Fetish is totally different to swinging and many people do not involve sex as their play
Most fetish clubs are more strict on entrances and people normally are recommended by other fet people on the scene |
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"Who has been to a fetish club? What was it like? What was the most memorable thing? Would you recommend going to one?"
Unfortunately, I find them very cliquey and ever so judgemental. I know many folks who really love them but they're really not for me x |
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"Who has been to a fetish club? What was it like? What was the most memorable thing? Would you recommend going to one?"
Torture Garden is the most famous i guess and most accessible.
There is a dress code and if you dont make an effort you wont be getting in.
Its one huge visual feast and you will see all sorts. There's is a dungeons room with professional Doms and a couples room where most of the sex happens.
You will likely see sex on the dance floor, but do not go along expecting to take part in it. Like any club your going to need to make a connection with people before being invited to play |
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For most it will just be a visual feast and a night of drinking and dancing to techno in a sexually chagered atmosphere.
If you are in any way prejudiced to men having sex with men or TV/TS this is not the place for you |
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"Who has been to a fetish club? What was it like? What was the most memorable thing? Would you recommend going to one?
Torture Garden is the most famous i guess and most accessible.
There is a dress code and if you dont make an effort you wont be getting in.
Its one huge visual feast and you will see all sorts. There's is a dungeons room with professional Doms and a couples room where most of the sex happens.
You will likely see sex on the dance floor, but do not go along expecting to take part in it. Like any club your going to need to make a connection with people before being invited to play"
That’s a great insight, I guess dress code isn’t just being naked? |
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"Who has been to a fetish club? What was it like? What was the most memorable thing? Would you recommend going to one?
Torture Garden is the most famous i guess and most accessible.
There is a dress code and if you dont make an effort you wont be getting in.
Its one huge visual feast and you will see all sorts. There's is a dungeons room with professional Doms and a couples room where most of the sex happens.
You will likely see sex on the dance floor, but do not go along expecting to take part in it. Like any club your going to need to make a connection with people before being invited to play
That’s a great insight, I guess dress code isn’t just being naked?"
there is, a, dress code at most fetish clubs I know,. Black casual is the minimum allowed |
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"Who has been to a fetish club? What was it like? What was the most memorable thing? Would you recommend going to one?
Torture Garden is the most famous i guess and most accessible.
There is a dress code and if you dont make an effort you wont be getting in.
Its one huge visual feast and you will see all sorts. There's is a dungeons room with professional Doms and a couples room where most of the sex happens.
You will likely see sex on the dance floor, but do not go along expecting to take part in it. Like any club your going to need to make a connection with people before being invited to play
That’s a great insight, I guess dress code isn’t just being naked?there is, a, dress code at most fetish clubs I know,. Black casual is the minimum allowed "
Black casual probably wouldn't cut it at TG. No fabric trousers allowed, but leather rubber, fishnet ect is fine. |
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We go to fetish clubs a couple of times a month, when they are open. We've not found them any more cliquey than the swinging clubs we have been to. Everyone has always been helpful and friendly.
Some do allow sexual play but the majority have a no penetration rule due to the different licensing requirements |
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"Did you enjoy the experience when you have been? "
Yes absolutely loved it. I have loved techno and dancing since the 90's so it was just like a very with an extra very sexual element.
I (Daddy) went with a friend who left early but i was dressed the part looking like Bane in black rubber so attracted a lot of attention and met some really cool people.
I attended other smaller members only fetish clubs with an ex that were much more BDSM focused than the rave element, but you will generally have to attend socials to get invites to these.
Me and Babygirl will be taking a trip to Torture Garden next year.
Also expect to see a lot of drug use. I'm sure there are fetish nights where this isn't as open but it certainlty is in all the fetish club's i went to |
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"Did you enjoy the experience when you have been?
Yes absolutely loved it. I have loved techno and dancing since the 90's so it was just like a very with an extra very sexual element.
I (Daddy) went with a friend who left early but i was dressed the part looking like Bane in black rubber so attracted a lot of attention and met some really cool people.
I attended other smaller members only fetish clubs with an ex that were much more BDSM focused than the rave element, but you will generally have to attend socials to get invites to these.
Me and Babygirl will be taking a trip to Torture Garden next year.
Also expect to see a lot of drug use. I'm sure there are fetish nights where this isn't as open but it certainlty is in all the fetish club's i went to"
I'm surprised about the drug use, the places we go drugs and excessive alcohol mean getting banned |
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"Did you enjoy the experience when you have been?
Yes absolutely loved it. I have loved techno and dancing since the 90's so it was just like a very with an extra very sexual element.
I (Daddy) went with a friend who left early but i was dressed the part looking like Bane in black rubber so attracted a lot of attention and met some really cool people.
I attended other smaller members only fetish clubs with an ex that were much more BDSM focused than the rave element, but you will generally have to attend socials to get invites to these.
Me and Babygirl will be taking a trip to Torture Garden next year.
Also expect to see a lot of drug use. I'm sure there are fetish nights where this isn't as open but it certainlty is in all the fetish club's i went to
I'm surprised about the drug use, the places we go drugs and excessive alcohol mean getting banned"
Certainly anyone out of control will get kicked out, the security do not mess about, anyone who is to off their face or making others uncomfortable or touching with out permission will be thrown and and banned.
But there was definitely a lot being used.
What clubs do you attend or would recommend? |
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"Did you enjoy the experience when you have been?
Yes absolutely loved it. I have loved techno and dancing since the 90's so it was just like a very with an extra very sexual element.
I (Daddy) went with a friend who left early but i was dressed the part looking like Bane in black rubber so attracted a lot of attention and met some really cool people.
I attended other smaller members only fetish clubs with an ex that were much more BDSM focused than the rave element, but you will generally have to attend socials to get invites to these.
Me and Babygirl will be taking a trip to Torture Garden next year.
Also expect to see a lot of drug use. I'm sure there are fetish nights where this isn't as open but it certainlty is in all the fetish club's i went to"
I have visited Bdsm clubs with my wife many times and never seen any drug use, in most clubs you would be straight out the door if you did. |
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Never seen drug use at any events we have attended in fact due to the nature of play most people stick to soft drinks
Not a good idea to be whipping some while you or they are intoxicated
Neither have we seen much sexual play as most d&s couples tend to only play with each other unless it's humiliation play |
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Don't think it's something we would like if we go to a fetish club we want to be able to concentrate on the play we are doing without risks from d*unk people or ones who are high
But each to their own |
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Ive been to TG a couple of times... Some of the performance art is chilling... Girls suspended by hooks through their flesh with blood running down their skin 
In terms of dress code, there was lots of leather, pvc, lace, rubber... Lots of bare boobs + bums
There was a gangbang in the dungeon on the bed and it was hot and heavy in the couples room |
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I went to TG back in 2017 and found it to be over hyped nonsense.
Its a fetish fashion club, and while the outfits looked great, sadly it wasnt for me.
I got to spend a little time playing in the play rooms, but we left after a few hours and went back to play at the hotel.
As for other fetish nights, most are held in swingers clubs but there are a few held in purpose built BDSM venues.
The fetish and swing scene are a bit different, and having done a few crossover events it is noticeable.
Kinksters tend to keep to themselves while playing and don't like being interrupted, where as swingers can be a curious lot.
We just adapt our play at those events to less risky behaviour.
Some fet events are invite or know someone first, but not all. Most will try and limit the numbers of “unknown (to the event organiser)” single males.
The dress code is typically minimum all black no jeans or trainers, but as long as you dont look like you walked in off the street most clothes are fine.
Its never what you expect it to he is what I always tell people.
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Would recommend atlantis evolution in Stoke which is monthly, and fallen angels and liberation in Birmingham. Obviously all on hold at the moment but nothing but good experiences there |
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TG is not really a fetish club, it’s more a giant fancy dress party for pretty people
It’s much more mainstream these days. A few tiny sections for play or sex.
Also...it stinks. The smell of sweat is just horrid.
There are smaller private run event nights which is purely play based, no music, just social and fetish fun which are all over the country and there will be one somewhere local to you, then you have music based clubs with some play in rooms like TG and antichrist (if it’s still there?)
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"TG is not really a fetish club, it’s more a giant fancy dress party for pretty people
It’s much more mainstream these days. A few tiny sections for play or sex.
Also...it stinks. The smell of sweat is just horrid.
There are smaller private run event nights which is purely play based, no music, just social and fetish fun which are all over the country and there will be one somewhere local to you, then you have music based clubs with some play in rooms like TG and antichrist (if it’s still there?)
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I can agree with many points here. The smell of sweat is intense, but then there are 1500 people packed into an old low ceilinged warehouse dancing till 6am.
Play is definitely the smaller part of this, although i hear in the old days TG was a lot more like one big orgy.
If social and play is solely what you want then TG is not the place.
If you want to get creative with your outfit and dance to music allnight i a sexually charged atmosphere with some stunning people, and watch some amazing stage shows and acts this is the place.
Plenty of sex and play goes on here but if you dont like german techno and dark sweaty raves you will hate it here |
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I used to go to Club Lash in Manchester it was over 10 years ago when it was quite popular. Still occasionally get an email off them.
I didn’t find the Fetish scene too clique, but often would be around other TV’s so maybe it was easier for me and my partner at the time.
Lash had plenty of equipment, dance floors and quiet areas, I think I gave my very first blow job in the toilets  but you would see some of that later in the evening.
If you want to dress to a more extreme look, they’re great but no effort with your look will probably mean you’d be on your own most of the night. |
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