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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is anyone here into the Hothusband kink? Same as the man with a Hotwife, I like the idea of him making me jealous and watching him with another woman, using me in a service role, or just blindfolding me and making me frustrated only able to listen... I know we are looking for someone even rarer than a unicorn, but surely there are some women that enjoy being the 3rd in that scenario?  |
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Would love to reverse this so I can see hubby with some woman when I come home from work or to be at work and have pics and videos sent me, sadly thought it’s like trying to find a unicorn with hens teeth.x |
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When we have a ffm I love watching the hubby with someone else. Never had a meet yet where it was just her and the hubby that I could just watch. Each meet the hubby has had with another woman has either been them alone and she is not comfortable being watched or it has been all three of us. I think finding a female for this scenario is like finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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We know a couple like this, and I sent the wife two pics of her guy with Char last year. We've met socially since and can't wait to do more with them. Like the idea of me and her watching while Char and he have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think we fit the traditional hot wife or hot husband profile but we do play separately as well as together.
It's more to do with having an attraction or click for another and not necessarily having 2 couples both liking the opposite partners.
What we can say though is we both like knowing that the other has had fun and enjoyed themself.
Both of us have been to clubs without the other and have had overnight hotel meets, etc. It's always been nice to say 'how was it?' when we return home and get a response like 'it was really good, had lots of fun'.
We've had times in clubs when we've intended to play with another couple or a single but one of us hasn't 'felt it' so instead of 'taking one for the team' has bowed out and left the other partner have fun.
It's not a kink, preferance or planned intention, it's just whatever works for us in any specific situation.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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I have a sub that I play with occasionally.
The Mrs has joined in as an additional top for play, but otherwise she is either at home or where we are in an airBnB in another room keeping herself entertained.
I accept this is a little different to what others may be after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been fortunate enough to have enjoyed this scenario both at clubs and through private meets with my ex as with hotwives the reclaim sex is amazing when discussing it after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This scenario sounds absolutely fu**ing amazing! I am getting really turned on just thinking about this. Like every guy in the world.. I would LOVE to be involved in a scenario like this. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooo we love this post. It’s about time the hubby’s got a shout out don’t get me wrong I love being centre of attention but yes would happily want this to happen too!
The ffm we had was definitely fun |
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I love my hubby meeting another lady on his own and sending me pictures and videos of what’s going on
I find it a huge turn on knowing another lady is enjoying him
And the sex when he gets home and tells me all about it is amazing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been looking for this for a while but no luck. We're really like to find a hot wife couple so her man and my gf could watch out let us out for the odd date night together. As previous posters have said though it seems almost impossible |
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"We have been looking for this for a while but no luck. We're really like to find a hot wife couple so her man and my gf could watch out let us out for the odd date night together. As previous posters have said though it seems almost impossible"
It’s certainly difficult but not impossible
Hubby has met a few ladies, one lasted about a year which was great fun, would love something like that again for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's why we set up this profile. Have done this a few times and my wife loves me sending her pics while she is at work, big turn on. She even loans me out to one of her friends, they message each other making arrangements and then she sends me round. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wasn't expecting so many replies! For me I'm definitely not wanting him to meet someone alone, also dont think I would want the other woman trying to make me jealous in any way, unless I really really trusted her. It would be more of a "threesome with a difference' 
Great to see there are others into this too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't expecting so many replies! For me I'm definitely not wanting him to meet someone alone, also dont think I would want the other woman trying to make me jealous in any way, unless I really really trusted her. It would be more of a "threesome with a difference'
Great to see there are others into this too!"
Would love to try this. Done it where we’ve been joined by a husband and sent his wife pictures - and that was really hot!!
One of my fantasies though would be finding a Hotwife or single lady to join us so I could watch them together (and maybe join in later when it all gets too hot to stay on the sidelines!) xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably the horniest situation we've had of this scenario was when C told me that she'd just been asked if I'd arrange and take part in a DP for another lady.
Of course I had to carefully consider it |
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This is something we have talked about. Hannah has a fantasy of watching me (Luke) with another woman.
We have posted about it before as have others. You can fund quite a few reveling posts by searching for quean and cuckcake.
It strikes me the finding a woman to join us combines the difficulties of finding a woman for a single man, and a woman who wants to join a couple, so definitely quite a minority. Having said that, in our travels we have had approaches from interested ladies and we know ladies who may possibly be interested but we haven't had a conversation about it with. I reckon it could happen for us if we put our minds to it. |
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"Perhaps more photos of the husbands would help you achieve this? "
This exactly!
Couples profile are almost invariably short of pics of the male. More often than not you see the woman with multiple guys and are left wondering which one might be her partner.
They then have multiple statuses/threads bemoaning the fact that they can’t attract single fems to their profile. It really does make me put my head in my hands tbh.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doughnut is a hothusband! I find it an incredible turn on, I love watching him get ready, I generally choose his outfit for him as I know what turns me on, I love smelling him when he comes home and kissing him hard, tasting the other woman.
Bloody hate lockdown ruining all our fun!
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doughnut is a hothusband! I find it an incredible turn on, I love watching him get ready, I generally choose his outfit for him as I know what turns me on, I love smelling him when he comes home and kissing him hard, tasting the other woman.
Bloody hate lockdown ruining all our fun!
Danish x"
Agreed, an end to lockdown can't come quick enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done it where we’ve been joined by a husband and sent his wife pictures - and that was really hot!! "
This is something we're talking about trying...threesome or a bigger group and him sending me pics and vids.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did this once. I was tied and blindfolded while they fucked on the bed next to me. Occasionally I'd have a finger inserted or a nipple played with.. Would definitely do it again.. Massive massive turn on |
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"Is anyone here into the Hothusband kink? Same as the man with a Hotwife, I like the idea of him making me jealous and watching him with another woman, using me in a service role, or just blindfolding me and making me frustrated only able to listen... I know we are looking for someone even rarer than a unicorn, but surely there are some women that enjoy being the 3rd in that scenario? "
Yes this is a massive turn on for me! I love the idea of being gagged & bound to a chair and made to watch another woman have her way with my man. Especially if she deliberately made eye contact with me while she was doing it. So hot !!!
A big hands up from me if anyone is interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love this!
I love watching another woman take what is mine
We do same room, where i sit and watch, but also love it when Im not there, or leave them alone and walk in much later.
I love another woman telling me they are making my man cum! And that he is enjoying her more...
I like them punishing me by making me sit there and watch them... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are still looking for a couple or woman to explore this with if anyone is interested, either meeting for a social or possibly online play
Not looking for someone just to fulfil our kink but something with mutual input and hopefully a friendship aswell |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So hard to find playmates for the male half though. When we play seperately there's so many offers for her but not so for him. Even when we've set up solo profiles it doesn't work out. "
It is, but we are not looking to find someone *just* for him, I will be there too and very much involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone here into the Hothusband kink? Same as the man with a Hotwife, I like the idea of him making me jealous and watching him with another woman, using me in a service role, or just blindfolding me and making me frustrated only able to listen... I know we are looking for someone even rarer than a unicorn, but surely there are some women that enjoy being the 3rd in that scenario? "
You’re not alone
we like hot husband scenario as much as hot wife unfortunately it’s not as easy to achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your husband answers the call of the Hotwife then you could treat that situation and call it the hothusband. Whilst he is with her and sending pics to her fella then he could also be send the pics to you so your are teased and then when he gets back he can wisher everything in your ear as you take his pants down and lick the juices from the hot wife off his cock. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your husband answers the call of the Hotwife then you could treat that situation and call it the hothusband. Whilst he is with her and sending pics to her fella then he could also be send the pics to you so your are teased and then when he gets back he can wisher everything in your ear as you take his pants down and lick the juices from the hot wife off his cock."
He won't be meeting anyone on his own, its something we do together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are . Love the idea of hubby going on a simple date and anything after that is a big turn on ! Also jealous provoking lol "
Yesterday ,I went on a coffee meet with one of our Fab lady friend and Mrs was jealous but in a good way
Its just normal to be jealous as it shows you love your partner a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yours sounds more like a cockqueen scenerio instead of hothusband OP 
I’m into hot-husbands but he usually taken away from the wife for separate pleasure and go back for re-claiming  "
Not really, there are plenty of people who have a cuckquean dynamic where their partner goes off and does something on his own, so why can't there be a hothusband scenario where the wife is involved? He isn't cucking me, I just get turned on watching etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely love the idea of playing the cuckcake role. It wasn’t a dynamic that I even appreciated as being that big a thing until recently and thought that there wouldn’t be a demand for a cake.
For me it would only work if all three of us were present and I definitely don’t like the idea of there being any kind of humiliation brought into the equation |
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"Yours sounds more like a cockqueen scenerio instead of hothusband OP
I’m into hot-husbands but he usually taken away from the wife for separate pleasure and go back for re-claiming
Not really, there are plenty of people who have a cuckquean dynamic where their partner goes off and does something on his own, so why can't there be a hothusband scenario where the wife is involved? He isn't cucking me, I just get turned on watching etc"
Guessing you want to get jealous and get frustrated by your partner‘s play confused me! my bad ... not my type of thread then as wives gets involved differently in the scenarios I go for!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We play with a single female as a couple and Mr plays solo with her. We have a fantastic trusting friendship with her.
I thoroughly enjoyed a play date where I stayed downstairs and Mr went up to her bedroom with her. I listened from the stairway, sat down masterbating on the stairs as I listened to them having sex until I came and then went to join them both.
When they have solo played i stayed at home and had video, pics and audio of them enjoying each other. The audio was my absolute favourite as my imagination was going wild with desire as i listened to them.
Last week they video called each other and had a sexy mutual masterbation as I lay next to Mr listening and not touching myself. After the delicious call he got on top and we enjoyed each other.
I want (when it's safe to meet) to pick her up in our car and for them both to sit in the back seat having fun as I drive them. I will hear the sounds which is my favourite aspect and then slight glances in the mirror until I stop the car to watch them have sex.
Her x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We play with a single female as a couple and Mr plays solo with her. We have a fantastic trusting friendship with her.
I thoroughly enjoyed a play date where I stayed downstairs and Mr went up to her bedroom with her. I listened from the stairway, sat down masterbating on the stairs as I listened to them having sex until I came and then went to join them both.
When they have solo played i stayed at home and had video, pics and audio of them enjoying each other. The audio was my absolute favourite as my imagination was going wild with desire as i listened to them.
Last week they video called each other and had a sexy mutual masterbation as I lay next to Mr listening and not touching myself. After the delicious call he got on top and we enjoyed each other.
I want (when it's safe to meet) to pick her up in our car and for them both to sit in the back seat having fun as I drive them. I will hear the sounds which is my favourite aspect and then slight glances in the mirror until I stop the car to watch them have sex.
Her x
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The back seat of the car thing is something we have talked about ourselves and sounds really hot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We play with a single female as a couple and Mr plays solo with her. We have a fantastic trusting friendship with her.
I thoroughly enjoyed a play date where I stayed downstairs and Mr went up to her bedroom with her. I listened from the stairway, sat down masterbating on the stairs as I listened to them having sex until I came and then went to join them both.
When they have solo played i stayed at home and had video, pics and audio of them enjoying each other. The audio was my absolute favourite as my imagination was going wild with desire as i listened to them.
Last week they video called each other and had a sexy mutual masterbation as I lay next to Mr listening and not touching myself. After the delicious call he got on top and we enjoyed each other.
I want (when it's safe to meet) to pick her up in our car and for them both to sit in the back seat having fun as I drive them. I will hear the sounds which is my favourite aspect and then slight glances in the mirror until I stop the car to watch them have sex.
Her x
The back seat of the car thing is something we have talked about ourselves and sounds really hot!"
She and I have played that very scenario together as Mr drove us and it was very sexy indeed. Now I want to experience from the other side.
Her x |
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"Wasn't expecting so many replies! For me I'm definitely not wanting him to meet someone alone, also dont think I would want the other woman trying to make me jealous in any way, unless I really really trusted her. It would be more of a "threesome with a difference'
Great to see there are others into this too!
Would love to try this. Done it where we’ve been joined by a husband and sent his wife pictures - and that was really hot!!
One of my fantasies though would be finding a Hotwife or single lady to join us so I could watch them together (and maybe join in later when it all gets too hot to stay on the sidelines!) xx"
We’d love something like this too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
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It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy"
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy."
Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting
It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having |
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.
Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting
It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having"
Chill not everyone judges and if some do fuck them great profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.
Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting
It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having"
Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.
Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting
It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having
Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play. "
Again - its up to the people involved how they enjoy their kinks. You can't dictate what it would and wouldn't involve just because thats how *you* do it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A kink is the headspace and not the action.
As in this case the kink is Hothusband play rather than cuckquean play it is about enjoying seeing my partner with other women, not being cucked. For us therefore it makes sense to us to want to be there in person to enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A kink is the headspace and not the action.
As in this case the kink is Hothusband play rather than cuckquean play it is about enjoying seeing my partner with other women, not being cucked. For us therefore it makes sense to us to want to be there in person to enjoying it."
It would be more fun to swap both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.
Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting
It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having
Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play.
Again - its up to the people involved how they enjoy their kinks. You can't dictate what it would and wouldn't involve just because thats how *you* do it "
I’m not it’s the definition: hot husbands is hot wives; the very nature of it is you ‘loan’ your partner out. Otherwise it’s a threesome / couple meet  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !
It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy
Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.
Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting
It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having
Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play.
Again - its up to the people involved how they enjoy their kinks. You can't dictate what it would and wouldn't involve just because thats how *you* do it
I’m not it’s the definition: hot husbands is hot wives; the very nature of it is you ‘loan’ your partner out. Otherwise it’s a threesome / couple meet "
Googling hotwife, the 1st result is "A wife who has sexual relations with people other than her husband. Often, the husband will encourage and even watch the acts. A practice among married couples in which the wife is open to seek sex partners, often to the satisfaction of the husband"
The definition is the husband encouraging and often watching, there is no requirement for anyone to be "loaned" out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’d like someone to take my Mr for the night and send me videos during the session. Hotter then better! Whilst I sit at home with a foot bath and face pack  |
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I personally like a loaned husband rather than threesome but that scenario is incredibly difficult to find as wives are naturally possessive of their husbands. But I hear alot of men enjoying the fact their wife is out with another guy. Shame about this inequality  |
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"I personally like a loaned husband rather than threesome but that scenario is incredibly difficult to find as wives are naturally possessive of their husbands. But I hear alot of men enjoying the fact their wife is out with another guy. Shame about this inequality "
Shame we are not closer would love to load hubby out |
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"I personally like a loaned husband rather than threesome but that scenario is incredibly difficult to find as wives are naturally possessive of their husbands. But I hear alot of men enjoying the fact their wife is out with another guy. Shame about this inequality "
How on earth is it inequality? |
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