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Too many men on here with short term memories
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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Interestingly it is not just the men, I have had exactly the same thing with women and couples too... |
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We get this all the time. Had one the other day, saying he wanted to chat more about the anal session we'd planned.
Alas he didn't know that's an exclusive hole. We had not discussed such a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they paid for subscription they’d be able to keep track of their message threads. But then their wives might start questioning what the payment was for. 
Lou x "
This is exactly it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't believe your trying to say us men can't oooooooo look a Squirrel awww ain't that so cute....... Erm what was I saying oh yeah us men have the best oooooooo look a sheep oh my iys so fluffy and white...... Sorry what was I saying again lol |
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The site supporter comment is quite important here, not just because of having record of conversation. Apparently, if you're a site supporter, you get the "you messaged them yesterday/two weeks ago/a year ago" notice when you look at the profile. I guess men messaging you, OP, are mainly not site supporters. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
The notes function is your friend
"Oh hi single straight man that i chatted with a few weeks ago that told me you live with your parents and cant accom but here you are posting on the forum about your wife and secret encounters with men"  |
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Blocked a lad this morning who has sent the same message every week for months
"Hey gorgeous"
Every time I point out that if he read our profile its pretty obvious its the male he will be talking to.
He never learns, finally got bored of telling him and blocked him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had identical experiences with both females and couples, i dont chat to single men but its the same across the board, some of which have sent friends requests that I have accepted st8ll forget weve chatted  |
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.Same here lol..... men and their willies
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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It's not our fault, part of our brains evolved from goldfish..
Mmmmm boobies
Sorry what were you saying ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men have a 2 second memory, well some do! They forgot who they have chatted with and who they have not, if you have not peaked their interest then they will forget who they have chatted with, those with a mind will say to themselves “ oh I been there and go no joy” and won’t do again but some are just gluten for punishment lol |
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We find some couples have very short or selective memories.
TBH it's no different with single guys, single ladies or couples.
It's the good, the bad, the mediocre, the timewasters and drama queens....not too sure where we fit in.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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we get this a lot its funny how guys have a very short term memory as the new mailbox keeps a records messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find some couples have very short or selective memories.
TBH it's no different with single guys, single ladies or couples.
It's the good, the bad, the mediocre, the timewasters and drama queens....not too sure where we fit in. "
Exactly this. Gotta love how its only ever single males and heaven forbid someone states otherwise lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
we get this a lot its funny how guys have a very short term memory as the new mailbox keeps a records messages"
100% agree, we find couples are the worse, even during the same conversation they can ask the same questions again and again |
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"The site supporter comment is quite important here, not just because of having record of conversation. Apparently, if you're a site supporter, you get the "you messaged them yesterday/two weeks ago/a year ago" notice when you look at the profile. I guess men messaging you, OP, are mainly not site supporters. "
you get that with a free account as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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Same with the women too x |
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We've been on this and another site for years and it happens all the time. There are decent guys around but loads more who contact multiple couples and can't even recall who they've chatted to.
They are the ones who make it so much harder for everyone. |
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"The site supporter comment is quite important here, not just because of having record of conversation. Apparently, if you're a site supporter, you get the "you messaged them yesterday/two weeks ago/a year ago" notice when you look at the profile. I guess men messaging you, OP, are mainly not site supporters.
you get that with a free account as well"
No, you don't, just checked. |
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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago
Not looking to meet new peeps. |
"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
block is the answer
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
Deep in the New Forest |
"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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It's not rocket science.. It says on your profile if you've mailed before. |
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In our experience at parties, it's very rarely the single guys who cause any type of grief.
If any, its generally couples who cause problems and invariably the lady of the couple.
Not cast in stone, very rarely happens but what we have witnessed first hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.
The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.
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Happens daily lol. |
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By *ED00Woman
over a year ago
South Devon... Torbaydos |
Lol I've literally just had this happen. The message thread say 97 messages and hes sent a message say hi my names...... I'm a polite discreet guy looking for fun. Shame he forgot to put with short term memory loss lol |
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