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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are men put off by it? Can they really tell? I couldn't give a toss and tbh the sight of stretch marks turns me on no end. I think the idea that you're somehow looser is absolute guff. |
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Nope, but some women do get very self conscious about this sort of thing.
If a play partner is wondering about whether a certain lady has had children during a meet, then they’re probably not the right play partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
Real men like real women of all shapes and sizes. I have never come across a man who has said he doesn’t have sex with a woman who has given birth.
I am all for women and men having preferences but saying something like that is rather abusive in my view.
Move on from anyone who says that and don’t give them the time of day, or suggest they save up for a sex doll if they want a virgin. |
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
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I would say there is nothing in it...comparing a fabber friend who had never had children & another who had 3 children, both different figures which also has nowt to do with it of course....who cares really...
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children  "
Maybe your age and younger , not at our age , it’s the norm. Met one that opted to pay for c sections to keep things neater, I didn't think much of her as a person but yes it was tighter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a mum and guys regularly comment that I'm very tight. I was worried after birth and asked my husband when we started having sex again xx"
Exactly the same for me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To this day I'm yet to have sex with a woman and think fuckinh hell she is lose more often I think they are tight maybe I'm wrong but it's not like I'm.throwing a sausage up the m5 is it lol |
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children
Maybe your age and younger , not at our age , it’s the norm. Met one that opted to pay for c sections to keep things neater, I didn't think much of her as a person but yes it was tighter. "
I had two children and until recently, had damage due to it (finally repaired in August after 18yrs). Even with the damage, it's always been commented on that I'm tight. I haven't come across any stigma. |
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children "
Could be an age thing and the porn generation, the unrealistic image of how bodies should look I guess.
Life experiences with "real" woman opposed to Instagram vixens soon change that. |
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No it makes little to no difference.
We have kids and we also enjoy fisting but Babygirls pussy and still be so tight she can squeeze ny soul out of my cock.
Although i love fucking her feshly fisted slack pussy.
It always goes back to nornal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children
Could be an age thing and the porn generation, the unrealistic image of how bodies should look I guess.
Life experiences with "real" woman opposed to Instagram vixens soon change that."
Totally agree id much rather be a 'real' woman anyday  |
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"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.
So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely "
In my experience woman that have had kids are a lot better. They know a good hard fuck won't break anything  |
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"I'm a mum and guys regularly comment that I'm very tight. I was worried after birth and asked my husband when we started having sex again xx"
Have to say that's a conversation I never had with my husband as didn't even think about it let alone worry.
Had first child naturally at 22 the other three were c-sections. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children "
I can honestly say I’ve never cared. I’ve had sex with women without children who aren’t as tight as some who have had them. It’s legitimately irrelevant in my mind and from what I’ve seen/heard I couldn’t have told you there was any stigma. A few women have mentioned it but that would more be their own misconceptions and worries which I’d always try to alleviate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.
So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely
In my experience woman that have had kids are a lot better. They know a good hard fuck won't break anything "
Lol class answer  |
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children "
Or a misconception probably from people watching too much porn and becoming ignorant about such things, that such things become a 'stigma' or even a thing to think about in a relationship is a dad sign of the times..
Him.. |
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children
Or a misconception probably from people watching too much porn and becoming ignorant about such things, that such things become a 'stigma' or even a thing to think about in a relationship is a dad sign of the times..
Him.."
Sad not dad.. |
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Every woman is different... one of the tightest pussies I’ve been inside belonged to a mother of 3... one of the “more accommodating “ was completely child free... and honestly I don’t care either way as long as they’re a friendly person and we’re having fun |
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
I have four kids. I can’t tell any difference. |
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"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.
So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely
In my experience woman that have had kids are a lot better. They know a good hard fuck won't break anything
Lol class answer "
A 'real world' answer as far as I know, there have been a couple of exceptions to prove the rule but that it what I have found
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children
Or a misconception probably from people watching too much porn and becoming ignorant about such things, that such things become a 'stigma' or even a thing to think about in a relationship is a dad sign of the times..
Him..
Sad not dad.."
I knew what you meant...and agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way |
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"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way"
Having a C section might not avoid changes to the vagina. Just the weight of carrying pregnancy can change the pelvic floor muscles and result in things like prolapse and other issues. So can not having babies to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way
Having a C section might not avoid changes to the vagina. Just the weight of carrying pregnancy can change the pelvic floor muscles and result in things like prolapse and other issues. So can not having babies to be honest. "
Sadly yeah not only vaginal deliveries can cause a problem within the pelvic floor etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:
A) Do not understand how female physiology works
B) That any scarring on a body is the story of their life and those marks are something that hopefully brought a lot more happiness and joy into their lives than the person complaining can ever offer.
If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:
A) Do not understand how female physiology works
B) That any scarring on a body is the story of their life and those marks are something that hopefully brought a lot more happiness and joy into their lives than the person complaining can ever offer.
If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you. "
Great reply totally agree |
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.
Fresh as a daisy now  |
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"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way"
Pelvic floor exercises can have a great effect on the vagina |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??
I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.
Fresh as a daisy now "
Really glad for you |
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??
I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.
Fresh as a daisy now
Really glad for you "
Well tbh it's always felt amazing for me but for my FB..... It's pretty great for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
No and no. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??
I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.
Fresh as a daisy now
Really glad for you
Well tbh it's always felt amazing for me but for my FB..... It's pretty great for them "
Yeah i bet lol |
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children
Or a misconception probably from people watching too much porn and becoming ignorant about such things, that such things become a 'stigma' or even a thing to think about in a relationship is a dad sign of the times..
Him..
Sad not dad..
I knew what you meant...and agree."
Is it a single or shallow male thing I wonder, most men in a relationship who have been there for the pregnancy and the birth are just relieved and thankful that all is well after..
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"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way
Pelvic floor exercises can have a great effect on the vagina "
exactly!!!!! and even at 61 and had 2 kids I still dont need tena!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely no that's a very outdated opinion well at least I thought it was.
Some males only feel potentially threatened by the VWE males a female could've had in the past. |
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"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way"
I trust she'll pay for a c section then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, but some women do get very self conscious about this sort of thing.
If a play partner is wondering about whether a certain lady has had children during a meet, then they’re probably not the right play partner."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
Im unaware if men being put off by this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children "
As others have stated..Who cares..?
Invite another male if the 'accommodation' will allow and discuss its' benefits.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think if a man is asking these questions he is really not the right person for any woman i would hope a true gent would not be so rude to ask , and for the original question no you can't tell the diffrence , if he dose say anything its because he's got a pencil dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I tell? Sometimes yes.
Does it stop me from being attracted and wanting to play? Absolutely not.
I think it also matters how many kids, I've known few women with say 1 or 2 kids where it made much discernable difference. But one former playmate had 5 and suffice it to say that there wasn't a whole lot of stretching going on. Still a great playmate though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I tell? Sometimes yes.
Does it stop me from being attracted and wanting to play? Absolutely not.
I think it also matters how many kids, I've known few women with say 1 or 2 kids where it made much discernable difference. But one former playmate had 5 and suffice it to say that there wasn't a whole lot of stretching going on. Still a great playmate though"
So do you think from either of those that if you didnt know for a fact they had children u would still have that same conclusion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I tell? Sometimes yes.
Does it stop me from being attracted and wanting to play? Absolutely not.
I think it also matters how many kids, I've known few women with say 1 or 2 kids where it made much discernable difference. But one former playmate had 5 and suffice it to say that there wasn't a whole lot of stretching going on. Still a great playmate though
So do you think from either of those that if you didnt know for a fact they had children u would still have that same conclusion "
Well, I mean it's difficult to speak in hypotheticals about what I might have thought had I not known but what I would say is that certainly the vast majority of mothers I've fucked (yes, evidently I'm a motherfucker haha) I wouldn't have assumed they had had kids if I didn't know, because for those women there was no evidence to assume from.
But there are a few where it would have been an assumption that they probably had kids due to physical attributes. The alternative interpretation simply being that they naturally had gigantic vaginas and other things. Which is of course also possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the only stigma attached to us it the same stigma attached to men without 10in cocks.
Ie its all in your head. Most people won't turn down someone for that. Some may but that's a filter that those are people you dont want to meet anyhow
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can tell the difference before I have sex with a woman. I ask her and she tells me.
I suspect the men put off by it are also the men who speak of "a female thats had children" instead of "a women who has had children". But that's just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I asked my mother once. She had five kids, four of us were born naturally. I knew that the 'giving birth stretches out and 'ruins' a vagina' was a myth but was just curious as to whether she felt any different after multiple births.
She said no and that no partner has ever commented on it. |
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Every woman is different (the same as every man is different) so you'd never get the same experience with one as another regardless.
If there is a difference (and I've not noticed one) after childbirth how could you tell unless it was comparing before and after with the same woman?
The only way to really try and show if anyone can tell is by doing a "pepsi challenge" type glory hole experiment. |
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
Off subject, but OP your bum is incredible! Wow x |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:
A) Do not understand how female physiology works
B) That any scarring on a body is the story of their life and those marks are something that hopefully brought a lot more happiness and joy into their lives than the person complaining can ever offer.
If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you. "
Don’t you know fab is full of experts on female anatomy and physiology ?
There is actually an expert on here, but she won’t comment for professional reasons , she does amazing work for women’s health in the private sector. Stuff that GPs just dismiss as normal after having kids or you wait years and years like another poster above said. Having kids changes your body , it would be bloody weird if you grow and could push them things out with no impact.... |
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"I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:
A) Do not understand how female physiology works
B) That any scarring on a body is the story of their life and those marks are something that hopefully brought a lot more happiness and joy into their lives than the person complaining can ever offer.
If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you.
Don’t you know fab is full of experts on female anatomy and physiology ?
There is actually an expert on here, but she won’t comment for professional reasons , she does amazing work for women’s health in the private sector. Stuff that GPs just dismiss as normal after having kids or you wait years and years like another poster above said. Having kids changes your body , it would be bloody weird if you grow and could push them things out with no impact...."
The dismissiveness of the "experts" is why it took 18yrs for my childbirth related damage to be repaired. In that time, I suffered considerably to the point where I could no longer go to the toilet without aid, and even then I couldn't "go" properly. But apparently that's normal
Most of the damage is now fixed and it's like I have a new lease of life. I can go to the loo in a couple of minutes, rather than half an hour or more. I still have uterine prolapse but I manage that with a medical device. I can have a normal and very satisfying sex life and most people would never know about any of my issues unless told (or they feel the device). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??
Off subject, but OP your bum is incredible! Wow x "
Thankyou |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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No difference whatsoever but you get silly guys who believe a woman with four kids has a loose vagina because of that fact, ridiculous. You can educate them till you're blue in the face with pelvic floor exercises, natural muscle retention, whatever, and they still won't believe it. I (he) use the 'woman with four kids' example because the tightest woman I've ever been with had four children, go figure. It's a silly assumption. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
My bits down there have definitely changed. I had my first by c section and then second vaginal and had a 3rd degree tear so had to be sewn up!  |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
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I sorta feel that guys saying they don’t notice a difference ( if it’s a long term partner) are being diplomatic. Some, I believe can be tighter, if they had to have stitching done? But I personally could tell.
Although if it’s the first time meeting somone or someone I’ve not met frequently I don’t think I could really notice as I don’t have a proper before reference. All that aside I feel a lot of women notice a difference after themselves anyway. Correct me if I’m wrong.
Honestly though I don’t think it’s anything to worry about at all. An ex of mine was very tight, a fwb I felt was a lot looser. Neither had had kids. Everyone is different. Embrace it x |
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"I sorta feel that guys saying they don’t notice a difference ( if it’s a long term partner) are being diplomatic. Some, I believe can be tighter, if they had to have stitching done? But I personally could tell.
Although if it’s the first time meeting somone or someone I’ve not met frequently I don’t think I could really notice as I don’t have a proper before reference. All that aside I feel a lot of women notice a difference after themselves anyway. Correct me if I’m wrong.
Honestly though I don’t think it’s anything to worry about at all. An ex of mine was very tight, a fwb I felt was a lot looser. Neither had had kids. Everyone is different. Embrace it x"
Being stitched after childbirth has bugger all to do with tightness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all and im be honest have been with a hell.of alot of women. Ive found gym girls/yoga goers have the tightest foofs.
The tightest women ive been with is a friend thats had 4 kids naturally but does yoga and is a daily gym goer.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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J was worried about this after she had the kids too. Kept saying sorry I am not tight anymore.
But I couldn’t tell the difference and also enjoy stretching her anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my son at a young age and I believe that makes a difference in how things bounce back. I’ve been told by quite a few sexual partners that I feel right, and I don’t think it‘s purely down to flattery as my last sexual partner wouldn’t have understood flattery if it hit Him in the face an he said it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
Never been able to tell, I think men just assume that a lady eho has had children is not going to be as tight as they would like...
We all know that just like dicks, all vaginas are different. I have been with someone who has had 3 children and she was as tight as anything, then again I have been with someone who hasn't had children and she was quite loose... |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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Personally I think it's rubbish. I doubt many would be able to tell the difference.
I used to play with someone who enjoyed fisting on a regular basis. The only thing she would insist on is cumming after a fisting as she felt it tightened her back up. Couldn't say if it was true but she pretty tight regardless. Plus she'd had two children. I would suggest it was someone who didn't really know what they were talking about. Unless there were extreme complications in giving birth, perhaps. |
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
If your fucking her in the maternity ward then yes you can tell |
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"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way
Pelvic floor exercises can have a great effect on the vagina "
This has prompted me to get squeezing
Every woman's body is different isn't it, unique and more perfect than you yourself might think. I've had a couple of c-sections myself and come complete with body hangups from my mahoosive babies (there was no way my 10lb 3-er was coming outta me naturally!), which the amazing man next to me (snoring his head off and not letting me chuffing sleep ) is helping me overcome. Being on this site has really opened my eyes as to how different, unique and beautiful people are in their their own way |
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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago
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I (Mr S) delivered one of our children unaided as we had no time to even get downstairs, so I have seen close up Mrs S' body do amazing things. It has never put me off though.
I loved Robbie Williams comment on watching the birth of one his children - 'it was like watching my favourite pub burn down' |
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"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children
Or a misconception probably from people watching too much porn and becoming ignorant about such things, that such things become a 'stigma' or even a thing to think about in a relationship is a dad sign of the times..
Him..
Sad not dad..
I knew what you meant...and agree.
Is it a single or shallow male thing I wonder, most men in a relationship who have been there for the pregnancy and the birth are just relieved and thankful that all is well after..
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Some of the replies on here shows it's not just single males. If woman are planning not to have a vaginal birth to stay tight for their man...well...each to their own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All woman are different, I don't see what all the hype is about. If one exercises their pelvic floor, a man will be none the wiser. Lets be honest, they all fit..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you tell if a woman has given birth? Well yes & no I guess - everyone is different, and vaginas stretch & change over a woman's lifetime anyway.
Penises are different shapes & sizes, and so are the internal workings of vaginas.
Some women who've had children, you'd have no way of knowing - others you can tell pretty much immediately.
I think the point is that everyone is different, and that's OK. |
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I think it would be an amazing test, for one of these so called “men” who believe this rubbish..... to have sex with a lady who has had children to find the opinion afterwards before telling him that the children were all c-sections!
If a “man” said anything like this to me I would walk on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Father of 3 boys with ex wife and found no noticeable difference in tightness.
I had the snip after number 3 and no loss in volume of cum (a work colleague honestly asked me if I still cum after it)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can't say I've ever noticed. Nor would it even occur to me, mid-deed, to ask '2 or 3 kids, dear?'.
Think I'm going to call bullshit on this one. I've never even asked a play partner if they have kids unless I'm thinking about a long term relationship and then it's because I way to get to know everything about them. |
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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago
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I actually prefer the post effects of childbirth of a women especially sexy and I have done since first liaison with a single mum a long time ago, love the tummy the boobs and everything else.
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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I only look into eyes, the sensations match the dilation, oh, her eyes.
Never known a lady who climaxed who doesn’t clinch, children, or not.
The lady’s reaction is the best bit.
Not if they have had children it not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read this and thought my god I now feel really self conscious because I’ve had 4 vaginal births...... then I thought actually who cares because I created life that’s more important than whether my vagina is as tight as it was. If men have an issue with that then that’s their problem Not mine. Plus there is always a way around that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.
Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"
No, absolutely no difference whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes you can tell the difference, but like in life nothing is the same. I prefer having sex with women who have had kids and I think most men do! And the reason well let's get it right.. women who have had kids are less self conscious in the bedroom in my opinion....im having an affair with a woman at the minute and she's a mummy by day and in her words a free agent and naughty mummy when we meet. |
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