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What is wrong with discussion in the forum
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Why is it when I make a post in the forum rather than discussing it in the forum people are compelled to send a message.
This get on my tits so much that any post on the forum results in 10 or 12 private mails. |
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I generally reply in the forum, although occasionally I might have something to say in regard to a post that I want to say to an individual rather than in public for everyone to see. On those occasions I'll send a private message
But I don't do it just for the sake of sending individual messages
Do I win anything for this approach?  |
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"I get that too. Many have said they are too shy to reply in the forum which i find strange."
I suspect that they’re expecting a great “hit rate” from PMs that they think will show they are Forumites and not just chancers. |
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"I generally reply in the forum, although occasionally I might have something to say in regard to a post that I want to say to an individual rather than in public for everyone to see. On those occasions I'll send a private message
But I don't do it just for the sake of sending individual messages
Do I win anything for this approach? "
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over a year ago
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We get that. I don't mind so much if it is a positive post but sometimes its to be bitchy to us. Like this morning K posted something in the covid is it real thread and some arsehole responds in a direct message to us in an aggressive manner. He said feck all on the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy I feel I need to ask, can someone explain to me what a private message is? Don't think I've ever came across one on this site? Lol "
That I don't believe.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to write threads not now. Not going to ever again. As for responding to posts yes, I do but if I wanted to private message someone I might.
I am not bothered if people message me. I don't lose sleep over anything on here. Take with pinch of salt. Have some fun.
Cheers fab for the fun times.
Crazy times behest us all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is really that much of a drama?
The forums have that facility built into them.
We all receive welcome and unwelcome messages on this site and not just through the forums. They go with the territory.
I have received some very nice supportive messages for some of my posts from people who said they didnt feel brave enough to post something themselves.
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