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Is it rude to ask someone for a no contact Social meeting?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....
But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?
A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,. |
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No, we wouldn't lose interest. No contact socials are the only way to meet at the moment. Plus it's what you're doing if you go to one of the clubs that are open.
Means you can meet and establish if there is any connection 
Ms x |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....
But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?
A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."
if someone asks to meet me, I say that I am socialising only now, they usually say yes, it's just pinning them down to the actual meeting |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....
But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?
A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."
Naa I'd prefer it to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd happily do no contact socials, I'd say its more rude to assume the person you are meeting is agreeing to any contact by agreeing to meet. "
Absolutely this ! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so it's official? social meets are ok in fabs eyes.. then if you hit it off.. move in together, become exclusive...form a houseshare? Its all very frustrating as a libertarian lefty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....
But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?
A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."
It's not rude at all, it is manners and common sense... |
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"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....
But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?
A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."
I’d be happy for a no contact social, it’s totally acceptable at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You guys are the best..... I was chatting to someone that stated they are not meeting during covid......
I’m just was just curious if offering a coffee and walk would make her think... I wasn’t respecting her boundaries..... |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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Isn't that what a social is? A no expectations meeting of two people to see if there is any chemistry to build on? OK under normal circumstances you might exchange a welcome of goodbye kiss. But a social isn't an open invitation to have a good fondle under the table or in the car park after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A Picnic. Now you’re talking
I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic 
What’s zorbing? "
Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill
You coming? |
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"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!
I will if it’s a picnic!
Bit cold and wet for a picnic? Can I come too though?  "
The more the merrier - bring crisps! |
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"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!
I will if it’s a picnic!
Bit cold and wet for a picnic? Can I come too though?
The more the merrier - bring crisps!"
I’ll need a big bag! Looks like there might be a few of us! |
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"A Picnic. Now you’re talking
I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic
What’s zorbing?
Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill
You coming?
Oh hell yeah - count me in! "
Fab socially distanced social?! |
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"A Picnic. Now you’re talking
I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic
What’s zorbing?
Those huge ball things you roll down hills in they look a lot of fun x"
Now I want homemade chips - and I’m on a diet! 
Damn you made them sound so good woman! |
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"A Picnic. Now you’re talking
I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic
What’s zorbing?
Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill
You coming?
Oh hell yeah - count me in!
Fab socially distanced social?! "
Absolutely. Why not? |
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