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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK, so you meet someone from here and you end up having great sex.
But do you need a cuddle afterwards?
Can honetly say that over our ten years of swinging, neither of us has ever felt the need to cuddle a playmate after sex.
Maybe it's a singles thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, so you meet someone from here and you end up having great sex.
But do you need a cuddle afterwards?
Can honetly say that over our ten years of swinging, neither of us has ever felt the need to cuddle a playmate after sex.
Maybe it's a singles thing?"
I play solo and as a couple with my boyfriend and we both love a cuddle with play friends we are fond of.
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I think it very much depends on the individual and the circumstances.
I've a friend who I play with at clubs and she absolutely needs to be held for a while after playing, another lady who insists on spending the night as she likes to fall asleep in my arms.
I've also met others who are happy with a quick kiss and a couple who might as well just shout "NEXT".
Personally I like the tactile side of things & would never refuse a cuddle if it is what the lady wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK, so you meet someone from here and you end up having great sex.
But do you need a cuddle afterwards?
Can honetly say that over our ten years of swinging, neither of us has ever felt the need to cuddle a playmate after sex.
Maybe it's a singles thing?"
I love a cuddle after sex. I also love a good kissing session before, during and after sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't even hug my wife after sex, so no, not really.
If there is some romance involved maybe, but if it's just fucking, why?"
Why don’t you hug your wife?  |
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I’m definitely a cuddler - but not all night. I’m used to sleeping alone so for me it’s cuddles after sex - separate to sleep - then morning cuddles and sleepy sex - which generally turns into rampant sex!
Amazing where a cuddle can lead.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally tend to meet with women that I connect with,not just for a "shag and go", so some cuddles and affection after sex is something I like doing. |
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"OK, so you meet someone from here and you end up having great sex.
But do you need a cuddle afterwards?
Can honetly say that over our ten years of swinging, neither of us has ever felt the need to cuddle a playmate after sex.
Maybe it's a singles thing?"
I enjoy a cuddle after sex, I also enjoy lots of touching, stroking, kissing and wait for it; talking! |
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Cuddles are great.
To me it's like kissing, it's part of the intamacy and as such part of what makes the sexual connection stronger and better.
I couldn't have sex without kissing or cuddles. Might as well just use a toy. |
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A cuddle is always a good idea in my book
her head on my chest usually , or a spooning. Get our breath back and a bit of recovery time.
maybe chat if the moods right.
A nice rest before the next bout  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not something I'd usually do. A bit too intimate for me.
If it's a regular meet, then possibly. I tend to save any cuddling or hand holding for if I'm dating someone, not one off meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex without cuddles is like plain rice without a curry. Fills a basic need, but does NOT satisfy.
I'm stealing that, great analogy.
I agree too "
Haha absolutely |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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If a overnighter we tend to just chill with me the filling in the sandwich, or they have kept me on the edge for hours and i finally let go into a orgasmic haze, and wake up being teased again, nothing hotter, im no wham bam thank you man, unless its a outdoor quickie scenario, same as kissing and eye contact also a huge turnon for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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too many restrictions can spoil things, too often there are too many rules: no kissing, no cuddling, no stroking yada yada yada. I had it where the man listed all those things as "she doesn't do". She sat scowling and through the whole thing looked as miserable as sin and never said a word. Not my best night out despite the fact she was stunning to look at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to HATE cuddles!
But a couple of people have changed my mind and I find I do quite enjoy a cuddle after nowadays "
I hope I feel that way one day, and about kissing too  |
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I think it all depends on the people and situation, but now I think about it, more often than not if there are three or more of you cuddles don't happen unless with your own partner. Possibly to reaffirm their relationship status after having a mind blowing orgasm with someone else. Now I want a cuddle. |
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"I’m definitely a cuddler - but not all night. I’m used to sleeping alone so for me it’s cuddles after sex - separate to sleep - then morning cuddles and sleepy sex - which generally turns into rampant sex!
Amazing where a cuddle can lead. "
I do this as well
Also every single one of the hothusbands I play with is very happy to romantically cuddle with me, I wouldn't play if the couple wasn't happy with that |
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"For us swinging and romance are at opposite ends of the spectrum, and cuddles are definitely at the romance end. "
Same I only cuddle my husband never really wanted or felt the need to cuddle anyone we have had fun with..
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