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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
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Michael |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your thread wasn't in the slightest nasty and you have nothing to apologise about.
Although some of the people who replied probably should apologise to you."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your thread wasn't in the slightest nasty and you have nothing to apologise about.
Although some of the people who replied probably should apologise to you."
What was it about? |
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Hi Micheal,
I saw the thread yesterday, I didn’t comment as others had already expressed similar sentiments to my own. However, I thought your honest and direct approach was entirely appropriate, it certainly didn’t offend me nor should it anyone else.
As in life, you’ll find some more receptive and sympathetic than others. However, I appreciate that Aspergers can affect both how you come across to people and how they and their comments are perceived by you. This is really why I and other concerned forumites wondered if this was the right place to find what you’re looking for.
Good luck! |
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I’ve read that thread and you weren’t nasty to anyone and have no need to apologise. Some other people however should think about whether they really want to be forum famous for attacking a disabled person the way they did. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
Kind Regards
Michael "
Good evening Michael  You have nothing to apologise for, others on there should be apologising. I'm sorry your thread got hijacked, as it was an Interesting discussion. Have a lovely weekend |
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We didn’t comment in the original post OP - but we were perusing it here and there.
Doesn’t seem like you have anything to apologise for. Many people should probably be reaching out to you to apologise in all honesty.
None of us are that blessed and good looking that we tick everyone’s fantasy box - it’s a hard slog for everyone. Just keep at it, stick with your convictions and I’m sure you’ll find someone that is exactly what you need.
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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago
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Hey Mike,
I saw your original post yesterday and I personally don’t think you have anything to apologise for. The forums can be a harsh place sometimes and people will always develop opinions on things but that is no reflection on yourself.
Hope you’re doing well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about it dude don't know what is was about but remember not everyone is you're friend don't just try and please everyone especially on here it's pointless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s the thread the mod closed I didn’t take part in it but I certainly don’t think it’s you who needs to be apologising.
My son is diagnosed aspergers and he has issues with idiots who don’t understand too.
You handled the thread very well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen the couple who started that shit bully others on the site as well. They're the ones (as well as some others) who should be apologising to you. You did nothing wrong.
Keep your chin up man. You're awesome.
Jake and Becky x |
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"Your thread wasn't in the slightest nasty and you have nothing to apologise about.
Although some of the people who replied probably should apologise to you."
Exactly what I was going to say, too
Nothing for you to apologise for Michael. Good luck in your search  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow. I've just read it and have to agree
Totally unacceptable on the behalf of others, who I'm surprised are still here to be honest.
I don't think an apology is required from yourself. I thought it was a genuine and honest post that should be very welcome |
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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
Kind Regards
Michael "
Hey Mike.
I was sad to read about this. My husband has ASD level 1 and so I have a little experience of the ups downs. Pros and Cons that can occur at any point really. If you fancy a chat any time. Say hi. Otherwise enjoy the world. Find the silver linings and revel in your uniqueness.
Peaches.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly a lot of innocent threads get replies from people wanting to twist them or add something nasty. It’s a sad thing when it happens but hey there’ll always be sad people right! You weren’t nasty so don’t worry mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
Kind Regards
Michael "
"Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
Kind Regards
Michael "
Michael. I have just read through the thread. You my dear have nothing to apologise for. I have a 17 year old son who has Aspergers. I understand the trials and tribulations associated with it all and how difficult it is for you to understand emotions when communicating. Actually disgusted at how some small minded people on that thread conducted themselves. Should be totally ashamed. Especially in this day and age where mental health is such a big thing. The risk of suicide is high in people with ASD due to their difficulty in connecting with others. All you did was be open and honest with your communication in a respectful manner that was innocent in its approach. You are not responsible for how others take that. That is on them. Unfortunately in this case you encountered some right arseholes. You have been given some good advice. Keep doing you and you will find your way. Much love xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually you doing this thread shows the fact you have a good character so do not worry anymore as it appears you have a lot of people saying you’ve done nothing wrong.
Sending a big kiss and wishing you well mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve just read through the thread and I am disgusted with some of the comments. The ignorance, rudeness and how unkind some can be never fails to surprise me. The same people were probably sharing “be kind” posts not long ago.
You have nothing to apologise for.
Sure, you won’t be for everyone, but neither is anyone else. Well done for being honest and good luck with your search. |
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I've also just read the thread. And you did nothing that needs appologising for. You've been upfront and honest which is admirable of you. I wish you all the luck in the world finding what you seek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell "
Awwwww wish it was me they messaged. I'm in the mood to tear some arseholes tonight. And if it happens to be one of the ignorant f***** from that thread then bring them my way Or even better let them have the balls to spout their shite in here. Cannot stand bullying of any kind. Especially when it is disguised as 'freedom of speech' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell "
Nothing but bullies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
Awwwww wish it was me they messaged. I'm in the mood to tear some arseholes tonight. And if it happens to be one of the ignorant f***** from that thread then bring them my way Or even better let them have the balls to spout their shite in here. Cannot stand bullying of any kind. Especially when it is disguised as 'freedom of speech' "
Honestly they started going on about how my being kind means I should have sex with him...ermmmm wtf clowns......honestly it was a couple too...of arseholes obvs lol.....they kept on too...The absolute muppets .....wanna be pimps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
Nothing but bullies."
They can’t bully me tho  . They obviously thought they could try........but alas they failed and I won due to the fact I actually have a brain....so sad tho isn’t it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
Awwwww wish it was me they messaged. I'm in the mood to tear some arseholes tonight. And if it happens to be one of the ignorant f***** from that thread then bring them my way Or even better let them have the balls to spout their shite in here. Cannot stand bullying of any kind. Especially when it is disguised as 'freedom of speech'
Honestly they started going on about how my being kind means I should have sex with him...ermmmm wtf clowns......honestly it was a couple too...of arseholes obvs lol.....they kept on too...The absolute muppets .....wanna be pimps "
Just a lot of cunts with an opinion as always  I am sure they are just bored so trolling for something to do, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
Awwwww wish it was me they messaged. I'm in the mood to tear some arseholes tonight. And if it happens to be one of the ignorant f***** from that thread then bring them my way Or even better let them have the balls to spout their shite in here. Cannot stand bullying of any kind. Especially when it is disguised as 'freedom of speech'
Honestly they started going on about how my being kind means I should have sex with him...ermmmm wtf clowns......honestly it was a couple too...of arseholes obvs lol.....they kept on too...The absolute muppets .....wanna be pimps
Just a lot of cunts with an opinion as always I am sure they are just bored so trolling for something to do, "
It was such a crying shame as I really really wanted to meet them ....pmsl ....yes I agree...I am sat crying into my wine for them now lol ...just shows tho how bitter people can be if someone says something nice..how very odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
Awwwww wish it was me they messaged. I'm in the mood to tear some arseholes tonight. And if it happens to be one of the ignorant f***** from that thread then bring them my way Or even better let them have the balls to spout their shite in here. Cannot stand bullying of any kind. Especially when it is disguised as 'freedom of speech'
Honestly they started going on about how my being kind means I should have sex with him...ermmmm wtf clowns......honestly it was a couple too...of arseholes obvs lol.....they kept on too...The absolute muppets .....wanna be pimps
Just a lot of cunts with an opinion as always I am sure they are just bored so trolling for something to do,
It was such a crying shame as I really really wanted to meet them ....pmsl ....yes I agree...I am sat crying into my wine for them now lol ...just shows tho how bitter people can be if someone says something nice..how very odd "
Just a lot of weird ranty peons tbh much same as Twitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
I've just had the same message. "
Hmmmmm were they 51. Obviously they are very bitter ....let’s hope they don’t waste anymore of their lives sending these messages
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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Can people just stop apologising for ‘offending’ every fucker these days... man up... and get on with life ffs... no disrespect to the original poster but so much hot air and BS when everyone should have told them to do one ffs..
Sorry been a long day but wtf? |
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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell "
I received the same message, presumably from the same couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly op opinions are like assholes everyone has them and some like to air theirs a little too much take no notice and don't be sorry for being open and honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
I received the same message, presumably from the same couple "
Obviously they’re targeting women n couples...have they sent the messages to men I wonder or is it for us women only...how pathetic of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey Mike,
I saw your original post yesterday and I personally don’t think you have anything to apologise for. The forums can be a harsh place sometimes and people will always develop opinions on things but that is no reflection on yourself.
I’m doing ok, been out with a friend for a social distance drink for a change of scenery, which has been nice to get out for afew hours .
Hope you’re doing well! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually you doing this thread shows the fact you have a good character so do not worry anymore as it appears you have a lot of people saying you’ve done nothing wrong.
Sending a big kiss and wishing you well mr "
Thankyou x Thankyou to everyone for all your comments , best wishes to you all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've seen the couple who started that shit bully others on the site as well. They're the ones (as well as some others) who should be apologising to you. You did nothing wrong.
Keep your chin up man. You're awesome.
Jake and Becky x"
Thankyou for comment , are you both doing ok ? Hi Becky |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Actually you doing this thread shows the fact you have a good character so do not worry anymore as it appears you have a lot of people saying you’ve done nothing wrong.
Sending a big kiss and wishing you well mr
Thankyou x Thankyou to everyone for all your comments , best wishes to you all "
Aaw you're very welcome, .Michael xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
I received the same message, presumably from the same couple
Obviously they’re targeting women n couples...have they sent the messages to men I wonder or is it for us women only...how pathetic of them "
I got the same. |
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
I received the same message, presumably from the same couple
Obviously they’re targeting women n couples...have they sent the messages to men I wonder or is it for us women only...how pathetic of them
I got the same. "
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Michael,
As others have said, you have absolutely nothing to apologise for, you were just being honest - which is more than can be said of many on here.
I have a familial experience of Aspergers so understand you. Sadly, as you will know there are many who are not educated and as a result very ignorant ... and most probably not nice people I would bother about anyway, they simply aren’t important. They show themselves for what they are.
I hope you find what you are looking for, you deserve some fun, as we all do
Rachel xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just got a message from a couple after reading my kind words On this post they said “I should have sex with this man (OP) what the hell
I received the same message, presumably from the same couple
Obviously they’re targeting women n couples...have they sent the messages to men I wonder or is it for us women only...how pathetic of them
I got the same.
Now I feel left out "
So do I!! |
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Morning Michael, I agree with everyone on this thread. Just read through the post and you didn’t say anything terrible or was rude in any way.
Both of my sons are autistic, so I’m obviously going to be sympathetic to your condition.
Some good advice was passed on, so maybe take heed of that, rather than worry over those who were arguing amongst themselves |
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"Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
Kind Regards
Michael "
Haters gonna hate Michael, if you're to nice you'll get accused of being a white knight if you disagree with some of the usual suspects they'll gang up.
Best advise is to think about what your posting and if you know in your heart of hearts it's not rude or offensive then stuff the haters.
Just remember that it's the haters that have the real issues not you
Live your best life and be happy
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Good evening , I would like to apologise for the thread I put on yesterday, I had no intention of been nasty to anyone & I don’t want to be nasty to anyone , so I apologise to those I may have upset or offended. I really would like to be right with people, been nasty doesn’t get you any where, I’m here to respect people.
Kind Regards
Michael
Haters gonna hate Michael, if you're to nice you'll get accused of being a white knight if you disagree with some of the usual suspects they'll gang up.
Best advise is to think about what your posting and if you know in your heart of hearts it's not rude or offensive then stuff the haters.
Just remember that it's the haters that have the real issues not you
Live your best life and be happy
Good luck"
Cheers buddy , hope your well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aspie..... says it how it is! If people dont get that and are offended, shame on you! Good luck x (Married to an Aspie)
My son is an Aspie..."
How does find things ? is he doing ok ?
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"Aspie..... says it how it is! If people dont get that and are offended, shame on you! Good luck x (Married to an Aspie)
My son is an Aspie...
How does find things ? is he doing ok ?
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He’s 21, independent and is an amazingly knowledgeable intelligent young man. (Clearly he has his moms genes.. ha ha) He’s just secured a job with an amazing salary for his age. But... he’s a loner not through choice. I’m sure you’ll understand what I mean... He has virtual friendships all over the world. The reality is different... |
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You have nothing to apologise about, you have every right to be here like the rest of us, we all have different needs and your entitled to have them to, I personally was sickened by some of the comments left by other members and they should be ashamed of themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Aspie..... says it how it is! If people dont get that and are offended, shame on you! Good luck x (Married to an Aspie)
My son is an Aspie...
How does find things ? is he doing ok ?
He’s 21, independent and is an amazingly knowledgeable intelligent young man. (Clearly he has his moms genes.. ha ha) He’s just secured a job with an amazing salary for his age. But... he’s a loner not through choice. I’m sure you’ll understand what I mean... He has virtual friendships all over the world. The reality is different..."
He sounds a top bloke , if he ever needs a friend to chat I’m more than happy to chat , I’ll say GO ON LAD. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You have nothing to apologise about, you have every right to be here like the rest of us, we all have different needs and your entitled to have them to, I personally was sickened by some of the comments left by other members and they should be ashamed of themselves."
Hi , I would like to take this time to say Thankyou for your comment , that means a lot to me , thankyou x |
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There can be some nasty people on this site looking for a bad argument, looking to cause trouble and put down people who they can't agree with. Its these people that have a problem not you Mike. You haven't said anything out of order. A lot of people don't read the full thread and just jump in and open their mouth without thinking.
We hope your not too upset about yesterday, please keep posting x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There can be some nasty people on this site looking for a bad argument, looking to cause trouble and put down people who they
can't agree with. Its these people that have a problem not you Mike. You haven't said anything out of order. A lot of people don't read the full thread and just jump in and open their mouth without thinking.
We hope your not too upset about yesterday, please keep posting x"
I’m doing ok , I’m finding all this lockdown crazy , as it’s effecting my feelings in different ways |
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"There can be some nasty people on this site looking for a bad argument, looking to cause trouble and put down people who they
can't agree with. Its these people that have a problem not you Mike. You haven't said anything out of order. A lot of people don't read the full thread and just jump in and open their mouth without thinking.
We hope your not too upset about yesterday, please keep posting x
I’m doing ok , I’m finding all this lockdown crazy , as it’s effecting my feelings in different ways "
Yeah it's difficult times for lots of people, being separated from friends and family can be difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There can be some nasty people on this site looking for a bad argument, looking to cause trouble and put down people who they
can't agree with. Its these people that have a problem not you Mike. You haven't said anything out of order. A lot of people don't read the full thread and just jump in and open their mouth without thinking.
We hope your not too upset about yesterday, please keep posting x
I’m doing ok , I’m finding all this lockdown crazy , as it’s effecting my feelings in different ways
Yeah it's difficult times for lots of people, being separated from friends and family can be difficult. "
I totally agree, it’s not easy, I hope your well |
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