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Do many couples arrange meets during the daytime?
We have school age children who are too young to be left for long periods, and we also work odd hours. This means we are frequently free during the day in midweek, specifically Tuesday when we are both off and at a loose end that we’re looking to fill!
Unfortunately, despite having made many friends, and having many conversations on here, our schedule has proven to be a stumbling block. It seems the majority of people meet in the evening or at weekends, which is understandable because that’s the way the world works for most people.
When we suggest meeting weekday lunchtimes, on some occasions we’ve had quite rude responses, along the lines of “actually, we both work for a living,” which I assume is suggesting that we don’t! We do, but not everyone works a 9-5.
On the rare occasion when we have managed to arrange something on a Tuesday it’s been great! There’s something deliciously naughty about getting up to stuff on a weekday lunchtime when everyone else is at work!
Any others in the same boat? We’d be interested to hear if you’ve had much success arranging meets.
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Hello I have the same issues. I work long hours but have time in the week and day times to meet. interested in couples and singles. Would really love to explore. Drop me a message love to chr even if you don’t meet singles. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
This is something I have done in the past, had daytime meets with both couples and single ladies, usually because of work patterns or school age children. It works for me, with notice because being self employed I can shuffle work around or just work later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had many daytime meets both as a couple and singly . As you say there’s something a bit different about them and also it adds to easing the logistics of meeting very often, as many folks find evening meets difficult.
We are now in the lucky Situation of having the place to ourselves and both available most of the time.
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My arrangement with my wife allows me to play during the day but evenings are family time. Arranging meets with couples during the day however are probably more difficult than evenings as it requires the couple to have the same work pattern. As 9 to 5 Monday to Friday is still the most common work shifts evenings and weekend will always be the most likely free time for couples.
About six years ago I got so frustrated with the lack of daytime opportunities I started my own daytime parties every Monday 11am to 3pm and they became very popular confirming there were lots of folks in a similar situation.
Covid-19 has stopped all parties and group meetings but maybe when things get closer to normal one (very small) silver lining will be that more people will be able to play during the day with a work at home option giving opportunities for getting away for a couple of hours of play
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
West Midlands and West London |
Agreed! Sometimes my work means that I'm free during the day but it can be difficult for others to get free for a couple of hours on a weekday as well. I would never do a hurried lunchtime meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love daytime meets and prefer to evenings, daytime club events are awesome too. Can be a little bit more difficult to arrange though as you need to find a way that you're all available which tends to be difficult because of work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are trying to form a group of likeminded couples to meet during the day--possibly start once a month get together in London. Tuesdays is a good day.
If you want to join this "club" please drop us a line and we can coordinate things. Likely venue will be central London hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are the same... can only meet daytimes in the week and we find it can be difficult to meet couples.
There is something deliciously naughty about daytime fun though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do many couples arrange meets during the daytime?
We have school age children who are too young to be left for long periods, and we also work odd hours. This means we are frequently free during the day in midweek, specifically Tuesday when we are both off and at a loose end that we’re looking to fill!
Unfortunately, despite having made many friends, and having many conversations on here, our schedule has proven to be a stumbling block. It seems the majority of people meet in the evening or at weekends, which is understandable because that’s the way the world works for most people.
When we suggest meeting weekday lunchtimes, on some occasions we’ve had quite rude responses, along the lines of “actually, we both work for a living,” which I assume is suggesting that we don’t! We do, but not everyone works a 9-5.
On the rare occasion when we have managed to arrange something on a Tuesday it’s been great! There’s something deliciously naughty about getting up to stuff on a weekday lunchtime when everyone else is at work!
Any others in the same boat? We’d be interested to hear if you’ve had much success arranging meets.
" yes daytimes are good for us also but only days we off together |
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"We are the same... can only meet daytimes in the week and we find it can be difficult to meet couples.
There is something deliciously naughty about daytime fun though! "
I guess that's why it's called 'afternoon delight' LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love mid-afternoon meets in a nice hotel. When the evening comes, and we're on our own, we usually grab a shower and head out for dinner. No surprise, the conversation is mostly about our dirty afternoon. By the time we're back in our room we might just have enough energy left to enjoy one another before falling into a deep sleep. Works for us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love mid-afternoon meets in a nice hotel. When the evening comes, and we're on our own, we usually grab a shower and head out for dinner. No surprise, the conversation is mostly about our dirty afternoon. By the time we're back in our room we might just have enough energy left to enjoy one another before falling into a deep sleep. Works for us!"
Sounds perfect |
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I work permanent nightshifts and the shift pattern includes weekends. Therfore i only do weekday daytime meets. I find it difficult to find cuckold couples to meet as normally one or both work throughout the day. I have met a couple of times with couples who work from home. But couples with children normally have the hubby at wotk during the day.i keep on looking regardless |
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"I work permanent nightshifts and the shift pattern includes weekends. Therfore i only do weekday daytime meets. I find it difficult to find cuckold couples to meet as normally one or both work throughout the day. I have met a couple of times with couples who work from home. But couples with children normally have the hubby at wotk during the day.i keep on looking regardless"
I was lucky in finding a couple where the husband arranged for me to visit his wife on weekday afternoons while he was at work...
....their 'thing' was for him to be at his desk in the office, knowing I was with her in their marital bed...
....I visited her on-and-off for three years - he loved getting home to find her waiting for him 'freshly-filled'... |
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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago
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We both often work weekends but get a couple of days off in the week.
With kids out at work, we have an empty house daytime, but do find it hard to meet other couples who prefer daytime meetings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We prefer day meets as we aren't really night-time people. We want to go to a club after covid but we're already wondering how we can stay up late lols!"
A lot of the clubs have a daytime session, my favourite was MILF club at the VA on a Wednesday... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im same with my hours of work daytimes are better for me
Evening have to be planned but usually have to Chang time because I’m on call out most nights not working |
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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
Evesham, Worcester, Pershore |
Over the years I've had just as many daytime meets as evening or nights. I work alot of evenings so often find myself free in the day, but I know what you mean. Some people have suggested that I get a job and such, when I mention im free more days than nights.
Sometimes wonder if it would be easier if there was a filter for those who do day meets. Lol |
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