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Is hotwife the correct term?
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"For a married woman who plays alone with permission but without any involvement or influence from her husband or vice versa? Xx"
I would say a couple where the husband likes to watch his wife is more of a correct term for the ‘hotwife’ scenario.
But then again there are ‘hot’ women who are married and play alone are also known as a ‘hotwife’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?"
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking 
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx |
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx"
You certainly are sexy ahah but yes i would say your a hotwife living the stag & vixen lifestyle
Depends what you would like to call yourself...
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx"
You are a dream come true to most men, not sure of the correct term for that. X |
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx"
I think slutwife suits you well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx
I think slutwife suits you well"
Perhaps it does 
The main reason I don't like the label hotwife is it seems to imply cuckold. That's not our set up at all. I just love playing around, but happen to me married too, and he doesn't mind. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx
I think slutwife suits you well
Perhaps it does
The main reason I don't like the label hotwife is it seems to imply cuckold. That's not our set up at all. I just love playing around, but happen to me married too, and he doesn't mind. Xx"
Sounds like you have the perfect set up... Yeah I think a hot wife implies the husband likes to watch. Whereas a slutwife just goes off and does her thing on her own. Do you not meet single men though? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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As we understand it:
Hotwife - she decides who she sleeps with but it's done with the agreement and consent of him.
Stag & Vixen - he decides who she sleeps with and it's arranged with her consent.
Cuckold - she decides who she sleep with whether he agrees or likes it or not. More humiliation involved.
We, as a couple, hover around the Hotwife and Stag/Vixen but Bry might like some mild humiliation one day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx
I would say that is more of a ‘stag & vixen’ lifestyle?
I'm not sure tbh. That's why I'm asking
Am I hotwife, vixen, slutwife, married with permission? Lol xx
I think slutwife suits you well
Perhaps it does
The main reason I don't like the label hotwife is it seems to imply cuckold. That's not our set up at all. I just love playing around, but happen to me married too, and he doesn't mind. Xx
Sounds like you have the perfect set up... Yeah I think a hot wife implies the husband likes to watch. Whereas a slutwife just goes off and does her thing on her own. Do you not meet single men though?"
I used to meet 1-2 single men a week as well as couples when I was really playing hard. Due to covid, illness, and life in general I've turned on the single guys filter as I'm more interested in making connections with women, couples, and groups for play later. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As we understand it:
Hotwife - she decides who she sleeps with but it's done with the agreement and consent of him.
Stag & Vixen - he decides who she sleeps with and it's arranged with her consent.
Cuckold - she decides who she sleep with whether he agrees or likes it or not. More humiliation involved.
We, as a couple, hover around the Hotwife and Stag/Vixen but Bry might like some mild humiliation one day."
Yeah the terminology is concretely defined either and open to some interpretation which makes it more awkward. I've usually identified as hotwife but hate people assuming it's a cuck relationship. And we're not Stag and Vixen as I understand it. I've tried just saying I'm single playing alone but then people assume I'm cheating when they see the rings. Joking aside maybe it is slutwife lol xx |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"Hubby doesn't watch unless I film it. There's no humiliation or denial stuff going on. I just have sex with others. Xx   "
we can understand that ... vixen and stag situation with us ... watching is great, he can join in sometimes ... |
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"As we understand it:
Hotwife - she decides who she sleeps with but it's done with the agreement and consent of him.
Stag & Vixen - he decides who she sleeps with and it's arranged with her consent.
Cuckold - she decides who she sleep with whether he agrees or likes it or not. More humiliation involved.
We, as a couple, hover around the Hotwife and Stag/Vixen but Bry might like some mild humiliation one day."
Thanks for the clear explanation.
We definitely are Stag & Vixen
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As we understand it:
Hotwife - she decides who she sleeps with but it's done with the agreement and consent of him.
Stag & Vixen - he decides who she sleeps with and it's arranged with her consent.
Cuckold - she decides who she sleep with whether he agrees or likes it or not. More humiliation involved.
We, as a couple, hover around the Hotwife and Stag/Vixen but Bry might like some mild humiliation one day."
This is pretty much the same definition I use as a guide - great explanation though, very useful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For a married woman who plays alone with permission but without any involvement or influence from her husband or vice versa? Xx"
I used to do this with my ex husband. He rarely played with me and my fwb, was more happy with being sent photos and videos etc.
We used to class it as 'Stag & Vixen' as there was no cuckolding or anything like that going on. But tbf, as long as you're enjoying it, you don't need to stick a label on it. Just enjoy it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For a married woman who plays alone with permission but without any involvement or influence from her husband or vice versa? Xx
I used to do this with my ex husband. He rarely played with me and my fwb, was more happy with being sent photos and videos etc.
We used to class it as 'Stag & Vixen' as there was no cuckolding or anything like that going on. But tbf, as long as you're enjoying it, you don't need to stick a label on it. Just enjoy it xx"
That’s how I view sex as a whole.
I think some people are somewhat worried about getting labelled, perhaps a little bit of guilt for wanting to try something or indeed tried something.
It’s sex, it’s extremely pleasurable with the right person/persons and with everyone’s consent, so my advice would be to switch off and enjoy without feeling anything but pleasure.
Just my two’penny worth |
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