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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently found out a few things from a friends son and his mates, 1 of which is that they watched me getting dressed and took an arse pic as I slept.
Just wondering if anyone has genuinely watched someone they shouldn't.. If you know what I mean x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That is wrong on so many levels. 
And in answer to your question, no, it hasn't happened to me that I know of. "
Trust me, I wasn't happy, the watching me getting dressed I wasn't so bothered about, the pic annoyed and upset the hell out of me. It got sorted tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo"
I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo
I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch "
Each to there own |
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"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo
I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch "
I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not flaunt it in front of my son and his mates. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
If you’re fine with it OP then that’s great, and you are free to enjoy having your personal privacy invaded that non-consensual way, but most people will find that to be creepy behaviour at best, bordering on far worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo
I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch
I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not
flaunt it in front of my son and his mates."
She said 'her friends son' |
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"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo
I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch
I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not
flaunt it in front of my son and his mates.
She said 'her friends son'"
Sorry but still not good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo
I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch
I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not
flaunt it in front of my son and his mates.
She said 'her friends son'
Sorry but still not good."
I agree, but if it was her son it would have been far worse!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?"
I stay at hers occasionally. Not sure why I'm getting so much hate for this. Please, it was just a question. |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?
I stay at hers occasionally. Not sure why I'm getting so much hate for this. Please, it was just a question. "
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No "hate" from here, just a bit of bewilderment. Hope it all turned out ok. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?
I stay at hers occasionally. Not sure why I'm getting so much hate for this. Please, it was just a question.
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No "hate" from here, just a bit of bewilderment. Hope it all turned out ok."
Sorry, just overwhelmed. Yeah, everything turned out fine. Thank you xx |
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On the spirit of the OP's original question, over 30 years ago there was a woman who lived opposite my parents with a big bay windowed bedroom, and who would almost daily strip down to just bra and pants with the curtains wide open. Occasionally she'd strip off completely....
Certainly gave a group of hormonal teenage lads reason to stop playing cricket, or whatever we were doing at the time  |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Suffolk - East Anglia |
"I'd be explaining quite forcefully that you don't do that kind of thing to women (or men). Voyeurism is a criminal offence "
 Exactly and if they did that to me they would be on the ground very quickly and not getting up for a while. |
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"On the spirit of the OP's original question, over 30 years ago there was a woman who lived opposite my parents with a big bay windowed bedroom, and who would almost daily strip down to just bra and pants with the curtains wide open. Occasionally she'd strip off completely....
Certainly gave a group of hormonal teenage lads reason to stop playing cricket, or whatever we were doing at the time "
Now reverse the genders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that the friends son is older is even more worrisome to me. He is not some young teenager just figuring out his sexuality and boundaries. He is a grown adult who actively peeped on someone with no regards to consent. That man needs to learn boundaries and the fact that women are not objects to be viewed disregarding your personhood as a woman! He needs to learn consent. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"That is wrong on so many levels.
And in answer to your question, no, it hasn't happened to me that I know of.
Trust me, I wasn't happy, the watching me getting dressed I wasn't so bothered about, the pic annoyed and upset the hell out of me. It got sorted tho"
Good. X |
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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago
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"The fact that the friends son is older is even more worrisome to me. He is not some young teenager just figuring out his sexuality and boundaries. He is a grown adult who actively peeped on someone with no regards to consent. That man needs to learn boundaries and the fact that women are not objects to be viewed disregarding your personhood as a woman! He needs to learn consent. "
Totally agree he’s one to be keeping away from your daughters in the future, because that ain’t going to end well for someone |
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