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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously there is no such thing. By definition a man that voluntarily sucks another male's cock is not straight. I don't even buy the whole bi-curious thing ..
Curiosity suggests you've haven't done something. Once you've done it, you can no longer be curious about something - as you know what it's like. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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"Obviously there is no such thing. By definition a man that voluntarily sucks another male's cock is not straight. I don't even buy the whole bi-curious thing ..
Curiosity suggests you've haven't done something. Once you've done it, you can no longer be curious about something - as you know what it's like. "
Yeah agree with that. Equally applies to women too. So many couple profiles where the woman is perpetually bi-curious. Once you have tried it, if you like it and want to do again then change your profile to bisexual.
I think some couples maintain “bi-curious” for the woman to indicate it isn’t her main desire - ie want to play with other men but might play with the other woman if in the mood.
As for guts - There are a LOT of single guys on here that insist they are straight but actually happily play with another guy.
Shame people can’t be more honest but many worry there is a stigma. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why are so many men averse to even thinking of themselves at the least bi-curious yet they want or have at the very least touched another man's cock? People on here are supposed to be sexually adventurous, get over yourselves men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In conversation on FAB the term frottaging came up. Something I had not come across before ( no pun intended) so I did a little research. As the conversation progressed, with a lovely couple I hasten to add,
I indicated that this particular activity was not my thing. I went on to say I was not bi sexual or bi curious on which much discussion followed on what actually was considered to be bi sexual activity.
I am not one for sexual categorisation or pigeon holing but there are definitely blurred edges when the pursuit of pleasure is concerned? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Glad to see the label patrol got on this one quickly. We will have non of that opened minded sexual exploring on here! If you so much as look at another men's cock you should declare it on your profile... wouldn't want someone with prejudice accidently meeting you. |
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It might be healthy to consider that in the spectrum of sexuality very few are purely heterosexual and very few are purely homosexual. Most of us lie somewhere in between in our thoughts, desires, fantasies and actions.
If we were blindfolded, would we know whether it was a man or a woman sucking our cock and would one sensation be amazing and the other awful? It's our other senses that make that discrimination for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It might be healthy to consider that in the spectrum of sexuality very few are purely heterosexual and very few are purely homosexual. Most of us lie somewhere in between in our thoughts, desires, fantasies and actions.
If we were blindfolded, would we know whether it was a man or a woman sucking our cock and would one sensation be amazing and the other awful? It's our other senses that make that discrimination for us."
The moral being never wear a blindfold! |
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?"
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
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Nothing is wrong except certain people’s attitudes towards guys playing with eachother ..
You only live once, so do what you like aslong as you don’t hurt people through cheating..
Fuck the labels that people try and put on there too .. |
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
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Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means  |
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means "
Oh Lord!! Is that the best you can come up with in response?
Did it take you long to think up this killer put down? No doubt the strain has left you with a headache. |
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means
Oh Lord!! Is that the best you can come up with in response?
Did it take you long to think up this killer put down? No doubt the strain has left you with a headache."
Not a put down..
Time you started being honest with yourself..
It won’t tarnish your masculinity..
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"Straight men don't suck cock. The end!
But do straight men allow fellatio to be performed on them?"
It’s all just labels..
And closed minds..
If you shut your eyes you wouldn’t know who was sucking your dick surely |
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means
Oh Lord!! Is that the best you can come up with in response?
Did it take you long to think up this killer put down? No doubt the strain has left you with a headache.
Not a put down..
Time you started being honest with yourself..
It won’t tarnish your masculinity..
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Save your childish passive aggressive jibes for children and leave the grown ups to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means
Oh Lord!! Is that the best you can come up with in response?
Did it take you long to think up this killer put down? No doubt the strain has left you with a headache.
Not a put down..
Time you started being honest with yourself..
It won’t tarnish your masculinity..
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Oh the irony from a guy that lists he wants to meet TV/TS and classifies himself as straight.
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means
Oh Lord!! Is that the best you can come up with in response?
Did it take you long to think up this killer put down? No doubt the strain has left you with a headache.
Not a put down..
Time you started being honest with yourself..
It won’t tarnish your masculinity..
Save your childish passive aggressive jibes for children and leave the grown ups to chat."
That’s actually a passive aggressive statement..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say again, swingers are supposed to be adventurous people so why will guys not let go a bit and stop denying themselves?
Lol.
Who says they are "denying" themselves? They just don't fancy getting up close and personal with another bloke!
They simply like women.
I appreciate it is a huge fantasy with many bi and gay guys that most (if not all) blokes are actually open to persuasion on this topic.
But it is simply not true and no amount of fantasy and wishful thinking will change the fact. We all know that.
I appreciate that a little cold reality rainwater will not for a second change the fervent, deeply held fantasies of bi guys but that's the way it is.
Mmmm somebody protests a little too much here ..
We know what that means
Oh Lord!! Is that the best you can come up with in response?
Did it take you long to think up this killer put down? No doubt the strain has left you with a headache.
Not a put down..
Time you started being honest with yourself..
It won’t tarnish your masculinity..
Save your childish passive aggressive jibes for children and leave the grown ups to chat.
That’s actually a passive aggressive statement..
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Chaps I, along with another forumite, were chastised for going off message in a post last evening. I have apologised for the transgression so let’s cool it and stick to the subject matter! |
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"We hear this over and over again ,can't we all just be ourselves without labels or predgodice ."
Exactly..
Does it matter ?
Why is it cool for a woman to say she’s bi ( usually they aren’t but it gets attention) but a real turn off for some if a guy says bi ..
Maybe Fab removes the label ?
Let people discuss it with eachother instead? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight men don't suck cock. The end!
But do straight men allow fellatio to be performed on them?
By another bloke?
Of course not.
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It was a question not a statement!
So taking it a step further guys who enjoy cream pies are they on the site edges of sexual curiosity? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sick of the way that people claim labelling is used in an offensive manner. I'm straight, I have no inclination to play with, suck or let a guy's cock anywhere near my mouth or bum hole. That makes me straight and I'm not sure why anyone takes offence with that.
Am I close minded? No, I just like the opposite sex. More than happy to be pigeon holed as a straight guy of that's the case.  |
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"We hear this over and over again ,can't we all just be ourselves without labels or predgodice .
Exactly..
Does it matter ?
Why is it cool for a woman to say she’s bi ( usually they aren’t but it gets attention) but a real turn off for some if a guy says bi ..
Maybe Fab removes the label ?
Let people discuss it with eachother instead?"
Many people feel labels or likes are a useful shorthand to help establish whether they share any interests with another member.
Of course it helps if people are honest.
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"We hear this over and over again ,can't we all just be ourselves without labels or predgodice .
Exactly..
Does it matter ?
Why is it cool for a woman to say she’s bi ( usually they aren’t but it gets attention) but a real turn off for some if a guy says bi ..
Maybe Fab removes the label ?
Let people discuss it with eachother instead?
Many people feel labels or likes are a useful shorthand to help establish whether they share any interests with another member.
Of course it helps if people are honest.
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I understand that ..
But fab isn’t an honest place..
Everyone is slightly being something they’re not to attract attention..
Whether it be single, bi , body size, old or filtered pics , job titles, even where they are really from ..
It’s a bit of a fantasy world.. escapism from mundane life .. |
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"We hear this over and over again ,can't we all just be ourselves without labels or predgodice .
Exactly..
Does it matter ?
Why is it cool for a woman to say she’s bi ( usually they aren’t but it gets attention) but a real turn off for some if a guy says bi ..
Maybe Fab removes the label ?
Let people discuss it with eachother instead?
Many people feel labels or likes are a useful shorthand to help establish whether they share any interests with another member.
Of course it helps if people are honest.
I understand that ..
But fab isn’t an honest place..
Everyone is slightly being something they’re not to attract attention..
Whether it be single, bi , body size, old or filtered pics , job titles, even where they are really from ..
It’s a bit of a fantasy world.. escapism from mundane life .."
Sad but true.
However in the absence of anything more reliable labels serve a purpose.
We consult them as do many others. |
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I've always,felt Theres a,difference according to the circumstances.
1. Men who play with women but also want to meet men on their own.
2. Men who play with men only in a 3some/moresome. Both sexes have to be present |
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"If you mean a man who identifies as straight sucking another guys cock then that makes them bi-curious at least. If they keep doing it they are bi not straight."
That’s what I thought and agree with |
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"why are so many men averse to even thinking of themselves at the least bi-curious yet they want or have at the very least touched another man's cock? People on here are supposed to be sexually adventurous, get over yourselves men"
I don’t think it’s about getting over themselves I think it’s the stigma but then growing up thinking it’s wrong then having emotional thoughts of doing it so basically it’s like a gay situation but a bi guy in the closet the LGBTQ’s haven’t had it easy in any respect so the coming out is as we know hard for various reasons |
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Straight guys who suck or allow to be sucked are lying.
They are not straight.
The fact that they feel unable to be truthful in their assessment of themselves, or, more cynically, that they feel they need to lie to hide their true selves is the issue at hand.
The idea of a guy being close enough to me to suck my cock makes me very very uncomfortable. Which is a shame because it must be great to be attracted to so many more people. But I am not.
If a "straight" guy in a couple thought he could have a sly slurp on my cock and there would be no harm...let me assure you, there would be.
Blindfolds don't change a person's sexuality anymore than a woman would be alright about being r4ped by a guy in a dark room when she thought it was her husband.
Ignorance may deny the initial repulsion, but it would not reduce the feelings afterwards.
Kid yourselves all you want about straight guys, but don't lie about yourselves and mislead others.
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I keep getting messages from fab-straight guys looking to play. This is in spite of the note on my profile saying that I am not interested. But not bothering to read profiles is a whole other conversation.
On the flip side there are the people that think bi-guys are disease carriers or assume that a bi person can't control themselves when playing alongside a straight person. That likely explains a lot of the "straight" guys on here. That's not personal preference. That's biphobia. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"I think it's more subtle than our labels permit "
Absolutely this. It is far more complex with far more permutations.
While labels can be seen as restrictive they are also helpful for managing expectations.
In our relationship the male is straight and female is bi. That means we won’t be doing any kind of male-on-male activity. Not because we think there is anything wrong with it but because we do not find it a turn on. Similarly we would prefer to meet cpls with bi females because we do both enjoy that. The label helps spell that out so nobody has the wrong expectations or wastes their time.
People are free to do what they want and enjoy themselves (as long as consensual) but that includes being clear who you would rather not have sex with or specific acts. |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
I think the important thing is if you can give mutual sexual satisfaction to another man it doesn't matter if that man is straight, bi or gay. I have had much sexual pleasure and have given alot of sexual pleasure to other 'straight' guys most of whom have been married as I am. At the end of the day we have one thing in common and that's a mutual attraction for each other and it's as simple as that. Keep having fun all you guys out there (when it's safe to do so) |
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