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Do you get annoyed being so attractive ever?
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OK OK... intended to be a SERIOUS question, but ... yeah... good luck to that. Anyway...
SOME people here are bloody stunning. And of course that's bloody good for them in theory. But there must be times when you just get fed up of the attention, the looks, the extra 500 shitty messages clogging up your hope of finding someone on your level.
Just asking as I saw a Daily Mash article just now called "Dating 'fun' if you're a 10 and incredible in every way" but whilst I'm sure there are huge positives, it's got to suck at times too, right?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldnt say I was attractive but you sift through the good an down right bad messages being a single female on fab you get inundated with messages no matter what you look like half dont even look at your profile  |
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Yeah I'm fed up of it myself, two messages a month is ridiculous and I'm struggling to cope. Tired of being smiled at while out and about and the damn Mrs won't leave me alone !... On the other hand OP, most stunning girls I've met knew they were gorgeous and their characters were not so nice as a result. Then there have been the odd ones I have met that were so incredibly nice on the inside too !... some angels do exist  |
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over a year ago
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I'm not one of the most attractive girls on here and still get 100-200 messages a day, at least 80% of which are crap. Yes it is annoying and hard work sometimes. The other girls that are really hot must get 500+ per day like you say depending on their filters. After a few days that must be unmanageable! Xx |
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"Wouldnt say I was attractive but you sift through the good an down right bad messages being a single female on fab you get inundated with messages no matter what you look like half dont even look at your profile "
This.... ive missed some really lovely messages due to the to faf dripping nonsense. Nothing to do with how I look just what genitalia I have. |
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I don't count myself as suffering from being too attractive but I know people who have done. It's a double edged sword.
A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league". They often don't get taken seriously because people truly believe that looks and ability are not compatible. Also as is often evidenced in the forum a lot of people believe that beautiful people have ugly personalities.
Being extremely attractive works in your favour sometimes. A friend of mine, tall, slim and blonde broke down in very heavy traffic once. Literally all she had to do was get out of the car and 10 guys came to help her.  |
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"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league"."
I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.
Yes. Must be. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Do people that are really attractive think of themselves as being attractive? If they did they would be conceited and that would probably make them relatively unattractive."
That doesn’t make sense. Conceited doesn’t mean self-aware, and presumably most conventionally attractive people are aware if they are conventionally attractive or not.
On the other hand, if they were excessively proud of the fact, or thought their looks meant they were better than other people because of it, then they would be conceited - which is an ugly personality trait to have, objectively. |
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"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league".
I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.
Yes. Must be."
Well it's most certainly my problem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not one of the most attractive girls on here and still get 100-200 messages a day, at least 80% of which are crap. Yes it is annoying and hard work sometimes. The other girls that are really hot must get 500+ per day like you say depending on their filters. After a few days that must be unmanageable! Xx"
200 messages a day ?!?? How do u even find the effort to open a quarter of them. Would drive me crackers |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league".
I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.
Yes. Must be."
Surely the problem is the guy thinking she is out of his league, by definition she because he has no confidence and is scared of rejection. It’s not the woman’s fault for being pretty, her looks don’t determine if she likes you or not , your personality does though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league".
I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.
Yes. Must be.
Surely the problem is the guy thinking she is out of his league, by definition she because he has no confidence and is scared of rejection. It’s not the woman’s fault for being pretty, her looks don’t determine if she likes you or not , your personality does though "
(I meant I'm the pretty one ) |
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