I especially dislike my tummy and dysfunctional left leg. However, I have no qualms about stripping off in front of others. If they don't like what they see, then tough *shrug*"
Exactly right none of us is perfect (dad bode here) but its the difference that makes us all unique and special .
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I used to be really bothered about most parts of my body, but since joining this site, I have learnt to like it just the way it is. The only part I still don't like is my bum.
I found that my body might not be to everyone's taste, but there are always people out there that like you for you.
I've grown in confidence and it's freeing not letting it worry me anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like my body but I'm working hard to lose weight, what as really shocked is the amount of men that love my tits. I loved mine when they were a 36b. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to hate being so slender, now i dont care and tbh i quite like to take my top off during hot summer days.. i may not weigh 12 stone and bench 100kg+ but ive worked on my physique as best i can and im happy with what ive got |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love my body and only my opinion of how i see myself is what matters to me.
People can either like it / Hate it / impartial to it whatever, It’s of no relevance to me ultimately what a person thinks .
Had so many people tell me don’t get boobs. Get a fake ass , get this , don’t get this blah blah
I can see for more emotional / sensitive types this can be a hard thing to handle. My friend is like this constant reassuring required. We find each otter alien in thought process over this
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