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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do"
We agree with this totally.
Cheats are disrespectful and dishonest.
We sincerely hope that the innocent partners find out. |
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To be honest I really think none of us know what goes on behind closed doors in regards of men & women cheating, its not as black & white as some people make it on here, there are children / finances to think about etc etc which many cpls mainly stay together for even tho both parties except there marriage is all but over.
Not that I've ever been in that situation as us as a cpl are totally open with eachother & share the same fantasies etc etc.
Dont allways judge i think anyway.
Happy fabbing fabbers xx |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"To be honest I really think none of us know what goes on behind closed doors in regards of men & women cheating, its not as black & white as some people make it on here, there are children / finances to think about etc etc which many cpls mainly stay together for even tho both parties except there marriage is all but over.
Not that I've ever been in that situation as us as a cpl are totally open with eachother & share the same fantasies etc etc.
Dont allways judge i think anyway.
Happy fabbing fabbers xx"
this applies to me, judge if you like, I know it's cheating but I'm only human |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect"
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together. |
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together."
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together.
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
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We also agree with that totally. But 80% of the time the other partner hasn't gone outside of the relationship.
No sex or affection? Talk about it.
Whatever it is? Talk about it first.
Of course, if the other partner is cheating then all is fair. But otherwise?? Not fair at all. |
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together.
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
We also agree with that totally. But 80% of the time the other partner hasn't gone outside of the relationship.
No sex or affection? Talk about it.
Whatever it is? Talk about it first.
Of course, if the other partner is cheating then all is fair. But otherwise?? Not fair at all."
In my opinion its not always as easy as that. I'm not an apologist for people who go behind their partners back but I do know that life isn't always black and white and communication isn't always easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together.
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
We also agree with that totally. But 80% of the time the other partner hasn't gone outside of the relationship.
No sex or affection? Talk about it.
Whatever it is? Talk about it first.
Of course, if the other partner is cheating then all is fair. But otherwise?? Not fair at all.
In my opinion its not always as easy as that. I'm not an apologist for people who go behind their partners back but I do know that life isn't always black and white and communication isn't always easy "
Having been in that position, and also having seen others close to me in that position, communication is a damned sight easier than taking a chance to destroy your life partner. |
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together.
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
We also agree with that totally. But 80% of the time the other partner hasn't gone outside of the relationship.
No sex or affection? Talk about it.
Whatever it is? Talk about it first.
Of course, if the other partner is cheating then all is fair. But otherwise?? Not fair at all.
In my opinion its not always as easy as that. I'm not an apologist for people who go behind their partners back but I do know that life isn't always black and white and communication isn't always easy
Having been in that position, and also having seen others close to me in that position, communication is a damned sight easier than taking a chance to destroy your life partner."
you'd think so wouldn't you. I wish someone had told my first husband that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together.
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
We also agree with that totally. But 80% of the time the other partner hasn't gone outside of the relationship.
No sex or affection? Talk about it.
Whatever it is? Talk about it first.
Of course, if the other partner is cheating then all is fair. But otherwise?? Not fair at all.
In my opinion its not always as easy as that. I'm not an apologist for people who go behind their partners back but I do know that life isn't always black and white and communication isn't always easy
Having been in that position, and also having seen others close to me in that position, communication is a damned sight easier than taking a chance to destroy your life partner.
you'd think so wouldn't you. I wish someone had told my first husband that "
More fool him!
And I sincerely hope that you are far better off without him! |
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do
I think that people live a life that isn't ideal sometimes and find themselves in situations they didn't expect
We agree totally, but it is up to the person to deal with it the right way.
The question is, is that right way being dishonest and disrespectful to an innocent partner, or discussing the problems and agreeing together on the way forwards?
Even if it means the parting ways, any decision should be made together.
there's always the assumption that one partner is innocent, I think that's not always true.
We also agree with that totally. But 80% of the time the other partner hasn't gone outside of the relationship.
No sex or affection? Talk about it.
Whatever it is? Talk about it first.
Of course, if the other partner is cheating then all is fair. But otherwise?? Not fair at all.
In my opinion its not always as easy as that. I'm not an apologist for people who go behind their partners back but I do know that life isn't always black and white and communication isn't always easy
Having been in that position, and also having seen others close to me in that position, communication is a damned sight easier than taking a chance to destroy your life partner.
you'd think so wouldn't you. I wish someone had told my first husband that
More fool him!
And I sincerely hope that you are far better off without him!"
Thank you it was 41 years ago. I've been with Mr N for 40 years, its a distant memory now.  |
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By *ob64Man
over a year ago
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Since my wife died 14 years ago 3 years after I fell in love with my next door neighbour it was going great I went away for a weekend when I got back she was different I could not make it out it was not until she had to visit her sick sister she said but was meeting her first husband when she told me it knocked me for 6. 2 years later I meet another woman after 4 months I found her in bed with another man.
Since I find I can't trust women thats why I am on this site so I can get sex with no trust involved. |
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There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
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Well said. |
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"There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
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I totally understand.
There are some decent chaps too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
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Careful you don’t trip getting off that soap box!! 
Never judge when you haven’t been in that position! If you’re in a wonderful relationship, great for you! I hope it never turns sour, but ‘splitting on mutual grounds’ is massively difficult to enforce! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
Careful you don’t trip getting off that soap box!!
Never judge when you haven’t been in that position! If you’re in a wonderful relationship, great for you! I hope it never turns sour, but ‘splitting on mutual grounds’ is massively difficult to enforce! "
So the answer is to be dishonest instead??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together”
Only an absolute cunt would stop a child seeing a parent.
Using children to get revenge on a partner who has cheated makes you lower than them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together”
Only an absolute cunt would stop a child seeing a parent.
Using children to get revenge on a partner who has cheated makes you lower than them.
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Have to agree with that.
Children should never be the glue in a failing relationship, but equally should not be used as a weapon in a broken one |
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Avoid judging. It's easy to oversimplify from the outside. There is a whole continuum of cheating, and this site is just one aspect. Some revel in it and most don't.
Before jumping on soap box consider most users are quite happy to hide their real identity on Fab. Nearly all lie in one aspect or another (even by omission) to a prospective partner on here. Is that cheating? Self-preservation? or just acknowledging life is complicated.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Avoid judging. It's easy to oversimplify from the outside. There is a whole continuum of cheating, and this site is just one aspect. Some revel in it and most don't.
Before jumping on soap box consider most users are quite happy to hide their real identity on Fab. Nearly all lie in one aspect or another (even by omission) to a prospective partner on here. Is that cheating? Self-preservation? or just acknowledging life is complicated. "
In our opinion, hiding your identity on here is a lifetime apart from cheating on your chosen partner.
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"There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
Careful you don’t trip getting off that soap box!!
Never judge when you haven’t been in that position! If you’re in a wonderful relationship, great for you! I hope it never turns sour, but ‘splitting on mutual grounds’ is massively difficult to enforce! "
I was in a relationship for 15 years. The first 10 were wonderful, but then we started to drift apart.
During the final 4, there was no kissing, no hugging and no sex.
I had a few chances to cheat on her, but I didn't.
It may have been shit situation, but she was still my wife and I respected that (and she respected that I was her husband) and I think that is partly why an amicable split was easy for us (well as easy as a split from a long term relationship can be).
I do think we were lucky that we managed to achieve it though. |
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"Avoid judging. It's easy to oversimplify from the outside. There is a whole continuum of cheating, and this site is just one aspect. Some revel in it and most don't.
Before jumping on soap box consider most users are quite happy to hide their real identity on Fab. Nearly all lie in one aspect or another (even by omission) to a prospective partner on here. Is that cheating? Self-preservation? or just acknowledging life is complicated.
In our opinion, hiding your identity on here is a lifetime apart from cheating on your chosen partner.
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It's all just opinion. The point remains that people lie to themselves and others for various reasons; to gain something, to protect someone, big one, little white one - who knows. If all you see is the lie and not the why it does make a moral position easier to hold. Of course you should then apply that consistantly, even to yourself.
Choosing not to be involved with people who are not open with their partners is absolutely a fair personal choice. Judging them, condemning them, vilifying them without knowing the circumstances (and even then) is to act upon ignorance and enforce a faith in your own integrity that (as for most Fab users) may not even stand a cursory glance.
Love and let live. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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I'm that terrible guy who cheats. I've cheated on people in the past. I also meet people who are married. A lot of people on here, I'm afraid are lying. I'm not the only cheater. There are many reasons why people cheat. A lady who I currently see has not had sex with her partner for seven years. He simply doesn't want to anymore. She is a human being with needs. She still loves her hubby tho, which I respect, and would never leave him for me. Before people take a swipe at me remember, when a marriage is great, nobody cheats, but if it's not, different people manage it in different ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both have never cheated but have been cheated on in previous relationships
Don’t understand why people do it especially when swinging , nothing beats doing your fantasies with the one you love, to be able to have 100% trust and backing from each other to have fun together then be able to chat about it after is immense (big turn on for both talking about what we liked etc) ... cheating would just put stress on the mind, why do it when you can involve others together as a couple xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every one needs a little loveing, live and let live ,  "
Yes they do.
But living in a partnership means discussing and making decisions in that same partnership.
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Careful you don’t trip getting off that soap box!!
Never judge when you haven’t been in that position! If you’re in a wonderful relationship, great for you! I hope it never turns sour, but ‘splitting on mutual grounds’ is massively difficult to enforce! "
Well said. I can understand someone not agreeing with the principle of cheating but that rant was OTT. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont agree with cheating which is why I prefer meeting hotwifes. My preference is to fuck a sexy hotwife whilst hubby is there, or if he isnt there then at least video call him whilst we fuck. This way you can be sure its 100% not cheating.
Meeting cheating women just leads to drama which I can do without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone we got chatting to on here a while back messeged and told me to delete the messege after but if C was out, we could still have fun! I was like nope, politly declined, gave reasons why, waited for C to return to show her then blocked them. Its out of order. Why cheat if your in a world where extra sexual experiences are offered out in the open! My only guess is that her bloke didnt exist/know she was on here or she was a scammer, if a she at all!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than the amount of lyin cheatin 2timin
Deceitful shits on here,
Shaggin behind ur own partners backs
Wat u gain from it
Shows u have no respect or love to thrm
When they probably love the bones of u
Think of the other side
Ur shaggin behind their back DISCREETLY
I dont think so i think its more just greed
Want ur cake n eat it
If ur with a partner why not be on here with them and swinging together
Wat happens if u get caught out by ur partner
Hopefully they do the right thing n fuck u off
If there is no sex between u
Either talk to each other about it n try n work summit out
Or split up on mutual grounds
Then u can go n fuck who u want.
What if u have kids?
And Ur shaggin someone u shudnt
U get caught out
I wonder wat they wud do
Probably stop u seein ur kids
And kick u out the house if u lived together
Yet again
Why not just split up on mutual grounds lack of sex
But work summit out regsrding custody of ur kids
Then the days u dont have them u can go n fuck who u want
Pisses me off a lot on here who are shaggin DISCREETLY
Deffo gettin blocked from me
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Is this a poem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do"
If your partner doesn't know and consent then it's cheating and it's wrong x |
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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago
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Wish someone told my ex wife that and it was her cheating law stops lots of dads seeing kids heartbreaking seeing your 4 year-old at the time on another guys shoulders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who's cheating who ?
I've met married women back in the day and would do so again. Some people cheat because they can, some cheat because they feel they have little option.
Nobody owns your mind and body in this life or shouldn't. I actually don't care about their personal life it is non of my business.
Swinging and adult fun is just that fun. If your moral compass tells you differently then perhaps it's time for a new pastime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, but we won't meet cheaters. The one thing that does bug us however is when they admit on their profile they are cheating (fair play) yet further down suggest they are honest and dependable.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That’s terrible, I think they need to create a cheaters only site!
Lol.... "
Isn't that what Ashley Madison was all about? I wouldn't know as I've never been |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the risk of getting my head bitten off, on topic I have never cheated on L but I cheated constantly on my ex wife.
It's not always straightforward, she was a kind woman but had absolutely no intention of engaging sexually in an adequate way, Catholic etc. After having the discussions, her decision that she wanted to try to work on the sex life rather than split, and then months and years of zero actual effort to do so I cracked and cheated prolifically. I even came clean about it on a number of occasions.
Near the end she accepted an open relationship rather than splitting, which worked for a few months but she couldn't handle it but didn't want me to leave either. Lot of emotional manipulation etc.
At the finish I had to be cruel to be kind and just leave unilaterally, it broke her, but it was the best thing for both of us in the end. She's happier with someone who presumably has more achievable sexual ambitions for her, and I'm with L who certainly keeps me entertained enough that I don't stray. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, but we won't meet cheaters. The one thing that does bug us however is when they admit on their profile they are cheating (fair play) yet further down suggest they are honest and dependable..... "
Like you, we absolutely piss ourselves when we read that.
Those guys are seriously deluded. |
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"Each to their own, but we won't meet cheaters. The one thing that does bug us however is when they admit on their profile they are cheating (fair play) yet further down suggest they are honest and dependable.....
Like you, we absolutely piss ourselves when we read that.
Those guys are seriously deluded. "
Do you tell your parents or children that you have sex with other people?
Do your friends know? If you’ve had to lie to anyone about what you’ve done at any time, does that make you dishonest and not dependable?
I really find it strange that people don’t understand you can lie to one person and be honest and dependable with others |
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"Each to their own, but we won't meet cheaters. The one thing that does bug us however is when they admit on their profile they are cheating (fair play) yet further down suggest they are honest and dependable.....
Like you, we absolutely piss ourselves when we read that.
Those guys are seriously deluded.
Do you tell your parents or children that you have sex with other people?
Do your friends know? If you’ve had to lie to anyone about what you’ve done at any time, does that make you dishonest and not dependable?
I really find it strange that people don’t understand you can lie to one person and be honest and dependable with others "
Good point well presented, however I would add are they people you would normally share details about your sex life with? |
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I’d never ever meet a cheats personally.
I abhor it, I have been cheated on so I know how it feels.
I remember reading a news article some years back about a wife who took her own life when she found out about her husbands affair.
People will do what they want to do, but I would never want any part in someone’s misery like that. |
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By *m389Man
over a year ago
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Right wrong it all kind of depends on your morale compass which is influenced by the society you live in.
Did you have sex before marriage? For a lot of people, yes. Do you think it’s wrong? Probably not.
But realise there are places that would judge you and what you did as wrong. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live |
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over a year ago
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"More people cheat than swing right, I think cheating is a terrible thing to do"
Cheat and thou shalt not prosper.. But swinging means what. You can have sex with who you like, different ones, different times as to suit your lifestyle. Swing from one to the other and no one bat's an eye lid.
Cheating for a lot of people is their lifestyle each to their own.
Its a way of life for many in a sex less situation or just can't get enough.
Not in a relationship never cheated except at card game cheat.
Its not a judgement I don't meet folk who are. Women and men do this cheating each to their own.
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over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live "
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments. "
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view |
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over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view "
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you. |
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By *m389Man
over a year ago
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Jane is on trial for killing her husband.
Group 1: “a he’s a bad person, criminal, scum”
Group 2: “let’s hear her out first before deciding if she is a bad person, criminal or scum. Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly”.
Group 1: “no I’m entitled to my opinion, the woman’s a killer period. She’s a scumbag.”
Trial goes on...
Group 2: “well turns out she had been domestically abused for years and she just snapped when it all became too much”
Group 1: “she’s a killer, she was wrong, she could have just left the guy, easy”
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"Jane is on trial for killing her husband.
Group 1: “a he’s a bad person, criminal, scum”
Group 2: “let’s hear her out first before deciding if she is a bad person, criminal or scum. Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly”.
Group 1: “no I’m entitled to my opinion, the woman’s a killer period. She’s a scumbag.”
Trial goes on...
Group 2: “well turns out she had been domestically abused for years and she just snapped when it all became too much”
Group 1: “she’s a killer, she was wrong, she could have just left the guy, easy”
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That is the lowest of the low in our opinion.
People suffer domestic abuse everyday and that is disgusting. But to mention it in the same breath as cheating??
Well.... |
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"Jane is on trial for killing her husband.
Group 1: “a he’s a bad person, criminal, scum”
Group 2: “let’s hear her out first before deciding if she is a bad person, criminal or scum. Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly”.
Group 1: “no I’m entitled to my opinion, the woman’s a killer period. She’s a scumbag.”
Trial goes on...
Group 2: “well turns out she had been domestically abused for years and she just snapped when it all became too much”
Group 1: “she’s a killer, she was wrong, she could have just left the guy, easy”
That is the lowest of the low in our opinion.
People suffer domestic abuse everyday and that is disgusting. But to mention it in the same breath as cheating??
Well...."
I think he's just using it to illustrate that there's more than one way of looking at a situation |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you. "
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions |
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions "
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong."
It's wrong. But not in every circumstance. There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm single but my gf is married. She won't, and I don't want her to, leave her hubby. She loves him. Just zero sex for her for a decade. I'm discrete and can agree with some simple rules. What do you do? |
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over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong.
It's wrong. But not in every circumstance. There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm single but my gf is married. She won't, and I don't want her to, leave her hubby. She loves him. Just zero sex for her for a decade. I'm discrete and can agree with some simple rules. What do you do? "
Has she tried talking to him? |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong.
It's wrong. But not in every circumstance. There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm single but my gf is married. She won't, and I don't want her to, leave her hubby. She loves him. Just zero sex for her for a decade. I'm discrete and can agree with some simple rules. What do you do?
Has she tried talking to him?"
Yes, but he says he's not interested. Every other part of their marriage is fine tho |
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong.
It's wrong. But not in every circumstance. There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm single but my gf is married. She won't, and I don't want her to, leave her hubby. She loves him. Just zero sex for her for a decade. I'm discrete and can agree with some simple rules. What do you do?
Has she tried talking to him?
Yes, but he says he's not interested. Every other part of their marriage is fine tho "
Well in that case why not be straight up front with him? |
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"That would finish her family. This way works for her. Not ideal but everyone is happy (even if they don't know). They get on well. "
You say she loves him, maybe just not enough to be honest with him?
Is there a medical reason?? |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"That would finish her family. This way works for her. Not ideal but everyone is happy (even if they don't know). They get on well.
You say she loves him, maybe just not enough to be honest with him?
Is there a medical reason??"
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong.
It's wrong. But not in every circumstance. There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm single but my gf is married. She won't, and I don't want her to, leave her hubby. She loves him. Just zero sex for her for a decade. I'm discrete and can agree with some simple rules. What do you do? "
We know a woman who was a full time carer for her husband for years. He had various problems including dementia. When he was at respite care a couple of times a week she would have a man visit. She couldn't and wouldn'tdream of leaving her husband, she couldn't discuss it with him because he didn't really know who she was anymore but her ongoing care of him showed how much she loved him. I couldn't find it in my heart to criticise her or condemn her.
Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you criticise them too harshly is what I say |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"I wish people didn't judge and pretend to to be "holier than tho'". It tickles me when people talk of a moral compass on here. If it worries them, they should also remember, the vast majority of people in the uk, think everybody on fab is disgusting. Live and let live
Everyone’s judges it’s a natural human thing.
I do not think anyone is acting holier than thou but instead is having their opinion on cheats which you don’t like because you’ve admitted to being one yourself.
Just don’t read the comments.
I really don't mind other people's comments, I'm only trying to show a different point of view
I wouldn’t call it showing a different point of view telling others not to judge whilst you judge those who condemn cheating...
Everyone is allowed an opinion and everyone judges others, it’s human nature. If you’re happy with what you’re doing, don’t let posts on a forum from strangers stop you or bother you.
I haven't told anyone not to judge, I just said I wish they wouldn't. I'm not judging anyone about there opinions
So in your opinion, is it ok to cheat on a life partner?
We aren't judging, simply asking if it is right or wrong.
It's wrong. But not in every circumstance. There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm single but my gf is married. She won't, and I don't want her to, leave her hubby. She loves him. Just zero sex for her for a decade. I'm discrete and can agree with some simple rules. What do you do?
We know a woman who was a full time carer for her husband for years. He had various problems including dementia. When he was at respite care a couple of times a week she would have a man visit. She couldn't and wouldn'tdream of leaving her husband, she couldn't discuss it with him because he didn't really know who she was anymore but her ongoing care of him showed how much she loved him. I couldn't find it in my heart to criticise her or condemn her.
Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you criticise them too harshly is what I say "
I think you said that better than I could |
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By *implyjamesMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest I really think none of us know what goes on behind closed doors in regards of men & women cheating, its not as black & white as some people make it on here, there are children / finances to think about etc etc which many cpls mainly stay together for even tho both parties except there marriage is all but over.
Not that I've ever been in that situation as us as a cpl are totally open with eachother & share the same fantasies etc etc.
Dont allways judge i think anyway.
Happy fabbing fabbers xx"
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the thinking on this site from my point of view is that women seem to think most men are cheating hence why most now seen to ignore men and just jump straight to other women or couples but im single and single because im so straight talking. it is a shame not everyones the same |
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In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not. |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not. "
That's hardly the same as adultery though. |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though. "
Thank you for saying.
We see many people who cheat using this lame excuse. |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though. "
Agree but Adultery is not in the title of this thread. |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though.
Agree but Adultery is not in the title of this thread. "
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though.
Agree but Adultery is not in the title of this thread. "
True but I think it's what the op meant. Not telling your spouse or partner about your sex life is not the same as not telling your family. |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though.
Agree but Adultery is not in the title of this thread.
True but I think it's what the op meant. Not telling your spouse or partner about your sex life is not the same as not telling your family."
The basis of cheating or adultery is lying and keeping something secret. My point is that most of us lie to somebody or other who we know so that they do not discover what we get up to via this site. I'm in no means judging by saying this. |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though.
Agree but Adultery is not in the title of this thread.
True but I think it's what the op meant. Not telling your spouse or partner about your sex life is not the same as not telling your family.
The basis of cheating or adultery is lying and keeping something secret. My point is that most of us lie to somebody or other who we know so that they do not discover what we get up to via this site. I'm in no means judging by saying this. "
no the Op is 9n about cheating within a relationship as is odvious in the title isnt it |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not. "
Nope, and why should they? It's called having a private life. Our son actually knows (after he reached 18 and left home) as we never wanted him to discover and get the wrong end of the stick. Others if they ask we'd tell and not be ashamed as it's our lives. We just don't feel the need to tell everyone and the same goes for our financial details/other hobbies etc. |
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Well i for 1 think cheating, lying and sneaking about is disrespectful, immoral and stupid. And if people think lying about cheating to others is bad enough you lie to yourself telling yourself you not cheating and that you wont get caught or even that its for the best you got with the person because you liked them for 1 reason or another, sort ya heads out and talk to ya partner and tell them how ya feel |
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It astounds me that those who cheat are far more honest about doing so to a forum group most of them they have never met and have no connection to.
Perhaps the honesty is misplaced and given to a bunch of strangers when it should be given to their unsuspecting partners.
We state on our profile that we will not meet those who are cheating... |
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"In one way or another I think nearly all of us cheat. OK we may not be cheating with our spouses but in all honesty do our parents/children/all of our non swinging friends know what we get up to via this site? I think not.
That's hardly the same as adultery though.
Agree but Adultery is not in the title of this thread.
True but I think it's what the op meant. Not telling your spouse or partner about your sex life is not the same as not telling your family.
The basis of cheating or adultery is lying and keeping something secret. My point is that most of us lie to somebody or other who we know so that they do not discover what we get up to via this site. I'm in no means judging by saying this. "
There is a massive difference between lying to your life partner and lying to someone you know.
No comparison. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"It astounds me that those who cheat are far more honest about doing so to a forum group most of them they have never met and have no connection to.
Perhaps the honesty is misplaced and given to a bunch of strangers when it should be given to their unsuspecting partners.
We state on our profile that we will not meet those who are cheating..."
Yeah, I suppose I'm an honest cheater (is that a thing?) l also genuinely believe people might be fibbing on this thread about if they've ever cheated. I do get why they won't own up. |
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"It astounds me that those who cheat are far more honest about doing so to a forum group most of them they have never met and have no connection to.
Perhaps the honesty is misplaced and given to a bunch of strangers when it should be given to their unsuspecting partners.
We state on our profile that we will not meet those who are cheating...
Yeah, I suppose I'm an honest cheater (is that a thing?) l also genuinely believe people might be fibbing on this thread about if they've ever cheated. I do get why they won't own up. "
No such thing as an honest cheater.
We agree with you about there being a lot of liars on here though. |
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