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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"I’d rather meet a married man that was cheating than a married man who’s wife was aware he was on here.
I don’t like the thought of them discussing me."
I kind of agree with this...
Or those who say “Mrs lets me go out to play...” makes me shidder. It’s a bit like “Mummy says I am allowed to go out and play... you can go and ask her if I have permission...” erm, no. Instant turnoff.
But marital status of the people I see is irrelevant at the end of the day. |
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"I’d rather meet a married man that was cheating than a married man who’s wife was aware he was on here.
I don’t like the thought of them discussing me."
I’m the opposite. I’d rather her know where her man was rather than thinking he’s out playing pool with his mates whilst she stays home and washes the dishes like a wally. I’d feel awful. I’d want to know she was getting her fun too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d rather meet a married man that was cheating than a married man who’s wife was aware he was on here.
I don’t like the thought of them discussing me."
Same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d rather meet a married man that was cheating than a married man who’s wife was aware he was on here.
I don’t like the thought of them discussing me."
I meet someone who's engaged. She's aware obviously but they don't discuss their meets together. Wouldn't meet him if they did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d rather meet a married man that was cheating than a married man who’s wife was aware he was on here.
I don’t like the thought of them discussing me.
I meet someone who's engaged. She's aware obviously but they don't discuss their meets together. Wouldn't meet him if they did."
They tell you they don’t discuss their meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see the point of advertising your married on your profile.
Your only asking to be judged."
Cock blocking myself makes things even more of a challenge   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see the point of advertising your married on your profile.
Your only asking to be judged.
Cock blocking myself makes things even more of a challenge
Hate the game not the player "
Ha! Something like that |
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"I don't see the point of advertising your married on your profile.
Your only asking to be judged.
Cock blocking myself makes things even more of a challenge
Hate the game not the player
Ha! Something like that "
Lol if it's working for then don't change it.
I'm only seeing it from my point of view, I was fucked about big time in the past and was left very bitter about it.
Knocked my confidence for years and put me in some pretty dark places.
But hey you live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see the point of advertising your married on your profile.
Your only asking to be judged.
Cock blocking myself makes things even more of a challenge
Hate the game not the player
Ha! Something like that
Lol if it's working for then don't change it.
I'm only seeing it from my point of view, I was fucked about big time in the past and was left very bitter about it.
Knocked my confidence for years and put me in some pretty dark places.
But hey you live and learn."
Oh, I totally understand that completely, I know all too well how damaging being fucked around by a significant other can be.
Always learning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught . |
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught ."
Wait till you have a scorned wife or husband on the doorstep.
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught ."
For some people it is though. I’ve heard of people ringing workplaces, turning up on doorsteps, getting punched and alsorts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with married men. The difficulty is that they often aren't available in the evenings or weekends when I am "
Come on you're being unreasonable- what about Tuesday afternoons inbetween 1.15 and 1.30 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with married men. The difficulty is that they often aren't available in the evenings or weekends when I am
Come on you're being unreasonable- what about Tuesday afternoons inbetween 1.15 and 1.30 "
Like the married man I was chatting to who couldn’t meet daytimes evenings or weekends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught .
Wait till you have a scorned wife or husband on the doorstep.
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You could invite them to have a threesome |
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"A quick chat with the wife on cam would prove you have permission. A quick chat with her and you don't have permission and you get the rolling pin. Seems the best way of proof. "
That wouldn’t be a drama. |
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"I’d rather meet a married man that was cheating than a married man who’s wife was aware he was on here.
I don’t like the thought of them discussing me.
I’m the opposite. I’d rather her know where her man was rather than thinking he’s out playing pool with his mates whilst she stays home and washes the dishes like a wally. I’d feel awful. I’d want to know she was getting her fun too. "
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught ."
It is your problem when their other half turns up at your workplace or home and causes a scene or worse. Let’s face it with contact syncing on smart phones it only takes a phone number to be able to find out things from your socials.
Everyone has their own situation to deal with how they see fit but we will not meet partnered people unless their partner is aware.
I don’t think that’s judgmental, I think it’s a preference. |
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught .
For some people it is though. I’ve heard of people ringing workplaces, turning up on doorsteps, getting punched and alsorts"
This is my issue....it's never the cheater that gets the blame, especially when it's a guy cheating, it's the free and single woman  (This is just from what I've seen and heard, may not be everyone's experience of it)
I'd prefer not to have women knocking on my door or punching me in the local supermarket  |
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By *69meMan
over a year ago
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I'm married and it says so on my profile. I'm part of a couple profile too, with my wife.
...and yes, I do play "alone" and have permission to do so (which my wife can verify and my verifications explain) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married quite open about it here to complete my lust list and get enough action to support my marriage. But I'm I'm honest not had much intrest but hey ho |
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"I'm married quite open about it here to complete my lust list and get enough action to support my marriage. But I'm I'm honest not had much intrest but hey ho"
Action to support your marriage ?
If your wife doesn’t know then you really don’t have a marriage . |
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Simple you can't win with everyone. Everyone has different opinions on the issue (as seen on this thread). Say it was a 50/50 split thats already sliced your options in half in a far over crowed market. Married cheating or not is a disadvantage on here. You can't do anything about it really. It doesn't mean game over, just a lot tougher playing field. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another day another thread about married men lol
Look at the end of the day it's just another preference. Some people are ok with it, others arent. It's like some women prefer tall men, or some guys prefer big boobs. You can't please everyone, and nor should you aim to.
Agreed being married does narrow the chances. So what can you do ? Either lie about , and hope it doesn't get brought up, or be honest about it and be patient
I prefer to be the latter
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"Seems we can’t win, be honest say we’re married and not cheating puts people off....
Say we’re single and not married people assume we’re cheating and that puts them off....
We’re doomed "
I like honesty myself and have no problems as long as partner is aware. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd just like to meet someone full stop ??????, gets abit demoralising just getting ignored all the time thought this site was a laid back friendly place, read through some profiles it sounds more like you'd be applying for a job if you were to send a message lol. Where's all the laid back non judgemental people in Nottingham?? ???? |
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By *willMan
over a year ago
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"I'd just like to meet someone full stop ??????, gets abit demoralising just getting ignored all the time thought this site was a laid back friendly place, read through some profiles it sounds more like you'd be applying for a job if you were to send a message lol. Where's all the laid back non judgemental people in Nottingham?? ????"
There aren’t any any where on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
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No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies |
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies "
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've always tried to be upfront about my marital status so that a potential partner knows from the outset and can decide accordingly. Nearly everyone I've met and played with from Fab over the years has been married or attached. Some are playing with their spouse's knowledge and others are working under the radar but I don't judge either way. The danger element of seeing someone outside your marriage can be addictive so has to be balanced against your mental (and marital) well-being. |
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There is nothing worse than someone sayin they are married but lookin to meet others n their partners DONT KNOW they are on here n shaggin behind their vack
U can fook off n jog on
Or hope u get caught out
If u r married
Why cant u just b hobest with ur other hslf
Ok u not havin sex together for some reason
But no need to b discreet
Behind their back
Think of the consequences
Ur shaggin someone else
Ur better galf the one who loves u catches u out
Watcwud b the first thing she wud do
Kick u out the house
Or if a winan shaggin
Her fella cones home
Knocks the shit out the shagger
But in all fault it isctheir oen partners bein the lyin shits
Thrn think if u have kids
They cud easily stop u seein kids for shaggin away
Either b honest
Tell them first
Ur lookin elswehere
See how they react
Or split on mutual grounds
Due to no sex between u both
Then if u have kids
U will still get the chance to see them
BASICALLY more fool all u dickheads shaggin behind ur partners backs to start with
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems we can’t win, be honest say we’re married and not cheating puts people off....
Say we’re single and not married people assume we’re cheating and that puts them off....
We’re doomed
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We don't mind married cheating guys, aslong as your honest. As you have more to lose than we have if your found out.
At least we know why you go quite at night |
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught .
It is your problem when their other half turns up at your workplace or home and causes a scene or worse. Let’s face it with contact syncing on smart phones it only takes a phone number to be able to find out things from your socials.
Everyone has their own situation to deal with how they see fit but we will not meet partnered people unless their partner is aware.
I don’t think that’s judgmental, I think it’s a preference. "
WE agree completely, imagine you being the wife who is working, cooking, cleaning and looking after kids, and he is busy getting his ball emptied somewhere else, and not just with one person, but with a whole heap of people on a swingers site..I would be a broken woman so therefore I'm not happy being the reason that woman will be broken, I will understand however if the wife has a long term health issue and cannot have sex so they agree to him getting sex elsewhere...but there are alot of profiles that just say I'm married and she doesn't know I'm on here, and yes I'm fully aware that women are just as bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I realised a while back that we shouldn’t judge. I have been married for 20 years wife doesn’t know but I can stop dressing as Ayesha (tried many times before). So I have to live a parallel life. Does that make me a bad person - no |
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"Seems we can’t win, be honest say we’re married and not cheating puts people off....
Say we’re single and not married people assume we’re cheating and that puts them off....
We’re doomed
Do ironic ........you like married cheats that are honest
We don't mind married cheating guys, aslong as your honest. As you have more to lose than we have if your found out.
At least we know why you go quite at night "
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies "
Plenty of judgement and I make no apology for it .
The man/ woman’s spouse or partner is being lied to and does not get to make an “informed choice “.
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im in an open relationship with my wife we don't ask each other questions and were both happy with the situation. The only people that seem to have an issue are women i want to meet up with, but I guess that's down to me. Fingers crossed after covid things improve. |
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"im in an open relationship with my wife we don't ask each other questions and were both happy with the situation. The only people that seem to have an issue are women i want to meet up with, but I guess that's down to me. Fingers crossed after covid things improve."
So a closed relationship then |
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"Everyone on here is so judgemental everyone’s here for sex let’s face it and and if someone’s married that’s up to them as people’s relationships / lives are different and difficult so don’t judge just enjoy ffs it’s not ur problem if they get caught ."
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else. "
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
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No , because the person being cheated on doesn’t get a choice , why is he /she less valued than the dishonest cheats . |
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
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As an individual I can judge who I like, so can you, you’re probably judging now and don’t even realise it.
Where in the rules does it state I cannot?
Nobody can’t actually stop someone judging another, it’s impossible.
I quite clearly stated it’s my choice, I’m not sure what exactly the problem is here? I’m entitled to post my opinion on this thread within the rules, as are you. |
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
No , because the person being cheated on doesn’t get a choice , why is he /she less valued than the dishonest cheats ."
We need to be clear as there is a clear distinction between married men who cheat(behind their partners backs) and married men who do it with their partners knowledge |
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
No , because the person being cheated on doesn’t get a choice , why is he /she less valued than the dishonest cheats ."
This.
I simply don’t get why so many cheats look for acceptance and justification from strangers online who for the most part they will never meet.
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
No , because the person being cheated on doesn’t get a choice , why is he /she less valued than the dishonest cheats .
We need to be clear as there is a clear distinction between married men who cheat(behind their partners backs) and married men who do it with their partners knowledge "
I think virtually everyone has established that.
Playing with permission is quite different to playing without the partners knowledge. |
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
No , because the person being cheated on doesn’t get a choice , why is he /she less valued than the dishonest cheats .
We need to be clear as there is a clear distinction between married men who cheat(behind their partners backs) and married men who do it with their partners knowledge "
If it’s with partners knowledge they are not cheating . |
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"Always makes me laugh when people say they are being honest about lying to their wife / husband / partner .
Me too.
No judgement there then
At the end of the day, would you rather be lied too about a man's martial status , or would you rather he was upfront about it ?
I would imagine most would pick the latter, and make an informed choice....and that's what this is about a choice - no one here should be sitting in their ivory tower and judging others
It's a choice they make, just like it's a choice you make whether to get involved or not.
PS - we talk about Married men alot , there are alot of married women here too - same applies to those ladies
I’m absolutely judging them and I’m not afraid to say so.
I’ve said before, everyone judges even unconsciously. It’s normal human behaviour which can’t be stopped.
I’d rather not come across married men cheating on their wives ever, that’d be perfect for me. Whether he’s upfront or he’s lying, he’s still lying to the person who is supposed to be most important to him & that’s low in my opinion.
I have no interest in attached men personally, I seek single men only. Others are free to do as they please. I have the same opinion on married cheating women too.
Ps. You say don’t judge but you’ve just judged those who judge married people with your “ivory tower” comment. That’s my point, we all judge, every single day without noticing and that’s okay as long as it’s not abusive.
If married people are comfortable with what they’re doing to their other halves, they shouldn’t be bothered or worried about how strangers on the internet view them. Why care? You’re free to do what you want, so is everyone else.
Two things here :
1. No one should be judging others
2. If married / attached are not your thing , all good it's your choice, just likes it their choice to be on here
Simple case of preferences don't align - can't we just agree on that ?
No , because the person being cheated on doesn’t get a choice , why is he /she less valued than the dishonest cheats .
We need to be clear as there is a clear distinction between married men who cheat(behind their partners backs) and married men who do it with their partners knowledge
I think virtually everyone has established that.
Playing with permission is quite different to playing without the partners knowledge."
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