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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are everyone's opinions on kissing when playing with another couple - either soft or full (we're full swap). It is a given that girls will kiss each other but have found some couples are reluctant for man to kiss the woman and vice versa.
We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay  "
Exactly! Especially if you're going to have sex with them. Otherwise it'd be like shagging a prostitute.
Kissing with tongues is a definite for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay
Exactly! Especially if you're going to have sex with them. Otherwise it'd be like shagging a prostitute.
Kissing with tongues is a definite for us. "
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firstly when it concerns others in swinging id never ever take anything as "a given" . the girls may not be bi or plain just dont fancy each other so why would they kiss ??
as for kissing as part of a meet its a must for me ! i know some people save that for with their partner only (as is their right to choose )id def choose to decline a meet in that case . swinging for me is enjoying the exploration and pleasure . i sure as hell aint gonna have to hold my self back from kissing a person im fucking .defeats the whole purpose for me .so i will carrying on smooching away !! mwwahhh !! x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"firstly when it concerns others in swinging id never ever take anything as "a given" . the girls may not be bi or plain just dont fancy each other so why would they kiss ??
as for kissing as part of a meet its a must for me ! i know some people save that for with their partner only (as is their right to choose )id def choose to decline a meet in that case . swinging for me is enjoying the exploration and pleasure . i sure as hell aint gonna have to hold my self back from kissing a person im fucking .defeats the whole purpose for me .so i will carrying on smooching away !! mwwahhh !! x "
OK perhaps not a given but is fairly likely.
And we love seeing the other person kissing....a big turn on for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a great social meet with a couple but when they said they won't kiss on a meet we decided we couldn't go ahead and meet then to play as it just wouldn't feel right to us.
Can't understand why it's OK to have someone's cock in your mouth but not allowed to kiss them, just don't get it myself. Kissing is part of the build up to us.  |
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"We had a great social meet with a couple but when they said they won't kiss on a meet we decided we couldn't go ahead and meet then to play as it just wouldn't feel right to us.
Can't understand why it's OK to have someone's cock in your mouth but not allowed to kiss them, just don't get it myself. Kissing is part of the build up to us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can understand why couples would not want to I suppose although if that was the case perhaps they should not be swinging. as a single fem, kissing is crucial. and without it don't enjoy the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No time for kissing cos I'm usually too busy trying to get my cock down the woman's throat. Save the tongues for after we've been introduced.
Ain't foreplay wonderful 
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I respect other peoples wishes weather its kissing or whatever,but agree it seems a little odd when the other guys wife is sucking your cock lol
I remember tho swapping partners first time
We decided to keep anal just as our personal thing
Next morning when we chatted found she had a sore bum
and so did the other guys wife lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends for me. I'm not always keen to be honest. Prefer to keep that for my hubby. "
so you'd share your pussy to someone else but kissing is kept for your hubby??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I can't have sex without kissing so I'd have to decline a meet where it wasn't allowed...I do it without thinking so I'd just get myself into trouble anyway! x |
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"We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay
Exactly! Especially if you're going to have sex with them. Otherwise it'd be like shagging a prostitute.
Kissing with tongues is a definite for us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the way jane see's it is if the guy carnt turn her on during a social with his kissing skills she wont play with him so if kissing was banned then fun would never start |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends for me. I'm not always keen to be honest. Prefer to keep that for my hubby.
so you'd share your pussy to someone else but kissing is kept for your hubby???"
What is wrong with that.. Kissing a meet personally does bugger all for me.. I will go through the motions at times.. but it does not turn me on.. and actually for me I am thinking ffs hurry up and let me suck your cock..
I to be far tend to arrange meets where that is what I do.. they walk in, I suck their cocks, they go.. I get what I want, Master gets what he wants, the guy gets what he wants..
Yes some seem to need turning on first.. well I am always turned on and always ready to go.. So it isnt something I need.
Master and I.. its totally different.. I love the way he will tease me with his kisses..
I can suck a guys cock in a club and not fancy him... but I cant kiss a guy I dont fancy.
Some do, some dont... what does it matter as long as your honest at the start.. that way everyone gets to play how they want to play....
I never get how everyone can say.. its a must.. or its clinical without.. anyone that I play with can sense my passion when I am playing with them..
and as to do I let them lick my pussy or breasts.. actually its a rarity.
Cali
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is a must for us. How can you stop kissing someone when embroiled in the passion of hot sex??!!"
stay on your knees.. or on top or if they happen to be on top.. turn face away. or let them kiss shoulders or neck.
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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago
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"What are everyone's opinions on kissing when playing with another couple - either soft or full (we're full swap). It is a given that girls will kiss each other but have found some couples are reluctant for man to kiss the woman and vice versa.
We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....
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Yes we agree- full on kissing we like & would be our preference when playing with others. However we realise & totally respect others might not do- so it's not a problem if someone doesn't kiss, a pity, but not a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do meet a great fem buddy i known for years and often meet MF couples and love kissing the females big time - but has a Bi man and although i admit i have tried it, not into MM kissing - if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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for us its always kissing we feel without kissing its more clinical. everyone to there own but you can shag my wife but not kiss her because thats special seems a bit odd to us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way."
Because that is what works for you...and thats what bugs me when people say they find it odd not to kiss... as its their choice to kiss... and yours not too.
I would find it uncomfortable if someone wanted to kiss me like they would their partner.. I rarely if ever kiss on the lips.. but am happy to be kissed and kiss other areas.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for us its always kissing we feel without kissing its more clinical. everyone to there own but you can shag my wife but not kiss her because thats special seems a bit odd to us "
.... you have permission to enter please proceed to your final destintion now .... LOL yes much too clinical
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"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way.
Because that is what works for you...and thats what bugs me when people say they find it odd not to kiss... as its their choice to kiss... and yours not too.
I would find it uncomfortable if someone wanted to kiss me like they would their partner.. I rarely if ever kiss on the lips.. but am happy to be kissed and kiss other areas.
Cali "
I get that it's a personal choice, but for me it is essential throughout so I wouldn't be able to meet anyone that wouldn't kiss me. I do it without even thinking about it so to have to remember not to would kill the fun for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are everyone's opinions on kissing when playing with another couple - either soft or full (we're full swap). It is a given that girls will kiss each other but have found some couples are reluctant for man to kiss the woman and vice versa.
We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....
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Personally I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed... I love a good song!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are everyone's opinions on kissing when playing with another couple - either soft or full (we're full swap). It is a given that girls will kiss each other but have found some couples are reluctant for man to kiss the woman and vice versa.
We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....
Personally I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed... I love a good song!! "
snog even.... Ooooops |
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"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way.
Because that is what works for you...and thats what bugs me when people say they find it odd not to kiss... as its their choice to kiss... and yours not too.
I would find it uncomfortable if someone wanted to kiss me like they would their partner.. I rarely if ever kiss on the lips.. but am happy to be kissed and kiss other areas.
Cali "
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