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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just posted this on another thread but am now curious about your answers..........
Was asked a while ago, when did I become a swinger and didn't know how to answer.
Did I become a swinger when I first joined a swinging site, but only met single men?
Or did I only truely become a swinger once I'd met my first couple ?
I'd say the 2nd one but whats your views ???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this was a huge debate a while ago on wether singles can be classed as swingers....
i'm a swingle i personally would never ever say i'm a swinger "
a swingle? isnt that a potato snack? |
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"this was a huge debate a while ago on wether singles can be classed as swingers....
i'm a swingle i personally would never ever say i'm a swinger "
Oh I like that name, thats it then I'm a 'swingle' lol xx  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"this was a huge debate a while ago on wether singles can be classed as swingers....
i'm a swingle i personally would never ever say i'm a swinger "
Love your new avatar btw xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this was a huge debate a while ago on wether singles can be classed as swingers....
i'm a swingle i personally would never ever say i'm a swinger
Love your new avatar btw xx"
thanx :0) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just posted this on another thread but am now curious about your answers..........
Was asked a while ago, when did I become a swinger and didn't know how to answer.
Did I become a swinger when I first joined a swinging site, but only met single men?
Or did I only truely become a swinger once I'd met my first couple ?
I'd say the 2nd one but whats your views ???
xxxx"
It could easily be argued that single folk on this site who only meet other single folk are doing nothing different to those folk who meet via a dating site or in a night club.
You are simply having casual sex with a stranger and as the dating site or night club scenario do not warrant the label swinger does meeting in that manner on here warrant it either 
You could also argue that swinging has it's origins in wife swapping and that without a wife to swap you simply did not partake.
In fact you could argue just about anything within this way of life and someone will always have an alternative opinion.
We meet other people for nsa sexual fun, that activity happens to currently go by the name "swinging" which we accept and get on with without any real importance being attached to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The reason i meet off here is because on here we all know what we are after,
well thats how its meant to be lol, dating sites can be worse, and i met richy on here lol
so i'l shut up now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The reason i meet off here is because on here we all know what we are after,
well thats how its meant to be lol, dating sites can be worse, and i met richy on here lol
so i'l shut up now "
Well I tried 'dating' sites and all the guys wanted on there was sex, just fed you a load of bull to get it !!!
At least on here most people are honest about what they want - and I love it lol.
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"The reason i meet off here is because on here we all know what we are after,
well thats how its meant to be lol, dating sites can be worse, and i met richy on here lol
so i'l shut up now
Well I tried 'dating' sites and all the guys wanted on there was sex, just fed you a load of bull to get it !!!
At least on here most people are honest about what they want - and I love it lol.
xx xx"
Not sure how long you have been on here but if you believe an awful lot of the threads then all folk on here want is sex and a pretty high percentage of them will feed you any old bullshit just to get into your knickers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The reason i meet off here is because on here we all know what we are after,
well thats how its meant to be lol, dating sites can be worse, and i met richy on here lol
so i'l shut up now
Well I tried 'dating' sites and all the guys wanted on there was sex, just fed you a load of bull to get it !!!
At least on here most people are honest about what they want - and I love it lol.
xx xx
Not sure how long you have been on here but if you believe an awful lot of the threads then all folk on here want is sex and a pretty high percentage of them will feed you any old bullshit just to get into your knickers "
But at least they aren't promising you love and everlasting happiness lol.
The flattery and compliments I can more than live with lol xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just posted this on another thread but am now curious about your answers..........
Was asked a while ago, when did I become a swinger and didn't know how to answer.
Did I become a swinger when I first joined a swinging site, but only met single men?
Or did I only truely become a swinger once I'd met my first couple ?
I'd say the 2nd one but whats your views ???
xxxx"
blimey im sure ive just answered this question on another thread lmao
im a single female and i do not consider myself to be a swinger no matter who i meet, i have noone to swing with there for i am not a swingers, i only play with men, 1 on 1, fmm or in groups but from my side of things its just me on my own so how can i be swinging?
im just a highly sexed women using a swingers site to get my end away lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But what is a swinger? It is nothing but a fabricated term that has constantly changed over many many years. Not so long ago it was wife swapping, then it became swingers and no doubt the term will one day change again in the future.
I would say your just someone who likes having casual sex with other like minded people and no one is a swinger, unless they want to attach such a pointless label to themselves!
Just have fun and enjoy things and don't worry about assigning worthless labels to yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that the majority of singles on here fall into three catogories...
1. Looking for friends and nsa sex
2. Looking to find love and using the site as a dating site
3 looking for nsa fun but if along the way there is a true connection they may take it further.
Id say those that fall into cat 1 are def swingers, 2 def not swingers and 3 probably swingers too.
Thats how i see it anyway......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But what is a swinger? It is nothing but a fabricated term that has constantly changed over many many years. Not so long ago it was wife swapping, then it became swingers and no doubt the term will one day change again in the future.
I would say your just someone who likes having casual sex with other like minded people and no one is a swinger, unless they want to attach such a pointless label to themselves!
Just have fun and enjoy things and don't worry about assigning worthless labels to yourself "
Never been a 'label' person, was just curious as to everyone's definition of a 'swinger'
Have to say if I was to assign a label to me it would be a 'swingle' I like that one lol.
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