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So. I’m divorced A long time. Meet up for casual sex here. All good.
Now there is a girl at work...who is around my age but is in a senior position. I THINK she might like me but I’m not good at reading signs!! I also don’t think it would be professional of me to ask her out as she is senior. Should I let her ask me out? Will she if she fancies me?
What signs should I look for lady’s if she is into me?
Thanks in advance if I get any replies
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over a year ago
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I'd advise you to take the advice you may get regarding the ladies position in your company
That is my advice
Hope I have advised you to the ladies advice above   |
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over a year ago
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She will go out of her way to talk to you if she's interested in you . That's what I do , I will start a conversation with that person.  Good luck. She may just fancy you too !! |
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"My ex was my boss and we ended up spending 25yrs together."
Cool.
Do you think she thinks less of me though for not asking her. There has been some signs from her..I think? It’s just she is my superior. She would no it’s difficult? |
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"My ex was my boss and we ended up spending 25yrs together.
Cool.
Do you think she thinks less of me though for not asking her. There has been some signs from her..I think? It’s just she is my superior. She would no it’s difficult?"
What will be will be. Things sometimes happen when you least expect. Shame their will be no office Xmas parties this year. |
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"My ex was my boss and we ended up spending 25yrs together.
Cool.
Do you think she thinks less of me though for not asking her. There has been some signs from her..I think? It’s just she is my superior. She would no it’s difficult?
What will be will be. Things sometimes happen when you least expect. Shame their will be no office Xmas parties this year. "
I was thinking the same  |
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"What is the saying... Don't dip your nib in the office ink well!
Yes. Your right. But she is great!"
There are plenty of successful romances that have started at work, this shouldn't put you off. Just remember to be really respectful, both in the way you approach her and in how you respond if she says no, the last thing you want is a sexual harassment complaint.
Cal |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
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Man up and just talk to her.
Have friendly conversation with her.
About what she likes to do in her spare time and just general. NON WORK RELATED chit chat.
You will soon get to see if there is any chemistry between you
Good luck xxxxx |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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I have always stayed clear of women I work with or at my work place. That is manly because of if it does work out or if the relationship turns nasty it makes your working environment so much more difficult. |
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The truth is none of us know her, we can't possibly tell you her intention. The only way you will find out is by talking to her, turn the conversation to leisure time, ask her what she does in the evening and at weekends. What is it that she does that makes you think she might be interested? |
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"What is the saying... Don't dip your nib in the office ink well!
Yes. Your right. But she is great!
There are plenty of successful romances that have started at work, this shouldn't put you off. Just remember to be really respectful, both in the way you approach her and in how you respond if she says no, the last thing you want is a sexual harassment complaint.
Excellent thank you
Cal"
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"Man up and just talk to her.
Have friendly conversation with her.
About what she likes to do in her spare time and just general. NON WORK RELATED chit chat.
You will soon get to see if there is any chemistry between you
Good luck xxxxx"
Thanks for the good luck xx
Man up..it’s not really about that I’m not shy and I do talk to her but she is my superior. I suppose I’m just sure of the signals she sends. Is she just being kind or is she interested? It’s a tough call. Ask her out, is that what’s she is waiting for? Or wait for her to ask me out and risk looking less of a man. If she says no it’s awkward...
thanks anyway I’m just clutching! X |
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"I have always stayed clear of women I work with or at my work place. That is manly because of if it does work out or if the relationship turns nasty it makes your working environment so much more difficult."
This is what I’m afraid of.
It’s a conundrum, ask her be a man risk everything, wait for her to ask? Will a woman ask? My age group?
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"The truth is none of us know her, we can't possibly tell you her intention. The only way you will find out is by talking to her, turn the conversation to leisure time, ask her what she does in the evening and at weekends. What is it that she does that makes you think she might be interested?"
I know I’m clutching at straws she I think is sending me the right signals I think?! and we do talk about outside work.
Thanks.
What signals do women send if they like a man? I’m out the game so long!! |
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"What signals is she sending you ? If it’s not frowned upon by the company ask her out for a coffee or a walk. She can only say yes or no. Good luck x"
Exactly, I could be getting signals mixed up! What signals should I be looking for that are obviously above work related being nice etc!
I’m not bothered about company policy tbh as there a married couple there that met there. I’m just worried about it being awkward if I’ve miss read signals.. |
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"Some companies have policies about this kind of situation. It might be worth checking otherwise you both could end up with some very unwelcome attention. "
Yes, which is why if you are interested OP, as she is your superior, you would have to do the asking out, otherwise it could be seen as her using her authority over you to extract sexual favours. |
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No need to play games , just be direct! Say or send a message that you might be wrong but feeling that there is a spark between you two and would love to take her out if feelings are mutual. If not, say sorry to reading the signs incorrectly.
Confidence is the winner and good luck!
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"No need to play games , just be direct! Say or send a message that you might be wrong but feeling that there is a spark between you two and would love to take her out if feelings are mutual. If not, say sorry to reading the signs incorrectly.
Confidence is the winner and good luck!
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Also don’t let the work limits you. If you start dating then you can discuss your options incase there are any policies. Personal happiness always more important than stupid work policies in my opinion |
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So. I’m divorced A long time. Meet up for casual sex here. All good.
Now there is a girl at work...who is around my age but is in a senior position. I THINK she might like me but I’m not good at reading signs!! I also don’t think it would be professional of me to ask her out as she is senior. Should I let her ask me out? Will she if she fancies me?
What signs should I look for lady’s if she is into me?
Thanks in advance if I get any replies
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What is it op that makes you think she is interested? |
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"Some companies have policies about this kind of situation. It might be worth checking otherwise you both could end up with some very unwelcome attention.
Yes, which is why if you are interested OP, as she is your superior, you would have to do the asking out, otherwise it could be seen as her using her authority over you to extract sexual favours. "
Oh ok. Really glad I asked. Thank you |
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"No need to play games , just be direct! Say or send a message that you might be wrong but feeling that there is a spark between you two and would love to take her out if feelings are mutual. If not, say sorry to reading the signs incorrectly.
Confidence is the winner and good luck!
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Thanks |
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"No need to play games , just be direct! Say or send a message that you might be wrong but feeling that there is a spark between you two and would love to take her out if feelings are mutual. If not, say sorry to reading the signs incorrectly.
Confidence is the winner and good luck!
Also don’t let the work limits you. If you start dating then you can discuss your options incase there are any policies. Personal happiness always more important than stupid work policies in my opinion "
I agree thank you |
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So. I’m divorced A long time. Meet up for casual sex here. All good.
Now there is a girl at work...who is around my age but is in a senior position. I THINK she might like me but I’m not good at reading signs!! I also don’t think it would be professional of me to ask her out as she is senior. Should I let her ask me out? Will she if she fancies me?
What signs should I look for lady’s if she is into me?
Thanks in advance if I get any replies
What is it op that makes you think she is interested? "
It’s the way I’ve caught her sneaking glances. She is very good to me, not to others I might add! Could I say she kinda melts a bit and lights up when I’m around... |
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"Just go for it! How could she resist your cheeky charm?? . Hope it works out for you. Xx"
Your too kind! Normally, and you actually know me, I WOULD I’m not slow!! I really really like my job though 
Ok so put yourself in my position, if you fancied me at work but was senior would you ask me? Would you think I’m a pussy for not asking you?
What signals would you send me? |
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"Just go for it! How could she resist your cheeky charm?? . Hope it works out for you. Xx
Your too kind! Normally, and you actually know me, I WOULD I’m not slow!! I really really like my job though
Ok so put yourself in my position, if you fancied me at work but was senior would you ask me? Would you think I’m a pussy for not asking you?
What signals would you send me?"
At the end of the day you’re both adults. What’s the worst that can happen? If you’re respectful in your approach and she says no then no harm done. Life’s too short! Xx |
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"Just go for it! How could she resist your cheeky charm?? . Hope it works out for you. Xx
Your too kind! Normally, and you actually know me, I WOULD I’m not slow!! I really really like my job though
Ok so put yourself in my position, if you fancied me at work but was senior would you ask me? Would you think I’m a pussy for not asking you?
What signals would you send me?
At the end of the day you’re both adults. What’s the worst that can happen? If you’re respectful in your approach and she says no then no harm done. Life’s too short! Xx"
Yes your right. I no all the above. Hmmmmm. |
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"The truth is none of us know her, we can't possibly tell you her intention. The only way you will find out is by talking to her, turn the conversation to leisure time, ask her what she does in the evening and at weekends. What is it that she does that makes you think she might be interested?
I know I’m clutching at straws she I think is sending me the right signals I think?! and we do talk about outside work.
Thanks.
What signals do women send if they like a man? I’m out the game so long!!"
Observe how she is with other people, men and women. Is she different with you, more friendly, spends extra time with you things like that? |
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So. I’m divorced A long time. Meet up for casual sex here. All good.
Now there is a girl at work...who is around my age but is in a senior position. I THINK she might like me but I’m not good at reading signs!! I also don’t think it would be professional of me to ask her out as she is senior. Should I let her ask me out? Will she if she fancies me?
What signs should I look for lady’s if she is into me?
Thanks in advance if I get any replies
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DO NOT GO THERE IF YOU VALUE YOUR LIFE AND JOB.
your choice obviously |
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"The truth is none of us know her, we can't possibly tell you her intention. The only way you will find out is by talking to her, turn the conversation to leisure time, ask her what she does in the evening and at weekends. What is it that she does that makes you think she might be interested?
I know I’m clutching at straws she I think is sending me the right signals I think?! and we do talk about outside work.
Thanks.
What signals do women send if they like a man? I’m out the game so long!!
Observe how she is with other people, men and women. Is she different with you, more friendly, spends extra time with you things like that? "
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So. I’m divorced A long time. Meet up for casual sex here. All good.
Now there is a girl at work...who is around my age but is in a senior position. I THINK she might like me but I’m not good at reading signs!! I also don’t think it would be professional of me to ask her out as she is senior. Should I let her ask me out? Will she if she fancies me?
What signs should I look for lady’s if she is into me?
Thanks in advance if I get any replies
DO NOT GO THERE IF YOU VALUE YOUR LIFE AND JOB.
your choice obviously "
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Grey area at work, if it goes wrong you still got to see her,but you gotta do what you feel is best for you, its a tough one and I really do feel for you hope it all goes well for you. Good luck  |
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"Grey area at work, if it goes wrong you still got to see her,but you gotta do what you feel is best for you, its a tough one and I really do feel for you hope it all goes well for you. Good luck "
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