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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
Quite a few times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes we meet people all the time who we might not find attractive or good looking to us but there personalities have shone through and there wit humour has won us to bed x |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Once or twice  Plus I was married for 10 years....... 
in my extremely late 30s lady...so your 10 years was the excuse? hahahahaha
a shag is a shag "
I was happily married for 3 years......the other 7 - well a girl has needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
yes once and im not going to say never again as you never no whats around the corner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you  "
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it "
Could you do a repeat???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
i am that sympathy shag.
its got most of my pussy to date... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it
Could you do a repeat???? "
No not Wen I wasn't attracted just let them leave |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
i am that sympathy shag.
its got most of my pussy to date... "
It's a tactic and I'm sure that I've been on the receiving end myself more than once or twice too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
No and im NOT lying - the reason being that once you go down that route your starting to become desperate for sex -
There had to be a sexuall connection doesnt there ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
No and im NOT lying - the reason being that once you go down that route your starting to become desperate for sex -
There had to be a sexuall connection doesnt there ?
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Err, nope! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
That's actually the reason I left the other site I was on as a single guy, about two years ago. Was getting fed up with being used like an agony-aunt shag!!!
Mind you. got some good sex out of it, so can't complain too much I spose......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
That's actually the reason I left the other site I was on as a single guy, about two years ago. Was getting fed up with being used like an agony-aunt shag!!!
Mind you. got some good sex out of it, so can't complain too much I spose......
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Plus, looking at your pic, your chest has come on considerably |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
That's actually the reason I left the other site I was on as a single guy, about two years ago. Was getting fed up with being used like an agony-aunt shag!!!
Mind you. got some good sex out of it, so can't complain too much I spose......
Plus, looking at your pic, your chest has come on considerably "
Why thank you, you're too kind..... But that silicone is a bugger to keep in shape sometimes......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
Attraction comes in many forms, i have met people who ive not fancied but after talking to them for a while found something in them i have liked and we have played, i dont class that as a sympathy shag, theres more to a person than looks |
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
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Yes.... and you called me Hattie Jacques on steroids after....  |
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sorry but attraction doesnt stop when the skin does.
just because you dont find someone 'sexy' doesnt mean having sex with them would be a sympathy shag.
a great personality can keep someone wanting more, but a nice face, or body, only had limited appeal once you realise how shallow they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes asides from being in a relationship for five miserable years, I did meet a guy and took it further only because I felt obliged to as he'd had a hotel room, hence why I don't do those down this way on business, easier that way |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
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"sorry but attraction doesnt stop when the skin does.
just because you dont find someone 'sexy' doesnt mean having sex with them would be a sympathy shag.
a great personality can keep someone wanting more, but a nice face, or body, only had limited appeal once you realise how shallow they are."
And there's the best answer so far  |
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I do love how people who have no respect for themselves assume no one else has.
I've never given a mercy shag in my life...I was a virgin when I married only had one partner until I was 45 and everyone I've slept with in the last seven years have been because I've wanted to, not because I was desperate for attention. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"sorry but attraction doesnt stop when the skin does.
just because you dont find someone 'sexy' doesnt mean having sex with them would be a sympathy shag.
a great personality can keep someone wanting more, but a nice face, or body, only had limited appeal once you realise how shallow they are."
Hey, I'm shallower than a puddle in Lilliput but I've got a great personality too, apparently, not that I care, I'm far too into myself than to worry about such piffle
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it "
doesnt this make you a whore ? |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it
doesnt this make you a whore ? "
Why on earth would you think that?  One of the definitions of whore is a person considered sexually promiscuous - is that not the majority of us on a site like this???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it
doesnt this make you a whore ?
Why on earth would you think that? One of the definitions of whore is a person considered sexually promiscuous - is that not the majority of us on a site like this????"
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Thanks for that Hun us girls need to stick together lol n I never said I was proud of it just thought that would come under the ideal of sympathy shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I have done a sympathy shag...
however I rarely if ever have any attraction to guys I play with for group stuff.. all that matters to me is a hard cock and ability to cum.. and not turning me off..
I dont need to fancy someone to fuck them..
but its a damned site better if I do.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do love how people who have no respect for themselves assume no one else has.
I've never given a mercy shag in my life...I was a virgin when I married only had one partner until I was 45 and everyone I've slept with in the last seven years have been because I've wanted to, not because I was desperate for attention."
I really admire you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A "sympathy shag" is probably physically easier for a woman to do but I doubt, as a guy, I could shag someone who I didn't find physically attractive.
Nor would I fancy putting it to the test.
Mind you, its lucky for me that some women don't mind! R
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
yep, this can happen when you are into group fun but as long as they do not put me off, I can manage most. Actually, sometimes the shag can be surprisingly enjoyable when you get into it.  |
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
yep, this can happen when you are into group fun but as long as they do not put me off, I can manage most. Actually, sometimes the shag can be surprisingly enjoyable when you get into it. "
I don't really think of the group thing as a sympathy shag.... more the fact I can't be arsed to roll over and move to a better looking one.... and if I don't look, hey what does it matter who it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
yep, this can happen when you are into group fun but as long as they do not put me off, I can manage most. Actually, sometimes the shag can be surprisingly enjoyable when you get into it.
I don't really think of the group thing as a sympathy shag.... more the fact I can't be arsed to roll over and move to a better looking one.... and if I don't look, hey what does it matter who it is "
ive got to be honest now the best oral i have ever had in my life was from a guy in a group situation, if he had approached me in a club or mailed me on here id have said no thanks to him, but there was loads playing and next thing this head just appeared between my legs so i thought fair enough lol and let him carry on and OMG i have never felt a guy like it, i find it so hard to cum and if i do it takes so much stimulation, most guys just give up but he had me cumming within minuites, several times i had never experienced that before or after, when he had finished i looked down to see who it was
Just goes to show what you can miss out on going by looks alone, if id have seen his face before hand id have moved away |
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"sorry but attraction doesnt stop when the skin does.
just because you dont find someone 'sexy' doesnt mean having sex with them would be a sympathy shag.
a great personality can keep someone wanting more, but a nice face, or body, only had limited appeal once you realise how shallow they are.
Hey, I'm shallower than a puddle in Lilliput but I've got a great personality too, apparently, not that I care, I'm far too into myself than to worry about such piffle
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self promotion is hardly a valid recommendation lol |
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it
doesnt this make you a whore ? "
seems you have had a couple of sympathy shags.
doesnt that make you a client? |
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One of the reasons that I meet first for coffee... 
When He's a nice guy and you've chatted well and you've gone to his for the meet or he's even got a hotel then it's easy to feel bad about just upping and leaving.
After a couple of situations where I just wanted to hit myself over the head with a 2 by 4 I decided enough was enough and set the rules.
There have been guys who I would (or indeed have) said no to online and on meeting in a club have changed my mind. That is not a sympathy shag though, that's simply other layers of attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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well said dear you cant always got a connection on line but stick like glue in a club
its happened to me a few times when couples have said jog on on line |
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I cant say I have and yes I am being honest. Even in my younger days if I did not find something attractive about a woman I could not sleep with them. A shag is a shag does not work for me and I am no angel... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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... I'm sure there's less that would admit to be shagged out of sympathy, the shagee so sto speak ... but I'm sure we've all been there too ...
*hangs head, pouts* |
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"I do love how people who have no respect for themselves assume no one else has.
I've never given a mercy shag in my life...I was a virgin when I married only had one partner until I was 45 and everyone I've slept with in the last seven years have been because I've wanted to, not because I was desperate for attention."
That's great for you but then your missing out on a lot of fun.and I have a lot of respect for myself. Sex isn't a big deal to me. |
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I think its probably easier for a guy to give a sympathy shag ( as long as he can still get excited to start)
then not reproach himself after.
My partner has done it before and come home saying "never again"
Spose we should just go with our feelings
just chalk it off as exsperience if it's not toooo good |
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol
No and im NOT lying - the reason being that once you go down that route your starting to become desperate for sex -
There had to be a sexuall connection doesnt there ?
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my thoughts exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Few times they made the effort to come to me n they were nice to tlk to so felt I had to
That is not sympathy...am sure you turn them on and use them to please you
To be honest I wasn't sexually attracted so cant say I enjoyed it
doesnt this make you a whore ? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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i only have sex with those i am attracted to. yes i may get on with someone im not attracted to but doesnt mean im gna shag them. if that was case id shag all my mates
that doesnt make me shallow at all. it means i have standards and aint desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I've just spent the last 2 days 'sympathy shagging' a guy..... I mean, seriously, this guy was really pathetic, I had a LOT of sympathy for him.
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Haha, ooh you are hilarious! lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It's a tactic and I'm sure that I've been on the receiving end myself more than once or twice too lol
I wasn't going to admit it but you outed me. What can I say? "
Ooh, they're all at it now, bunch o bleeding clever dicks! Right, where did I put my Beachy Head train timetable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody else met people that they don't find attractive in the slightest but have quite liked as a person, and had sex with them when they've come onto you, or is it just me?
I've done it a couple of times ( Not on here i hasten to add!), I sometimes feel like some kind of perverted red cross! lol "
Well if I'm not attracted then I wont do it usually, but having said that, I have done it! |
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