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Does age really matter?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no I prefer internal muscle control rather...
a scrotum and womb dangling... puts me off"
Not all us in our 40's/50's should be put in to that category thank you lol, some of us have tighter fanny muscles than your arse. I have seen photo's of much younger folks on here that i think well they are not wearing very well, So i say go with the flow, you might be very surprised  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"no I prefer internal muscle control rather...
a scrotum and womb dangling... puts me off
Not all us in our 40's/50's should be put in to that category thank you lol, some of us have tighter fanny muscles than your arse. I have seen photo's of much younger folks on here that i think well they are not wearing very well, So i say go with the flow, you might be very surprised "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a mental block regarding people younger than my kids.
But thats just me
So it will put some off
I agree with this, my kids are 20, 24 and 29. "
thats why i can't sleep with 50 year olds reminds me or parents lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It matters to many. Same as skin colour, body size, whatever, matters.
If nothing mattered then we'd all just fuck anyone and we wouldn't need profiles."
Great answer and so true. |
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i have to have a connection with people, its not just about sex, i need to be able to hold a conversation with them too, if they cant stimulate my mind they have no chance with my body, and if im going to be honest i would have nothing at all in common with a 20 year old, i just couldnt imagine having any form of mental connection with someone that age, i remember when i was 20, my mind was much different to how it is now, if i met me at 20 now id think i was a right twat lol
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"I have a mental block regarding people younger than my kids.
But thats just me
So it will put some off
I agree with this, my kids are 20, 24 and 29. thats why i can't sleep with 50 year olds reminds me or parents lol"
Better change your upper age limit then as the 50 year olds your looking for will call you timewasters!  |
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"We agree, age doesn't matter, we see people same age as us who look 20yrs older and vice versa"
Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age limit of 45 yet questioning those who also have an age preference. Right...gotcha!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We agree, age doesn't matter, we see people same age as us who look 20yrs older and vice versa
Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age limit of 45 yet questioning those who also have an age preference. Right...gotcha! "
damn you beat me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have to have a connection with people, its not just about sex, i need to be able to hold a conversation with them too, if they cant stimulate my mind they have no chance with my body, and if im going to be honest i would have nothing at all in common with a 20 year old, i just couldnt imagine having any form of mental connection with someone that age, i remember when i was 20, my mind was much different to how it is now, if i met me at 20 now id think i was a right twat lol
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Exactly this...our lower age limit is 25 and even that's too low for me...not for Mash tho... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We agree, age doesn't matter, we see people same age as us who look 20yrs older and vice versa
Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age limit of 45 yet questioning those who also have an age preference. Right...gotcha!
damn you beat me lol"
Yep we have an age limit of 45 as we both feel people over that age (same as you stated) wouldn't have anything in common, we're not here for just sex, we enjoy social side too, like I said we're mature for our age but that doesn't mean we tick everybodys boxes! as a few people have said they have mental blocks on people the same age as their children, we too have the same block on people same age as our parents we're not naïve we know we're not going to everybodys cup of tea, just wanting opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We agree, age doesn't matter, we see people same age as us who look 20yrs older and vice versa
Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age limit of 45 yet questioning those who also have an age preference. Right...gotcha!
damn you beat me lol
Yep we have an age limit of 45 as we both feel people over that age (same as you stated) wouldn't have anything in common, we're not here for just sex, we enjoy social side too, like I said we're mature for our age but that doesn't mean we tick everybodys boxes! as a few people have said they have mental blocks on people the same age as their children, we too have the same block on people same age as our parents we're not naïve we know we're not going to everybodys cup of tea, just wanting opinions "
so basically you have just answered your own question on your own thread there
yes age matter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh and we're not questioning people's age preferences, just asking for opinions to (like I've said) see if it's majority or minority of people, if it was majority of people on here then we wouldn't want to feel that we were wasting our time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We agree, age doesn't matter, we see people same age as us who look 20yrs older and vice versa
Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age limit of 45 yet questioning those who also have an age preference. Right...gotcha!
damn you beat me lol
Yep we have an age limit of 45 as we both feel people over that age (same as you stated) wouldn't have anything in common, we're not here for just sex, we enjoy social side too, like I said we're mature for our age but that doesn't mean we tick everybodys boxes! as a few people have said they have mental blocks on people the same age as their children, we too have the same block on people same age as our parents we're not naïve we know we're not going to everybodys cup of tea, just wanting opinions
so basically you have just answered your own question on your own thread there
yes age matter "
Only to some don't miss a trick do you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have to have a connection with people, its not just about sex, i need to be able to hold a conversation with them too, if they cant stimulate my mind they have no chance with my body, and if im going to be honest i would have nothing at all in common with a 20 year old, i just couldnt imagine having any form of mental connection with someone that age, i remember when i was 20, my mind was much different to how it is now, if i met me at 20 now id think i was a right twat lol
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I photograph models regularly, 18+ girls and while I enjoy a few hours of banter, this is absolutely correct - I can't really connect with them, it's just a job and work chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter what anyone say's, age matters to "everyone"
The reason I say that is, even the people that say age don't matter, would they have fun with a 101 year old as an example? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We just wanted to know if we were wasting our time on here, seems to us that infact age doesn't matter to most people, yes we have an age limit on here but not a block, so people over that age can infact contact us and if we like what we see then take it from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just wanted to know if we were wasting our time on here, seems to us that infact age doesn't matter to most people, yes we have an age limit on here but not a block, so people over that age can infact contact us and if we like what we see then take it from there "
there will be loads of people on here willing to meet you, i wouldnt even worry about those who dont |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No matter what anyone say's, age matters to "everyone"
The reason I say that is, even the people that say age don't matter, would they have fun with a 101 year old as an example?"
Well I would be shocked if I met a 101 year old who swings! But maybe stranger things have happened lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We just wanted to know if we were wasting our time on here, seems to us that infact age doesn't matter to most people, yes we have an age limit on here but not a block, so people over that age can infact contact us and if we like what we see then take it from there
there will be loads of people on here willing to meet you, i wouldnt even worry about those who dont "
Just that it's gone quiet past few weeks and wondering if that was the reason, but obviously not so happy days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No matter what anyone say's, age matters to "everyone"
The reason I say that is, even the people that say age don't matter, would they have fun with a 101 year old as an example?
Well I would be shocked if I met a 101 year old who swings! But maybe stranger things have happened lol "
well id shag them, just out of respect for teh fact they was still shagging at 101 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a twenty year age gap with us and we tend to play with folk neare her age and up to now have had no problems !
Infact we have happily played with couples in their early twenties and it's been great - so no you are not too young at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its us older guys that age seems to go against I notice your cut off is 45 fresh... I always wonder at the age cut off and the reason for it especially if its a random age such as 47 for example. "
We give or take a few years, like I said all depends on the person really, 45 we felt was young and I suppose because our parents are early 50's didn't want to turn up on a meet and it was their friends!  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There is a twenty year age gap with us and we tend to play with folk neare her age and up to now have had no problems !
Infact we have happily played with couples in their early twenties and it's been great - so no you are not too young at all "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter what anyone say's, age matters to "everyone"
The reason I say that is, even the people that say age don't matter, would they have fun with a 101 year old as an example?
Well I would be shocked if I met a 101 year old who swings! But maybe stranger things have happened lol "
We seen a woman on a zimmer frame twize in the same swingers club, not 101 no but couldn't be far of
Real nice to talk to though and was a bugger for eyeing up the guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter what anyone say's, age matters to "everyone"
The reason I say that is, even the people that say age don't matter, would they have fun with a 101 year old as an example?
Well I would be shocked if I met a 101 year old who swings! But maybe stranger things have happened lol
well id shag them, just out of respect for teh fact they was still shagging at 101 "
We are both 101 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No matter what anyone say's, age matters to "everyone"
The reason I say that is, even the people that say age don't matter, would they have fun with a 101 year old as an example?
Well I would be shocked if I met a 101 year old who swings! But maybe stranger things have happened lol
We seen a woman on a zimmer frame twize in the same swingers club, not 101 no but couldn't be far of
Real nice to talk to though and was a bugger for eyeing up the guys "
Haha fairplay to her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it doesn't. A 49 year old guy may be more immature than an 18 year old, so age means nothing except for grey hair and wrinkles.  "
That kind of attitude would put me off more than age ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
Im not put off....but there again i not looked close enough yet ....TAXI for Dudley |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No it doesn't. A 49 year old guy may be more immature than an 18 year old, so age means nothing except for grey hair and wrinkles. "
but with grey hair and wrinkles comes experiece, no point having a young fit bod if he aint got a clue how to please you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It matters to many. Same as skin colour, body size, whatever, matters.
If nothing mattered then we'd all just fuck anyone and we wouldn't need profiles."
I totally agree a respecting others likes and dislikes is what makes swinging so fantasticly diverse you don't like someones prefrences thier is always someone else that will xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a mental block regarding people younger than my kids.
But thats just me
So it will put some off "
Good job I don't as my daughter is one year older than my wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
We find it hard finding mature bi females over 50yrs old..offers from younger females are plenty,but mature females seem not to want younger.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No it doesn't. A 49 year old guy may be more immature than an 18 year old, so age means nothing except for grey hair and wrinkles. "
Yes or even a 60 year old guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting to see those who profess open mindedness have age limits. Let's be honest age is an easy discriminator and we all have preferences. Like others I guess I clicked the limit but have played with older and younger as it's the personality and chemistry that counts. |
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I have no age limits, its the person that counts, if we click then who cares about age.
Mind you i am 52 and way out of many peoples age range on fab.
So tempted to say they dont know what they are missing, but it really isnt my place.
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age does matter to me....it matters more when i am TOLD its only a number
i knw what age is, and to those i turn down theirs is a number that is either too low or too high
for me younger men are like excited little puppies!! jumping up and down, chaging their minds abut what they want, wanting to try everything in the first five minutes of meeting them, interested purely in their own satisfaction....this is why i dont meet people younger than 25 generally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep we are mature and experienced, I suppose that some people will be put off just wondered if it was majority or minorty "
You are 23 and you are calling yourself 'experienced'? You are saying this to swingers on this site who are at least 20yrs older than you and who, like me, have been swinging for OVER 20 years?
And you wonder why you are not being taken seriously?????????????????????
Hmmmmm........
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
XXXX"
agree with this, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep we are mature and experienced, I suppose that some people will be put off just wondered if it was majority or minorty
You are 23 and you are calling yourself 'experienced'? You are saying this to swingers on this site who are at least 20yrs older than you and who, like me, have been swinging for OVER 20 years?
And you wonder why you are not being taken seriously?????????????????????
Hmmmmm........
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To us its all about if we get on with the couple, if we met a couple in their 20's and we got on with them, we'd play. The same goes with an older couple. So to us, age is a guideline, not fixed in stone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yep we are mature and experienced, I suppose that some people will be put off just wondered if it was majority or minorty
You are 23 and you are calling yourself 'experienced'? You are saying this to swingers on this site who are at least 20yrs older than you and who, like me, have been swinging for OVER 20 years?
And you wonder why you are not being taken seriously?????????????????????
Hmmmmm........
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Hmmm, let us rephrase then! We're not experienced in swinging, we're 'newbies' in that department but sexually, we are experienced, age doesn't bring experience, sexual exploration does! Doesn't matter how old a person is, old or young can be experienced or unexperienced.
Just to clear any misunderstandings
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
XXXX
agree with this, "
Well if some older people don't want to meet the people who posted the question because they have hang ups about being older, then the posters won't have missed anything. People with hang ups about themselves are such dreadful bores ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
XXXX
agree with this,
Well if some older people don't want to meet the people who posted the question because they have hang ups about being older, then the posters won't have missed anything. People with hang ups about themselves are such dreadful bores !"
Agreed confidence is sexy %20 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
XXXX
agree with this,
Well if some older people don't want to meet the people who posted the question because they have hang ups about being older, then the posters won't have missed anything. People with hang ups about themselves are such dreadful bores !"
Its nothing to do with having hang ups about being older, they look a nice couple but some of us really are only interested in our own age group, its called preference, surely that is not a hang up? |
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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
We think generally speaking it does matter to a large proportion depending on whether your at the 'younger scale end or older end' if that makes sense ? We have had a similar experience & we are a bit older than you.
However that said you are experienced , you sound & look great. We would have no probs considering a meet with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We agree, age doesn't matter, we see people same age as us who look 20yrs older and vice versa"
you say age does not matter yet you have set age limits yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just noted that you have a limit of 45, so obviously it does matter to you.
thank you.... glad someone just said the obvious...
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yeah... but they didnt say in their OP that it didnt matter to them, they just asked if it mattered to others thinking they were too young..! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like em young enough that they dont look as though theres going to be a medical emergency in the bedroom, because although I have a violet wand I dont have a defibrilator 
...I've never done zimmer frame bondage either
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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yeah... but they didnt say in their OP that it didnt matter to them, they just asked if it mattered to others thinking they were too young..!"
but as i always say... some people don't want to play with people young enough to be son or daughter... some people don't want to play with people old enough to be mum or dad....
but if you have an "age concern" don't be surprised if other have that concern as well and that it does not work in your favour... |
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I met a couple quite by accident at Chams one Saturday evening. We had nattered in the chatroom we were on at the time (not here) and I had messaged only to get a pleasant 'TBNT'.
Me and my friend had to smile therefore in the jacuzzi when the lady said 'ooh you don't look your age at all. If I had known I wouldn't have said no thanks ...'
Makes one wonder if people read beyond the profile summary.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"just noted that you have a limit of 45, so obviously it does matter to you.
thank you.... glad someone just said the obvious...
yeah... but they didnt say in their OP that it didnt matter to them, they just asked if it mattered to others thinking they were too young..!"
Hallejuah, somebody gets it, we never said age is a concern, we asked if we were too young |
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"I met a couple quite by accident at Chams one Saturday evening. We had nattered in the chatroom we were on at the time (not here) and I had messaged only to get a pleasant 'TBNT'.
Me and my friend had to smile therefore in the jacuzzi when the lady said 'ooh you don't look your age at all. If I had known I wouldn't have said no thanks ...'
Makes one wonder if people read beyond the profile summary...."
That's what I said, yes we do have an age limit on here but not a block, which means if a 50yr old woman/man/couple messaged us and we clicked the age doesn't matter, more of a guideline, I can't see where it states 'we do not play with anybody over 45!!' Anybody else see it? |
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"I met a couple quite by accident at Chams one Saturday evening. We had nattered in the chatroom we were on at the time (not here) and I had messaged only to get a pleasant 'TBNT'.
Me and my friend had to smile therefore in the jacuzzi when the lady said 'ooh you don't look your age at all. If I had known I wouldn't have said no thanks ...'
Makes one wonder if people read beyond the profile summary....
That's what I said, yes we do have an age limit on here but not a block, which means if a 50yr old woman/man/couple messaged us and we clicked the age doesn't matter, more of a guideline, I can't see where it states 'we do not play with anybody over 45!!' Anybody else see it? "
Maybe because your profile says 18-45? For me it's one of the things I read on a profile so if age didn't matter to me, I wouldn't send you a message because of your upper limit |
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
Just wait till you get to my age. You will find it just as difficult |
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"I met a couple quite by accident at Chams one Saturday evening. We had nattered in the chatroom we were on at the time (not here) and I had messaged only to get a pleasant 'TBNT'.
Me and my friend had to smile therefore in the jacuzzi when the lady said 'ooh you don't look your age at all. If I had known I wouldn't have said no thanks ...'
Makes one wonder if people read beyond the profile summary....
That's what I said, yes we do have an age limit on here but not a block, which means if a 50yr old woman/man/couple messaged us and we clicked the age doesn't matter, more of a guideline, I can't see where it states 'we do not play with anybody over 45!!' Anybody else see it?
Maybe because your profile says 18-45? For me it's one of the things I read on a profile so if age didn't matter to me, I wouldn't send you a message because of your upper limit"
Hmm maybe a change is in order then, we set it as a guideline really |
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
As with anything, yes it will matter to some and not to others.
We all play as we feel comfortable/sexy. |
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"I met a couple quite by accident at Chams one Saturday evening. We had nattered in the chatroom we were on at the time (not here) and I had messaged only to get a pleasant 'TBNT'.
Me and my friend had to smile therefore in the jacuzzi when the lady said 'ooh you don't look your age at all. If I had known I wouldn't have said no thanks ...'
Makes one wonder if people read beyond the profile summary....
That's what I said, yes we do have an age limit on here but not a block, which means if a 50yr old woman/man/couple messaged us and we clicked the age doesn't matter, more of a guideline, I can't see where it states 'we do not play with anybody over 45!!' Anybody else see it?
Maybe because your profile says 18-45? For me it's one of the things I read on a profile so if age didn't matter to me, I wouldn't send you a message because of your upper limit
Hmm maybe a change is in order then, we set it as a guideline really "
And yes it is quiet on here today |
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By *ikeC81Man
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for me...i tend to prefer couples a little older and single females around same age,,,not saying i like older female or couples same age,,,just sexually there former turns me on that little bit more....
at the moment i am at the age to young for some people or to old for others....lol |
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions "
Yes it puts me off - especially as I am over your age limit.
Seriously though, if you have a preference - go with it. But you will always wonder about a person who is maybe a year older or younger - who would be amazing but for your preferences...
I find it better to have the widest age selector and then base my judgements on how we appear to hit it off... |
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
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Well if some older people don't want to meet the people who posted the question because they have hang ups about being older, then the posters won't have missed anything. People with hang ups about themselves are such dreadful bores !
Its nothing to do with having hang ups about being older, they look a nice couple but some of us really are only interested in our own age group, its called preference, surely that is not a hang up?"
No indeed. I was only referring to those who think that younger couples wouldn't be interested in them because they are too old not those who just like people of their own age . |
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
XXXX
agree with this,
Well if some older people don't want to meet the people who posted the question because they have hang ups about being older, then the posters won't have missed anything. People with hang ups about themselves are such dreadful bores !"
Well you'd be surprised how many "dreadful bores" are out there.
We've spoken to lots of people who won't meet younger couples because they'd feel self conscious of how they looked, many may get around it by saying they wouldn't meet anyone the same age or younger than their kids.
For the record we've met a couple aged 23/24, in fact Trace had an on going relationship with the woman, so we can't see a problem.
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it seems there are a lot of 18 yr old kids who tick all the boxes in interests just where did thay get all this expierance from one wonders kids in a candy shop who just want it all |
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"We are a young but experienced couple, a few close friends on here have told us that maybe our age puts people off, who agrees/disagrees? Just wanting peoples opinions
Sometimes its not just about age, its about peoples perception of themselves and self confidence or lack of.
Older people than you may well fancy a younger couple such as yourselves and would love to meet, however the way they feel about themselves in comparison to someone 20+ years younger may prevent them from doing so.
So while your question is "Why don't older people want to meet us?" their question may be "Why would a fit young couple want to meet us?".
XXXX
agree with this,
Well if some older people don't want to meet the people who posted the question because they have hang ups about being older, then the posters won't have missed anything. People with hang ups about themselves are such dreadful bores !
Well you'd be surprised how many "dreadful bores" are out there.
We've spoken to lots of people who won't meet younger couples because they'd feel self conscious of how they looked, many may get around it by saying they wouldn't meet anyone the same age or younger than their kids.
For the record we've met a couple aged 23/24, in fact Trace had an on going relationship with the woman, so we can't see a problem.
XXXX"
Personally I would rather meet someone with the same aged body as mine, feels a whole lot more comfortable than the thought of a young body  |
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