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Hey everyone
I’m really interested in this as my bf and I are exploring entering swinging together (he’s completely new to it) and I think this would be a good way in.... for single Fs and couples - what would you think of this? |
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"Hey everyone
I’m really interested in this as my bf and I are exploring entering swinging together (he’s completely new to it) and I think this would be a good way in.... for single Fs and couples - what would you think of this? "
Yeah, we are new to the scene as well and wondering if this is the way to go. Probably a stupid question but I’m assuming soft play means everything but intercourse right? |
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"Hey everyone
I’m really interested in this as my bf and I are exploring entering swinging together (he’s completely new to it) and I think this would be a good way in.... for single Fs and couples - what would you think of this? "
Soft swap stuff is a lovely way to dip toes into this life...makes for less pressure all round ...some couples stay soft swap and leave full sex for each other leaving it special to them ....others progress to more ....little steps ...xx |
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Although we have been swinging for years we also enjoy soft swap too. Just make sure when arranging a meet that everyone is aware of the boundaries and stick to it. If you find that get so turned on by soft swap there is nothing to say you can't have same room fun but with your own partners. |
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Myself and hubby are fairly new to this to, when we started we started with mmf 3sum...he wasn't sure how he would cope seeing me play with another man, but he got over that hurdle and finds it a huge turn on, we're yet to try ffm but I'm the same as he was...and still don't know...but finding a genuine understanding couple to explore this with is proving very difficult. |
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Everyone has different opinions on soft swap.
Generally everything except penetration with opposite partners.
But some have other limits like no kissing oral ect. Some are watch only no touching except own partner so always best to agree boundaries before starting.
We get lots of guys say they want to just watch then turn round and say things like can i fuck her after watching you both.
Set clear boundaries |
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"Hey everyone
I’m really interested in this as my bf and I are exploring entering swinging together (he’s completely new to it) and I think this would be a good way in.... for single Fs and couples - what would you think of this? "
get a couples profile firstly x |
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We never got off the mark to start with ...bloody covid. looking to start off with Soft swap and some watching. Its certainly got us intrigued and excited |
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Obviously do what you're comfortable with but we surprised ourselves getting into this. We're picky nerds who rarely meet but from the start we found soft whatnot just got in the way. Seemed to us if you trust your relationship to survive soft swap why wouldn't it survive more? That and soft inevitably leading to more rules and opportunities for mistakes we started full and would stay there. |
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We started as a soft swap couple, the more we experienced the more we wanted more.
We didn’t rush and made sure we spoke about anything we wanted to try to make sure we were in the same page.
We now full swap and have done separate rooms. At the moment that works for us
It exciting when we fuck together later and talk about what we have done with the other couple
But each meet is different so we don’t plan anything but as long as we all know our boundaries and are comfortable saying no  |
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"Hey everyone
I’m really interested in this as my bf and I are exploring entering swinging together (he’s completely new to it) and I think this would be a good way in.... for single Fs and couples - what would you think of this? Soft swap stuff is a lovely way to dip toes into this life...makes for less pressure all round ...some couples stay soft swap and leave full sex for each other leaving it special to them ....others progress to more ....little steps ...xx"
Hi Foxy
If little steps are how you want to progress then why not try a visit to a club? Make a pact with each other to stay together and you will only chat with other couples maybe make some contacts for another time and place. At the end of the event go somewhere private and discuss your feelings about your experiences. Take things from there. You don't have to book a hotel or put pressure on yourselves or your prospective play mates by having to sort out meeting places.
Best wishes for your fab life together |
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