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Wheres the love for the slim guys
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont really see much love for the slender guys out there, just the buff dudes and bears. So who likes a slender guy?
For some of us its pretty damn hard to feel attractive when we see women flocking to the hairy daddy bears and the smooth chiseled beach boys. I got an ectomorph body, means i burn off my food intake insanely fast, in order to put on any weight ad maintain it i need to eat 7 meals a day ranging up to 4000 calories, and muscle doesnt come easy for us unlike those who are mesomorphic body types. As you can imagine the food bill to maintain that costs a fortune.
Often i hear ppl say "oh youre so lucky you can eat and eat and not gain any weight"... no... just no. |
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"I dont really see much love for the slender guys out there, just the buff dudes and bears. So who likes a slender guy?
For some of us its pretty damn hard to feel attractive when we see women flocking to the hairy daddy bears and the smooth chiseled beach boys. I got an ectomorph body, means i burn off my food intake insanely fast, in order to put on any weight ad maintain it i need to eat 7 meals a day ranging up to 4000 calories, and muscle doesnt come easy for us unlike those who are mesomorphic body types. As you can imagine the food bill to maintain that costs a fortune.
Often i hear ppl say "oh youre so lucky you can eat and eat and not gain any weight"... no... just no."
If you check out S, you'll see I have a definite appreciation for slimmer guys. I don't really have a type, but I do generally prefer my men on the slim side or slim-but-buff, it would seem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you check out S, you'll see I have a definite appreciation for slimmer guys. I don't really have a type, but I do generally prefer my men on the slim side or slim-but-buff, it would seem."
Had a quick nosey.. i can say for sure im slimmer than he is. Most guys ive seen through my life who are as slender as me literally have no strength.. i feel like the hulk in comparison xD |
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"If you check out S, you'll see I have a definite appreciation for slimmer guys. I don't really have a type, but I do generally prefer my men on the slim side or slim-but-buff, it would seem.
Had a quick nosey.. i can say for sure im slimmer than he is. Most guys ive seen through my life who are as slender as me literally have no strength.. i feel like the hulk in comparison xD"
Hard to tell from pics. S is 6ft 4, so pics can be deceiving. I'm not too bothered about strength. I'm ridiculously strong, especially in the upper body, hence why I lift  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hard to tell from pics. S is 6ft 4, so pics can be deceiving. I'm not too bothered about strength. I'm ridiculously strong, especially in the upper body, hence why I lift "
Same... most ppl underestimate how strong i am, they just see a skinny guy and assume im a weakling.. I mean i gotta be strong for my build if wanna lift a girl into the standing suspended position |
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"I dont really see much love for the slender guys out there, just the buff dudes and bears. So who likes a slender guy?
For some of us its pretty damn hard to feel attractive when we see women flocking to the hairy daddy bears and the smooth chiseled beach boys. I got an ectomorph body, means i burn off my food intake insanely fast, in order to put on any weight ad maintain it i need to eat 7 meals a day ranging up to 4000 calories, and muscle doesnt come easy for us unlike those who are mesomorphic body types. As you can imagine the food bill to maintain that costs a fortune.
Often i hear ppl say "oh youre so lucky you can eat and eat and not gain any weight"... no... just no."
OP, I certainly understand where you're coming from. I'm the same with food intake and especially with some injuries that doctors have prohibited myself in actually lifting weights.... The struggle is unreal   |
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"Hard to tell from pics. S is 6ft 4, so pics can be deceiving. I'm not too bothered about strength. I'm ridiculously strong, especially in the upper body, hence why I lift
Same... most ppl underestimate how strong i am, they just see a skinny guy and assume im a weakling.. I mean i gotta be strong for my build if wanna lift a girl into the standing suspended position "
I'd never assume someone's strength from their physical appearance because my experience tells me there's little correlation. S is very strong too. Most people, however, are unsurprised to find out I'm strong/I lift because I'm a bigger woman. I've always been strong but more so since needing the wheelchair. Upper body strength has been extremely helpful to have |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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A work buddy of mine when i was at maccys years ago made a comment when i left the kitchen carrying one of the buns toasters.. theyre easily about 20-25kg.. turned to one of the other crew members and said "fair play he can lift".. he tried to take it off me thinking o couldnt carry it used to work at a sofa factory too, was lifting massive 3 seaters to head height with just one other guy, did that for 6 hours a day lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Often i hear ppl say "oh youre so lucky you can eat and eat and not gain any weight"... no... just no."
If I had a penny for every time people said the same sentence to me, I'd be a billionaire.
Also, it's apparently ok for people to constantly remark on the fact that you're skinny and that you should eat more and so on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also, it's apparently ok for people to constantly remark on the fact that you're skinny and that you should eat more and so on. "
Ha tell me about it.. if they understand human physiology and the different variations theyd understand that guys like us arent skinny out of choice.. as i said.. we need 4000 caloroes a day to gain weight and maintain.. more so if youre hitting the gym to reach anywhere over 10 stone.. thats easily £150 a month on just food alone nevermind the supplements that cost around £120 a month.. all that for just you
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"Also, it's apparently ok for people to constantly remark on the fact that you're skinny and that you should eat more and so on. Ha tell me about it.. if they understand human physiology and the different variations theyd understand that guys like us arent skinny out of choice.. as i said.. we need 4000 caloroes a day to gain weight and maintain.. more so if youre hitting the gym to reach anywhere over 10 stone.. thats easily £150 a month on just food alone nevermind the supplements that cost around £120 a month.. all that for just you"
S gets those comments, yes. He's 6ft 4 and about 74kg. I get the opposite comments about losing weight. Does it cancel out when ones is slim and the other fat?!
But in a nutshell, I quite like slim guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..Does it cancel out when ones is slim and the other fat?!
But in a nutshell, I quite like slim guys "
No, it does not. It's impolite either way, to point out when a body deviates from what society deems appropriate. As, you know, everyone has mirrors, and we're all very aware of our own bodies and how they look
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"..Does it cancel out when ones is slim and the other fat?!
But in a nutshell, I quite like slim guys
No, it does not. It's impolite either way, to point out when a body deviates from what society deems appropriate. As, you know, everyone has mirrors, and we're all very aware of our own bodies and how they look
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My comment about cancelling out was tongue in cheek, hopefully denoted by the little Smileyface. I still like slim guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"S gets those comments, yes. He's 6ft 4 and about 74kg. I get the opposite comments about losing weight. Does it cancel out when ones is slim and the other fat?!
But in a nutshell, I quite like slim guys "
Hahahaha if only... i do have a laugh though thinking there are guys out there who could easily bench 4 of me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the opposite lol, I just look at a slice of cake and gain half a stone, I have to eat at a caloric deficit just to maintain, never mind lose 
The grass is always greener hey |
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"S gets those comments, yes. He's 6ft 4 and about 74kg. I get the opposite comments about losing weight. Does it cancel out when ones is slim and the other fat?!
But in a nutshell, I quite like slim guys
Hahahaha if only... i do have a laugh though thinking there are guys out there who could easily bench 4 of me "
Could I bench one or more of you?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm the opposite lol, I just look at a slice of cake and gain half a stone, I have to eat at a caloric deficit just to maintain, never mind lose
The grass is always greener hey"
My adopted step mother is the same.. 2 below average meals a day and still gains weight. Breakfast and not even much for dinner. Then again though women tend to have slower metabolisms cos.. ya know.. they got the buns in the oven |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the opposite lol, I just look at a slice of cake and gain half a stone, I have to eat at a caloric deficit just to maintain, never mind lose
The grass is always greener hey
My adopted step mother is the same.. 2 below average meals a day and still gains weight. Breakfast and not even much for dinner. Then again though women tend to have slower metabolisms cos.. ya know.. they got the buns in the oven "
But I have female friends who are absolutely tiny and literally eat nothing but junk! I once had a housemate who had a serious aversion to fruit and veg, ate nothing but pasta, crisps and pastries and yet was a size 4! Meanwhile I'm over here praying my daily diet of vegetables, quorn and nuts will get me to at least average sized  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...Meanwhile I'm over here praying my daily diet of vegetables, quorn and nuts will get me to at least average sized "
Yeah, my mother is the same. She eats like a bird, and yet she gains weight from air alone, apparently. Methabolism is fun (not really, the bastard can go f itself) |
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By *lexakiMan
over a year ago
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"I'm the opposite lol, I just look at a slice of cake and gain half a stone, I have to eat at a caloric deficit just to maintain, never mind lose
The grass is always greener hey"
I wish I was a cake x ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But I have female friends who are absolutely tiny and literally eat nothing but junk! I once had a housemate who had a serious aversion to fruit and veg, ate nothing but pasta, crisps and pastries and yet was a size 4! Meanwhile I'm over here praying my daily diet of vegetables, quorn and nuts will get me to at least average sized "
Lol id give you a hig there but eh.. is slim guys are terrible huggers apparently
Theyre the "lucky" ones for ya  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yup, always very slim, takes such effort to build muscle but its not the worst problem to be able to eat whatever and stay lean lol"
Yeah that is pretty true.. i dont think i could stick to one of the weight gain and gym regimes without giving up the kebabs |
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"But I have female friends who are absolutely tiny and literally eat nothing but junk! I once had a housemate who had a serious aversion to fruit and veg, ate nothing but pasta, crisps and pastries and yet was a size 4! Meanwhile I'm over here praying my daily diet of vegetables, quorn and nuts will get me to at least average sized
Lol id give you a hig there but eh.. is slim guys are terrible huggers apparently
Theyre the "lucky" ones for ya "
Slim guys are not terrible huggers
My lovely husband is extremely snuggly and comfy to cuddle. I fall asleep quite happily on his shoulder  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems to be opposite problem up north lasses prefer slim amd skinny compared to chubby daddy types"
i heard liverpool is a great place to pick up girls on a night out cos most of the men are just scummy lmao
Was one girl i got chatting to from Newcastle who was into me but then she got cold feet and then got pissy with me after i hooked up with someone.. her loss haha |
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"Seems to be opposite problem up north lasses prefer slim amd skinny compared to chubby daddy types
i heard liverpool is a great place to pick up girls on a night out cos most of the men are just scummy lmao
Was one girl i got chatting to from Newcastle who was into me but then she got cold feet and then got pissy with me after i hooked up with someone.. her loss haha"
Tell you what al send some skinny lovers to u if u send some chubby lovers my way lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tell you what al send some skinny lovers to u if u send some chubby lovers my way lol"
Hahaha dunno if i can do that for you buddy.. have you seen what ppl think of me here? Lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its each to there own m8 but if people dont like i think opinions should be kept to themselves, no one should ever put anyone down because of body size."
Oh no i kinda meant most dont talk to me outside of the forum simply cos of my profile lol but if i see any chubby lovers on a related thread i point them youre way |
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My hubby is very thin and it makes me sick that he can eat what he likes and not put a pound on. His weight has never changed since he left school.
He hates it being so thin and finds most women look for more muscular types. He is a good looking guy IMO with a great personality but never has any luck on a night out. He hates it when he gets comments such as 'you need to put weight on' 'you need a good meal' or the like |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My hubby is very thin and it makes me sick that he can eat what he likes and not put a pound on. His weight has never changed since he left school.
He hates it being so thin and finds most women look for more muscular types. He is a good looking guy IMO with a great personality but never has any luck on a night out. He hates it when he gets comments such as 'you need to put weight on' 'you need a good meal' or the like"
Thats pretty shit tbh... its ironic that so many women have asked to be accepted by society for being large and curvy yet so many of them wouldnt accept a man for being slender and having a below average build. Pure hypocrisy... i dont buy the excuse "dont shame me for what im not attracted to" yet men have been shamed for years before body positivity became a thing for women, and these days now you have 'BBW culture'.. theres even BHM, big handsome men, yet nothing about slender guys.. granted theres not a great deal of interest in "petite women".. but i can guarantee they dont get shunted to the side lines than the majority of slender men |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I dont really see much love for the slender guys out there, just the buff dudes and bears. So who likes a slender guy?
For some of us its pretty damn hard to feel attractive when we see women flocking to the hairy daddy bears and the smooth chiseled beach boys. I got an ectomorph body, means i burn off my food intake insanely fast, in order to put on any weight ad maintain it i need to eat 7 meals a day ranging up to 4000 calories, and muscle doesnt come easy for us unlike those who are mesomorphic body types. As you can imagine the food bill to maintain that costs a fortune.
Often i hear ppl say "oh youre so lucky you can eat and eat and not gain any weight"... no... just no."
Just wait till you hit your 30’s
Enjoy all the pizza and cake now..... |
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"I dont really see much love for the slender guys out there, just the buff dudes and bears. So who likes a slender guy?
For some of us its pretty damn hard to feel attractive when we see women flocking to the hairy daddy bears and the smooth chiseled beach boys. I got an ectomorph body, means i burn off my food intake insanely fast, in order to put on any weight ad maintain it i need to eat 7 meals a day ranging up to 4000 calories, and muscle doesnt come easy for us unlike those who are mesomorphic body types. As you can imagine the food bill to maintain that costs a fortune.
Often i hear ppl say "oh youre so lucky you can eat and eat and not gain any weight"... no... just no.
Just wait till you hit your 30’s
Enjoy all the pizza and cake now....."
C, hitting your 30s means sweet FA. S is mid 30s and same weight since he was about 21 and if he takes after his dad (late 50s), he'll never change. He's just born to be slim....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just wait till you hit your 30’s
Enjoy all the pizza and cake now....."
Yeah...I was kinda hoping for that, but my genes said no. Baldness tho, that's what they're focusing on. |
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