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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.
Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...
Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.
Fab’s a weird place sometimes!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like she showed to the other half and he wasn’t into it so they decided not to continue.
Pretty reasonable really. At least told you plenty just full on ghost. |
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"Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.
Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...
Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.
Fab’s a weird place sometimes! "
Why is it weird? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.
Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...
Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.
Fab’s a weird place sometimes!
Why is it weird?"
Was weird that all was well, then a couple of minutes from her last message, it was thanks very much, see ya.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H
Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman. "
The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H
Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.
The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete."
Definitely sounds like the guy responding. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H
Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.
The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.
Definitely sounds like the guy responding."
He definitely sent the last message!
She was messaging previously though, with pics.
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"I say it a lot on here ..
Stay away from couples..
If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..
You don’t know their dynamic or situation.."
Granted I've never met a couple (yet) and wouldn't say no to one, that's why I don't actively look for them, or have couples ticked in my preferences  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She was messaging previously though, with pics.
Were they live pics of things you were asking her to do, or pics the male could have already had of her on his phone ?"
I know what you’re saying, but it is a verified profile, so no reason to think it was the guy-but I guess it could’ve been... |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H
Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.
The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.
Definitely sounds like the guy responding."
I meant the 'no thanks' message  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H
Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.
The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.
Definitely sounds like the guy responding.
I meant the 'no thanks' message "
I thought so, but wanted to clarify |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's wierd at all - it's pretty normal.
Could be they saw something they didn't like
Guy didn't like you
Maybe they have a better offer
Maybe you said something they didn't like
Etc etc
Alot of guys get hung up that if they chat, it's definitely going to lead to something.... unfortunately the reality is it's just chat, nothing more
Yeah it can be annoying,just the way the cookie crumbles |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H
Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.
The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.
Definitely sounds like the guy responding.
I meant the 'no thanks' message
I thought so, but wanted to clarify "
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"Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.
Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...
Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.
Fab’s a weird place sometimes! "
Not weird, we were chatting to a guy part of a couple last week, we were getting on like a house on fire..his wife came home from work so he showed us to her, and then a msg saying thankyou kindly but my wife wasn't happy...can't expect folk to keep talking if they are not intrested, as harsh as that sound it's the reality of fab, we never ever play with someone that the other half doesn't like. Don't look to much into it though. |
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"I say it a lot on here ..
Stay away from couples..
If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..
You don’t know their dynamic or situation.."
My best mmf meets have been the ones where the couple made the first approach...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will normally find if one says no it’s no husband may have been at work or out then read messages and said no there is no point pursuing it at least they didn’t block you |
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