"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing  "
It’s not ok for anybody who’s cheating no matter what the gender. If a cheating women approached me it’s a definite no. |
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Its fine for both genders to be playing away as many don't mind and will meet them, and those who do mind will just move on without casting stones. Fab is an inclusive society, and the things we don't like we can just ignore and spend our time finding the things we do like. |
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"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing
It’s not ok for anybody who’s cheating no matter what the gender. If a cheating women approached me it’s a definite no."
That's as maybe. But I've come to the same conclusion as the op. That it is tolerated / accepted more for the Mrs to be doing it than the Mr. Perception being reality and all that. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I only meet men, but wouldn't meet anyone playing away if I did meet women.
I think men get more grief as its mostly men who start threats about it, women seem to just get on with it. Just my observation |
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"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing "
It’s as you say, it seems to be something that you perceive.
Seem and is, can be miles apart.  |
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"Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great. "
Well what a great way to talk about women. “A cunt is a cunt”  |
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I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.
Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. |
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"Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great. "
This is better than the usual married threads 
'Cunt is cunt' ...and there is me actually wanting to talk to a woman.
Some straight guys go for man arse'......surely they're not straight....then?
This is great |
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"I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.
Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. "
Although I disagree with your generalised statement. Perhaps it’s a choice to meet, and not out of being desperate?
Whether you agree or don’t with the action of members or how you view those specific members, that may be your own view, doesn’t give room for judgment or calling out men being desperate or chase after anyone showing the slightest attention. It’s a choice to meet someone that aligns with your preference: single or married, slim or fabulous, straight or bisexual.
I’m delighted for you, as a member, you have a lot of attention and variety to choose from to meet your needs - good for you. Please don’t use generalised statements or gender specific statements (married men come with restrictions. Women don’t?). Perhaps sharing your view is enough without generalising, labeling or judging others |
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"I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.
Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. "
This |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.
Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. "
This sounds about right. |
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"Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great. "
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"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing "
I don't think it's okay for either to be on here ,but that's just my opinion |
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Oh this old chestnut.
Could it be that most men don't care, and the woman is philosophical and just gets down to it, but married men somehow appear entitled and upset they're not balls deep?
Married women never start "I can't get a fuck because I'm married" threads. |
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As a married man who plays with the knowledge of my wife and she does too (stopped due to covid), we often talk about it as she wants me to have fun as much as she does. I have always put it down to numbers, there are 10-20× as many men here then women. This allows women to be more selective than men so therefore women will use the fact a man is married as a filter. |
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