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"Amazing, you want people who do stuff and when you see visual proof if it you block them. Eh?  "
Perhaps OP specifically doesn’t want to meet barebackers? I certainly don’t, and if someone messages me with bareback photos on their profile, I use it as a filter too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only caveat I would put on this is a reminder not to judge people too quickly.
Just saying that it’s possible the pictures could have been taken with a long term partner rather than a causal meet  |
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Its worse when the dickheads state SAFE SEX on their profile
But then u start chattin to some lookin forward to meetin them
But then they put piccys n videos up bareback totally off putting
N sad gloaters
Deffo sad advertising
Puts u off meeting them
Shows how sad desperate dicks they are then
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"Its worse when the dickheads state SAFE SEX on their profile
But then u start chattin to some lookin forward to meetin them
But then they put piccys n videos up bareback totally off putting
N sad gloaters
Deffo sad advertising
Puts u off meeting them
Shows how sad desperate dicks they are then
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Why are they sad and desperate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its worse when the dickheads state SAFE SEX on their profile
But then u start chattin to some lookin forward to meetin them
But then they put piccys n videos up bareback totally off putting
N sad gloaters
Deffo sad advertising
Puts u off meeting them
Shows how sad desperate dicks they are then
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Could be an old pic or video with a long term partner.... can’t judge a book by its cover or a fab profile by its pictures... or something like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry
If they state safe sex n are blatently showin shaggin piccys bareback
Shows they dont give a shit
N just after shaggin anyone
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Could it not be that the single males in question have photos used from an ex partner on his profile showing him barebacking at that point in their lives which is perfectly acceptable? Yes this raised questions of consent but thats a different issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you feel the need to advertise who you block?"
I think it makes them feel like they have extraordinary powers and like everyone to know they have the power to click a block button  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you feel the need to advertise who you block?
Some people seem to thrive on blocking.
Just ask Kevin Magnusson...
(F1 reference if you were wondering)"
I got it, and laughed my arse off! |
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The most concerning thing here is the assumption that ticking the safe sex box and not having bareback pics on a profile means that individual/couple have never had unprotected sex in their life - because in 99.9% of cases I’m betting that’s an incorrect assumption
And if you’re not assuming that and think they have had bareback sex at some point - how does the pic of bareback sex help you one way or the other? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have bare back pics ,which are myself and hubby ,if we get blocked for that so be it ..."
yes our bareback pics are only of me and hubby if it puts people off then they don’t have to look
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Amazing, you want people who do stuff and when you see visual proof if it you block them. Eh?
Perhaps OP specifically doesn’t want to meet barebackers? I certainly don’t, and if someone messages me with bareback photos on their profile, I use it as a filter too."
Yet the next potential person you have may well have bummed dozens of people bareback the day before yet you'd know sweet. fuck. all. about it 
Taking anyone's word about anything is precarious at best nevermind a stranger on a sex site |
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"Amazing, you want people who do stuff and when you see visual proof if it you block them. Eh?
Perhaps OP specifically doesn’t want to meet barebackers? I certainly don’t, and if someone messages me with bareback photos on their profile, I use it as a filter too.
Yet the next potential person you have may well have bummed dozens of people bareback the day before yet you'd know sweet. fuck. all. about it
Taking anyone's word about anything is precarious at best nevermind a stranger on a sex site "
I’m well aware of that, however if they’re blatantly proud enough of it to put it on their profile, at least it gives me a heads up.
To everyone saying “it could be an ex partner” - don’t you see how that’s not ok either, even if it’s for different reasons? |
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"Some too quick to judge as pics could be their other half. As long as they are safe with everyone else what’s it matter?"
If it’s a couple profile, I see it a bit differently. I’d still avoid them like the plague if there was evidence that they bareback with others, but if the photos are just the two of them that wouldn’t bother me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry
If they state safe sex n are blatently showin shaggin piccys bareback
Shows they dont give a shit
N just after shaggin anyone
Could it not be that the single males in question have photos used from an ex partner on his profile showing him barebacking at that point in their lives which is perfectly acceptable? Yes this raised questions of consent but thats a different issue? "
But surely that’s unwise.
Why post bareback photos if you’re not participating in it? What’s the incentive? |
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"Sorry
If they state safe sex n are blatently showin shaggin piccys bareback
Shows they dont give a shit
N just after shaggin anyone
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Shit logic but your choice |
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I know couples who each have their own profile, they have bareback pictures but does say in their profiles bio that it’s their other half and always practice safe sex with others. There’s just no telling by pictures and people shouldn’t judge as they don’t know them.
I met a guy once who said safe sex but then asked if he could bareback.... no thank you not for me. Needless to say I blocked him |
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So what if someone has pictures of them barebacking... If you don't want to bareback that's your prerogative and what's really important is what they do with you...
Just because someone states on here they only play safe, does that mean that have never barebacked anyone? Does it mean they are safe and clean simply because they don't admit it to you?
Just because someone only has pictures using condoms, does that mean they used them the whole time for that particular meet? It does not mean they are safe and clean either.
I take it you don't have oral sex without a condom then and you don't kiss - bareback penetration isn't the only way to catch something after all.
Perhaps it was a regular partner at the time of the photo - most of us have had them at some point.
Likewise, there are more than a few single women on here that have more than their fair share of barebacking pictures, which ironically, a lot of the time their veri's show meets with women and couples strictly against barebacking - or is it just males barebacking you object to??
Some people really are far too judgemental on here, that's for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Largely, I think blokes put pics up of them fucking, either vaginal, anal, and bareback or not, as a kind of oneupmanship to prove they can and have fucked someone. It only seems to be guys who like these sorts of pics. Not once have I been asked for pics of me in action by either a single female or the female half of a couple and it seems to put most off.
Anyway, if the OP wants to block people for whatever reason and tell us why, that’s her prerogative. It’s only like asking who’s into bareback (as seems to get asked very regularly). She’s just saying she’ll block you. Freedom of speech and all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, some people are entirely too judgemental.
Having bareback pics isn't okay,
Having bareback pics of a long term partner isn't okay,
Essentially you are saying swingers aren't allowed to have children?
Or that people with children should swing?
Or is it specifically bareback anal that's objected? |
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If they are already a proper couple then thsts fibe
But when u can tell someobe has been shaggin another person not their own partner showin full naked dick but they state on their profile they do safe sex
It is bery off putting
Especially wen he msgs u askin to meet u
But seein all his piccys fuckin bb
Shows how desperate thry are
Sad desperate dicks
And likewise with women
Especially couples
But the male piccy is not her partner
N they are bare back
Then wen u aee a profile and they say on them
No glove no love
No condom no sex
But they have their piccys up shaggin bb
WAT THE FUCK
One ruke for one but one rule for himself
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be so quick to judge! I made the choice a few years ago to take the prep pill (which blocks hiv) so that bareback sex was no longer out of the question. I have to say it's been a total game changer for me.
I've had A LOT of bareback cock in my pussy since then trust me (!) I get regular checks for stis (99% of which are treatable with a simple course of antibiotics by the way) but the tests always come back negative and clear for everything thankfully.
To me the risk seems so small and you know what, life is too short! And bareback sex is great! Life without risk does not exist, take it by the horns I say....
Do you judge parachute jumpers or ice hockey players in the same way? They take huge risks to do what they love...injuries a plenty but hey, even Driving your car is a daily risk
Love Cherry xxx |
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"Don't be so quick to judge! I made the choice a few years ago to take the prep pill (which blocks hiv) so that bareback sex was no longer out of the question. I have to say it's been a total game changer for me.
I've had A LOT of bareback cock in my pussy since then trust me (!) I get regular checks for stis (99% of which are treatable with a simple course of antibiotics by the way) but the tests always come back negative and clear for everything thankfully.
To me the risk seems so small and you know what, life is too short! And bareback sex is great! Life without risk does not exist, take it by the horns I say....
Do you judge parachute jumpers or ice hockey players in the same way? They take huge risks to do what they love...injuries a plenty but hey, even Driving your car is a daily risk
Love Cherry xxx"
What absolute nonsense. There are 8 known STI’s and only 4 are treatable- that makes it 50%, unless my maths is as bad as yours?
These forums are just pages of misinformation. |
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"Don't be so quick to judge! I made the choice a few years ago to take the prep pill (which blocks hiv) so that bareback sex was no longer out of the question. I have to say it's been a total game changer for me.
I've had A LOT of bareback cock in my pussy since then trust me (!) I get regular checks for stis (99% of which are treatable with a simple course of antibiotics by the way) but the tests always come back negative and clear for everything thankfully.
To me the risk seems so small and you know what, life is too short! And bareback sex is great! Life without risk does not exist, take it by the horns I say....
Do you judge parachute jumpers or ice hockey players in the same way? They take huge risks to do what they love...injuries a plenty but hey, even Driving your car is a daily risk
Love Cherry xxx
What absolute nonsense. There are 8 known STI’s and only 4 are treatable- that makes it 50%, unless my maths is as bad as yours?
These forums are just pages of misinformation. "
The fear mongers are back |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't be so quick to judge! I made the choice a few years ago to take the prep pill (which blocks hiv) so that bareback sex was no longer out of the question. I have to say it's been a total game changer for me.
I've had A LOT of bareback cock in my pussy since then trust me (!) I get regular checks for stis (99% of which are treatable with a simple course of antibiotics by the way) but the tests always come back negative and clear for everything thankfully.
To me the risk seems so small and you know what, life is too short! And bareback sex is great! Life without risk does not exist, take it by the horns I say....
Do you judge parachute jumpers or ice hockey players in the same way? They take huge risks to do what they love...injuries a plenty but hey, even Driving your car is a daily risk
Love Cherry xxx
What absolute nonsense. There are 8 known STI’s and only 4 are treatable- that makes it 50%, unless my maths is as bad as yours?
These forums are just pages of misinformation.
The fear mongers are back "
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Fear mongers? Or people who just take the trouble to educate themselves?
Here’s what the World Health Organisation says:
“For herpes and HIV, the most effective medications available are antivirals that can modulate the course of the disease, though they cannot cure the disease.
For hepatitis B, antiviral medications can help to fight the virus and slow damage to the liver.
Antimicrobial resistance (AMR) of STIs—in particular gonorrhoea—to antibiotics has increased rapidly in recent years and has reduced treatment options. Current Gonococcal AMR Surveillance Programme (GASP) have shown high rates of quinolone resistance”
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I have hep B vaccine and I take prep which stops/blocks hiv... I'm not saying people shouldn't do what they can to protect themselves, I know I do but please, I find much of this an over reaction |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Well I have hep B vaccine and I take prep which stops/blocks hiv... I'm not saying people shouldn't do what they can to protect themselves, I know I do but please, I find much of this an over reaction"
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Personally - I’m not keen in the bit where it says “damage to the liver” and the fact that antibiotics are slowly becoming ineffective. To name but two reasons.
I wonder why you think the WHO is over-reacting? |
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And that's your choice, I respect that, a healthy and balanced fear of stds is perfectly acceptable but in my experience it can easily cross over into irrational fear which often really just masks a person's dis-ease with their own sexuality.
I went to look at your profile but you've blocked me which really proves my point, you're demonising those who choose differently. |
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"Well I have hep B vaccine and I take prep which stops/blocks hiv... I'm not saying people shouldn't do what they can to protect themselves, I know I do but please, I find much of this an over reaction"
But you’re going on about it like you take PrEp and it’s all fine and dandy. So maybe you can’t get Hep B either. That still leaves six other STI’s, two with no cure, for you to spread around as you wish between tests. You need to get your ‘facts’ straight before spilling them on here.
Having unprotected sex with anyone who’s not a regular partner is just crazy. It’s my opinion and won’t change. |
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"Amazing, you want people who do stuff and when you see visual proof if it you block them. Eh?
Perhaps OP specifically doesn’t want to meet barebackers? I certainly don’t, and if someone messages me with bareback photos on their profile, I use it as a filter too."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shhhhh! With all of you.
This is my filter don’t tell the idiots or it won’t work when they remove pics
Got to love photos uploaded on the same day, same women: glove for front door; bare at the back 
Forum, photos, videos, profile.... are filters |
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"Shhhhh! With all of you.
This is my filter don’t tell the idiots or it won’t work when they remove pics
Got to love photos uploaded on the same day, same women: glove for front door; bare at the back
Forum, photos, videos, profile.... are filters "
But bare at back feels better ?? |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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Why not block everyone who likes something different?
On fab people like allsorts, and fair play to them! Like what's repeated on many profiles, if you don't like, just move on.Dont moan in the forums. I chat to folk on here who I know I will never meet. Some nice people tho. |
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I don’t really look and male profiles..
But we know it’s the done thing to diss males as they are the throw away commodity on here ..
And some desperate guys deserve all they get ..
But I see lots of single female profiles with the sucking or fucking bare cocks, and judging them or let alone bothering to post something on a forum doesn’t cross my mind ..
Some awful judging of others going on ..
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Our bare back photos on our profile are of hubby and wife wouldn’t dream of going bareback with anybody else . Not sure how photos of us together suggests anything other than that ????? |
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Exactly, stop moaning in forums about it, I find it strange that you won't even chat with, never mind have 'your version of' protected sex with anyone that enjoys bareback, surely 3 condoms on the dick, a dental dam and a beekeeping suit will keep you 'safe' and protect you from evil? I bet you're still bleaching your shopping in case covid finds its way into your Covent garden soup packs!
Anyway, sex is meant to bring us together not divide us further, sorry for the soup Nd beekeeping comments I couldn't resist x |
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"This place just loves to judge people.
If it's not for you move along.
Back to sitting on the fence. "
God I hate this.
Literally everyone judges every single day consciously and unconsciously.
People only use the “Don’t judge” card when it’s about something they agree with.
People are entitled to their opinions whether someone agrees or not. |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
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"Our bare back photos on our profile are of hubby and wife wouldn’t dream of going bareback with anybody else . Not sure how photos of us together suggests anything other than that ?????"
Can't help but feel there's an element of sour grapes that people are fucking bare and they're missing out. If they can't do it then no one can.
Probably the same people that would snitch on their neighbours if they saw them having fun. |
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I think prolific barebacking is a bit unpleasant on this scene (just my view). I would run a mile from a profile with pics of bareback with multiple people because I don’t want to get involved in that.
I have a pic on my profile which is bareback, it’s with my FWB. In fact all my pics that have another person in are him. He is the only person I do that with.
I’m not meeting anyone else at the moment because of all this Corona business, but if I was and they asked me about safe sex I would explain my situation with my FWB. If that meant they didn’t want to play with me then that’s ok. |
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"This place just loves to judge people.
If it's not for you move along.
Back to sitting on the fence.
God I hate this.
Literally everyone judges every single day consciously and unconsciously.
People only use the “Don’t judge” card when it’s about something they agree with.
People are entitled to their opinions whether someone agrees or not. "
I don't agree though with the vast amounts of BB pics with possibly many random people. Oops someone judging? |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"And that's your choice, I respect that, a healthy and balanced fear of stds is perfectly acceptable but in my experience it can easily cross over into irrational fear which often really just masks a person's dis-ease with their own sexuality.
I went to look at your profile but you've blocked me which really proves my point, you're demonising those who choose differently. "
Was trying not to make this personal. Blocked you as clearly we will never meet and that’s the way we use this website. Hope that’s helped to reassert your self worth and fear of rejection.
But you have given me a good laugh - how you can turn both quoting evidence based reasons not to bareback and then blocking you into me not being happy with my sexuality???
Deary me, what some strangers in the internet will do to justify their views.
Listen mate - I don’t give a toss what you do to endanger your own health and life chances. Sure I think it’s a stupid, selfish and anti-social choice, which endangers others and puts unnecessary stress on the health service but hey it is a free country right? Knock yourself out, but no need to get antsy when someone else doesn’t agree with you and shows you up by presenting cold hard evidence based facts which disavow your argument.
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"This place just loves to judge people.
If it's not for you move along.
Back to sitting on the fence.
God I hate this.
Literally everyone judges every single day consciously and unconsciously.
People only use the “Don’t judge” card when it’s about something they agree with.
People are entitled to their opinions whether someone agrees or not.
I don't agree though with the vast amounts of BB pics with possibly many random people. Oops someone judging?"
People are free to judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place just loves to judge people.
If it's not for you move along.
Back to sitting on the fence.
God I hate this.
Literally everyone judges every single day consciously and unconsciously.
People only use the “Don’t judge” card when it’s about something they agree with.
People are entitled to their opinions whether someone agrees or not. "
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"This place just loves to judge people.
If it's not for you move along.
Back to sitting on the fence.
God I hate this.
Literally everyone judges every single day consciously and unconsciously.
People only use the “Don’t judge” card when it’s about something they agree with.
People are entitled to their opinions whether someone agrees or not.
I don't agree though with the vast amounts of BB pics with possibly many random people. Oops someone judging?
People are free to judge. "
Back to my original point, some people on here love to judge and I still don't agree. So not everyone. |
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"Amazing, you want people who do stuff and when you see visual proof if it you block them. Eh?
Perhaps OP specifically doesn’t want to meet barebackers? I certainly don’t, and if someone messages me with bareback photos on their profile, I use it as a filter too."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place just loves to judge people.
If it's not for you move along.
Back to sitting on the fence.
God I hate this.
Literally everyone judges every single day consciously and unconsciously.
People only use the “Don’t judge” card when it’s about something they agree with.
People are entitled to their opinions whether someone agrees or not.
I don't agree though with the vast amounts of BB pics with possibly many random people. Oops someone judging?
People are free to judge.
Back to my original point, some people on here love to judge and I still don't agree. So not everyone."
But they’re free to judge.
As are you.
Everyone judges even when they don’t notice it. This is a forum where people post opinions and thoughts, if you’ve never judged someone you can’t possibly be human. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our bare back photos on our profile are of hubby and wife wouldn’t dream of going bareback with anybody else . Not sure how photos of us together suggests anything other than that ?????
Can't help but feel there's an element of sour grapes that people are fucking bare and they're missing out. If they can't do it then no one can.
Probably the same people that would snitch on their neighbours if they saw them having fun."
Sour grapes because some people are having bareback sex?
I’ve heard it all now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like how the Op starts a thread and doesn’t come back to reply........
I think they have a word for this on the internet...."
I think she was just making a statement she doesn’t need to back up rather than trolling. |
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