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Bareback on the 1st meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yay?
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Nay?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yay?
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Jesus, no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sti, s are running riot, hiv is very much with us, bareback is insane and illegal without consent, absolutely insane,. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never bare back in this game
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stupid or not stupid? |
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So many couples ask for this ..
But you simply can’t if you’ve met someone on a site like this |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"Yay?
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With you? Of course babe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't share bodily fluids with strangers, it's nuts, but selfish idiots trying to without consent are on this site. Be very careful, they don't care about you or themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You must ne effing mad |
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"Yay?
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Are we meeting at a riding stables? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a hope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yay?
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Nay?
Are we meeting at a riding stables? "
I can’t believe no one’s said Russian roulette yet 
For anyone who thinks I personally would be stupid enough to BB on any meet; I wouldn’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good god NO! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. It would have to be someone I know and trust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No! Not on any! |
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Yes on every meet I've had. There's plenty of people who enjoy bareback sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it |
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"These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it"
Yes that's very true, my profile definitely doesn't have any mention of safe sex though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never! |
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Watching and adding to the block list.
Never mind doing it on the 1st meet, I never do it on any meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not 2nd, 3rd, 4th..............either |
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"These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it"
These posts have also got me quite a few meets over the years with women and couples who enjoy bareback but don't want everyone to know |
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"Yay?
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No - but I’ve seen many, many profiles who have safe sex as an interest and yet have posted bb pics With several different partners - hence I always look closely at the pics!  |
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"These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it
These posts have also got me quite a few meets over the years with women and couples who enjoy bareback but don't want everyone to know
As your 2 verifications prove"
I've met with 7 women and 2 couples over the years I've been on here.
It might not seem that many, but for a single guy who's only interested in bareback sex, it's not bad really |
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We chat for a bit and I ask if we meet happy bare? 70% yes of course - all blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yay?
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Noooope. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We chat for a bit and I ask if we meet happy bare? 70% yes of course - all blocked "
See if you asked me that I’d have blocked you without even answering.....  |
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"We chat for a bit and I ask if we meet happy bare? 70% yes of course - all blocked "
Ooooooh - a honey trap! Naughty! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"not telling lol "
You might da just did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it
These posts have also got me quite a few meets over the years with women and couples who enjoy bareback but don't want everyone to know
As your 2 verifications prove
I've met with 7 women and 2 couples over the years I've been on here.
It might not seem that many, but for a single guy who's only interested in bareback sex, it's not bad really "
try durex thins just as good as bare back with out the rotten cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, those that ask to meet bareback get blocked, only bareback we do is between each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We chat for a bit and I ask if we meet happy bare? 70% yes of course - all blocked
See if you asked me that I’d have blocked you without even answering..... "
I agree. What’s the effing point of gaming like that. Just meet and insist on protection. That kind of craic screams dangerous and a mind fuck and too much mental bullshit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nay |
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"We chat for a bit and I ask if we meet happy bare? 70% yes of course - all blocked
See if you asked me that I’d have blocked you without even answering..... "
We only ask it of guys.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do love a thread that makes my block list grow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We chat for a bit and I ask if we meet happy bare? 70% yes of course - all blocked
See if you asked me that I’d have blocked you without even answering.....
We only ask it of guys.."
Still reeks of mental gymnastics. No need. What’s the point. I wouldn’t continue chatting with a couple like you as I wouldn’t trust that you have a clean history. Bad vibes |
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"Do love a thread that makes my block list grow"
Yes keep blocking us guys that you won't be interested in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No bareback on any date!
If your im a relationship that's one thing, with a random off here - you would have to be nuts. |
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"These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it
These posts have also got me quite a few meets over the years with women and couples who enjoy bareback but don't want everyone to know
4 years since your last meet lol"
Luckily I have a FB that I met on here a few years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do love a thread that makes my block list grow
Yes keep blocking us guys that you won't be interested in "
Thanks for the permission |
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"Do love a thread that makes my block list grow
Yes keep blocking us guys that you won't be interested in
Thanks for the permission "
I'm sure that you don't need my permission for blocking or anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only ask it of guys.."
You realise that's not how STDs work right?
You DO understand that vaginas encounter other penises on this site? RIGHT?! |
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We only ask it of guys..
You realise that's not how STDs work right?
You DO understand that vaginas encounter other penises on this site? RIGHT?!"
RIGHT - didn’t say we played bare with other couples ...
Thanks for fabbing some pics and then blocking.. paradox |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No thanks, i wouldn't want to catch fabitus... Shudder!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These posts are always a good way for the filthy and irresponsible to highlight themselves, thus making it easier to avoid future interaction with such people who indicate "safe sex" on their profiles but don't practice it"
Well said  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
Tqo me it makes no difference if it's the first or twentieth meet. I don't do bareback.
I think those who do bareback though wouldn't mind whether it's the first or twentieth either.
It's a personal preference, and people make that choice themselves.
For me no bareback others make their own choices. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"Yay?
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With you? Of course babe "
Luckily only one person has messaged me! I was being a little sarcastic. I always insist on safe sex. |
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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago
West London |
Odd’s are worse than Russian roulette... unless your trust the person and known them well - don’t risk it .. your life and pride worth more than a quick fuck |
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By *nc31Man
over a year ago
uxbridge |
it is a silly thing to do however we have once done it and i really got off watching someone bang my gf then i get the pleasure of eating out the load. |
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Funny though no bareback but lots of blow jobs lol what's the difference can still get STI of the throat..... |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
Z'ha'dum |
Bears are very dangerous not to mention grumpy approach with caution.
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No and there are no sunshine at the end of that rainbow  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Funny though no bareback but lots of blow jobs lol what's the difference can still get STI of the throat....."
I like to hope that those people who are happy to engage in unprotected oral sex are aware of the risks of STD transmission and throat infections!
From the CDC website
Many STDs can be spread through oral sex. However, it is difficult to compare the exact risks of getting specific STDs from specific types of sexual activity. This is partly because most people who have oral sex also have vaginal or anal sex. Also, few studies have looked at the risks of getting STDs other than HIV from giving oral sex on the vagina or anus, compared to giving oral sex on the penis.
It is possible that getting certain STDs, such as chlamydia or gonorrhea, in the throat may not pose as great a threat to an infected person’s health as getting an STD in the genital area or rectum.
Having these infections in the throat might increase the risk of getting HIV. Having gonorrhea in the throat also may lead to spread of the disease throughout the body. In addition:
Having infections of chlamydia and gonorrhea in the throat may make it easier to spread these infections to others through oral sex. This is especially important for gonorrhea, since throat infections can be harder to treat than urinary, genital or rectal infections.
Infections from certain STDs, such as syphilis and HIV, spread throughout the body. Therefore, infections that are acquired in the throat may lead to the same health problems as infections acquired in the genitals or rectum.
Mouth and throat infections by certain types of HPV may develop into oral or neck cancer.
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"Yay?
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No way, too risky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No never,that's just asking for trouble |
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I said it one thread and it seems appropriate again here... there is no cure for stupid  |
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Nay. Disrespect that and there’ll definitely be no second meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Odd’s are worse than Russian roulette... unless your trust the person and known them well - don’t risk it .. your life and pride worth more than a quick fuck"
Your telling me you have a higher than 1 in 6 chance of dying from bareback sex ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With no medical check really  |
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What about 2nd or 3rd meet?
The barebck question can be so generalised.
If you saw an individual you fancied the fuck out of and it could be the only chance you get to fuck and there isn't a condom in sight what happens then?
Hmm... me thinks alot of people would take a chance.
Me ...haven't been in the lust for fuck situation so it's never occurred with me.
If it did I have enough self control not to let it get the better of me.
It's cream cakes I can't resist.
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"Yay?
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Nay?
No - but I’ve seen many, many profiles who have safe sex as an interest and yet have posted bb pics With several different partners - hence I always look closely at the pics! "
....great advice and it’s a no no no from us. ... |
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tin hat in waiting for it to start but we are a bareback couple, yea we meet selected couple and have full swap bareback with them |
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"tin hat in waiting for it to start but we are a bareback couple, yea we meet selected couple and have full swap bareback with them"
Good for you, if it's what you like.
If everyone is in mutual agreement it shouldn't be a problem.
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"tin hat in waiting for it to start but we are a bareback couple, yea we meet selected couple and have full swap bareback with them
Good for you, if it's what you like.
If everyone is in mutual agreement it shouldn't be a problem.
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Thank you, we are upfront about it, we have it in our profile |
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"Yay?
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For us it's a yay, enjoy bareback and nothing changes from whether it's the 1st or 20th encounter with each other.
I see the usual blocking messages in reply which is obviously fine people are allowed their opinions and choices.
As described by others lots of women who won't bareback then hang around in gloryholes sucking cock either oblivious to the risks or thinking their mouth and tonsils are special.
The Russian roulette analogy is as usual bollocks.
Sensibly we get tested post meetings which is the right thing to do to mitigate and control the risk.
Sx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please everyone, play safe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would never be so daft for bb on a first meet, I'd always wait until the second meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not first and definitely not second
Bareback is just between us .
We always strongly advocate safe sex when swinging , the after effects can be devastating for someone if found to be infected with deadly disease.
Something can't be explained to your family and kids.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a hope in hell
NO GLOVE
NO LOVE
NO EXCEPTIONS - simply as that |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
Bit of a tangent but how many people have safe oral sex?. Eg, cling film on a girl before giving oral and a condom on the guy before oral? |
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Baffles me some women (and guys) into Bareback and Bukakke with numerous partners, each one potentially infecting the next person they come into contact with and so on.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Baffles me some women (and guys) into Bareback and Bukakke with numerous partners, each one potentially infecting the next person they come into contact with and so on. "
There must be a certain degree if it’s won’t happen to me’ tinged with loins overriding brain there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yay?
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I did this once and got aids and then died. Wasn't worth it in all honesty. |
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"Bit of a tangent but how many people have safe oral sex?. Eg, cling film on a girl before giving oral and a condom on the guy before oral? "
Less than 1% I reckon. Also how many proudly say they won't exchange bodily fluids then have oral sex or kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of a tangent but how many people have safe oral sex?. Eg, cling film on a girl before giving oral and a condom on the guy before oral? "
That can be a separate thread on
" does STD HIV passes through oral sex ?"
For the fact it definitely passes via bareback sex . |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Yay?
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Definately a no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's face it, in the heat of the moment it would be very easy to let it happen. But this is where brain must override cock and do the sensible thing and say to cock "You'll thank me for it later" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never.. On any meet |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
The local clinic has a condom program which used to also give out dental dams.
Sadly they haven't done that for a while, and while they were happy to send me off with an armful of condoms in all colours and sizes, I was told to check on ebay if I wanted dental dams. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
Absolutely never, no!
Don't fancy playing the sti roulette wheel of doom personally. Nor do I collect them like pokemon cards.
I've never had an sti/std in my life and thats how I plan on keeping it. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Yay?
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I am.more interested in why you asked the question in the first place.
As for my answer. Nay I would need at. leasts a test every single month for three months |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nay!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love these posts where people are saying the 'right' thing but I've had private messages from more than one saying the total opposite, you all know who you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback on no meet ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not going to lie, we enjoy bareback x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of a tangent but how many people have safe oral sex?. Eg, cling film on a girl before giving oral and a condom on the guy before oral? "
Wtaf cling film???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My god, no! I'd only ever consider bareback with a very trusted regular, and even then only if we were exclusive.
Do people actually WANT to get STIs? |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"Bit of a tangent but how many people have safe oral sex?. Eg, cling film on a girl before giving oral and a condom on the guy before oral?
Wtaf cling film???
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Yes, cling film over lady bits as a barrier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No!!!!
Although in my younger days I would have just simply for being young and stupid.
Now I've matured (matter of opinion ) i wouldn't on first meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only if all agree before hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of a tangent but how many people have safe oral sex?. Eg, cling film on a girl before giving oral and a condom on the guy before oral?
Wtaf cling film???
Yes, cling film over lady bits as a barrier. "
No one bringing cling film on a date is getting within 2 metres of my lady bits and what's the rest of the roll for keeping them quiet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way especially with a stranger |
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I only bareback from at least 2 metres away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never, I quite like my knob and would hate for it to rot and fall off  |
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By *ack99Man
over a year ago
Inverness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not.
I’ve never done it bb before. |
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By *angerineMan
over a year ago
somewhere inbetween the right and wrong |
Nay, nay, a dozen times nay. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
Would people give head to a guy on a first date without demanding a condom? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never ever it’s insane |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys |
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"Funny though no bareback but lots of blow jobs lol what's the difference can still get STI of the throat....."
I was just going to mention this....This is why when you get tested at the clinic they swab your throat too. The risk isn't as high, but it is still there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys "
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
Gourock |
So is it alright to swallow ?? |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys
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I'm starting to think people might be telling porky pies 
If this was the general attitude in the uk, sti's would be rare. |
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The messages we get don't tally up percentage wise to these threads at least 80 percent of men that contact want bareback during a meet couples its more even |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys
I'm starting to think people might be telling porky pies
If this was the general attitude in the uk, sti's would be rare. "
I know people are telling porky pies we have very few meets but have never spoke to any man regardless of profile who wouldnt go bareback and we have spoken to many many men in the years we have been here, not a single one said only safe sex, these posts are purely in the hope of getting a shag if you say what people want to hear x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yay?
Or
Nay?
Are we meeting at a riding stables? "
Hay.. I bring the hay.
Sorry OP it's neigh from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the saying goes...
'You can't teach common sense'
It's a no from me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yay?
Or
Nay?
I am.more interested in why you asked the question in the first place.
As for my answer. Nay I would need at. leasts a test every single month for three months"
Cos these threads bring out the truth, not in the thread itself usually but in my inbox.
I don’t BB for penetrative sex but do suck bare. It’s very unlikely I’d catch something they can’t cure orally but I do take the additional precaution of being on the PrEP trial. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"Yay?
Or
Nay?
I am.more interested in why you asked the question in the first place.
As for my answer. Nay I would need at. leasts a test every single month for three months
Cos these threads bring out the truth, not in the thread itself usually but in my inbox.
I don’t BB for penetrative sex but do suck bare. It’s very unlikely I’d catch something they can’t cure orally but I do take the additional precaution of being on the PrEP trial. "
Prep is deffo a game changer, I'd like to see a lot more people use it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yay?
Or
Nay?
I am.more interested in why you asked the question in the first place.
As for my answer. Nay I would need at. leasts a test every single month for three months
Cos these threads bring out the truth, not in the thread itself usually but in my inbox.
I don’t BB for penetrative sex but do suck bare. It’s very unlikely I’d catch something they can’t cure orally but I do take the additional precaution of being on the PrEP trial.
Prep is deffo a game changer, I'd like to see a lot more people use it "
I had an ‘incident’ and the ensuing distress made me push the clinic to allow me onto the trial. When I asked to be they’d already put me on the list. |
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"Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys
I'm starting to think people might be telling porky pies
If this was the general attitude in the uk, sti's would be rare.
I know people are telling porky pies we have very few meets but have never spoke to any man regardless of profile who wouldnt go bareback and we have spoken to many many men in the years we have been here, not a single one said only safe sex, these posts are purely in the hope of getting a shag if you say what people want to hear x"
yep definitely agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys
I'm starting to think people might be telling porky pies
If this was the general attitude in the uk, sti's would be rare.
I know people are telling porky pies we have very few meets but have never spoke to any man regardless of profile who wouldnt go bareback and we have spoken to many many men in the years we have been here, not a single one said only safe sex, these posts are purely in the hope of getting a shag if you say what people want to hear xyep definitely agree"
only had one couple and no guys that wanted safe. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done, I'm not into condoms. sorry but there you go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean.... I have with 1 person from fab.
But that was because we were on a much more personal level than the average fabber.... but if I was to meet someone - I’d certainly want protection. At least until trust is there |
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By *angerineMan
over a year ago
somewhere inbetween the right and wrong |
"Men, really nay ? "
Really!
A panic in my younger years turned out to be a false alarm but a timely warning.
I make sure I always play safe!
Can do without all the worry and stress tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men, really nay ? "
Yes really, from someone who has never had bb sex before.
Some women have said no too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not, its not worth the risk. |
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I’ve been asked if I do bareback and they got an answer, shame as some of them I quite liked the look of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, not on any meet. Once happened where I was staying over and woke up to him pounding me bareback. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dear god ... NO! |
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"Watching and adding to the block list.
Never mind doing it on the 1st meet, I never do it on any meet!"
That’s my girl x x |
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"Watching and adding to the block list.
Never mind doing it on the 1st meet, I never do it on any meet!
That’s my girl x x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging obviously has a high degree of Promiscuity, and I just I have a responsibility to be safe , from r my self and others .
Not knocking it , of its your thing , but not for me
Having said that - sparkle, I'd do whatever you want me to do LOL  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on first or any meet |
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"Watching and adding to the block list.
Never mind doing it on the 1st meet, I never do it on any meet!
That’s my girl x x
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How’s you today my love frend x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, not on any meet. Once happened where I was staying over and woke up to him pounding me bareback. "
is that not r@pe
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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago
Kendal |
Don’t be stupid, don't be silly, just put a rubber on your willy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is that not r@pe"
You're probably right. It took me a few seconds to come to and realise what was happening and when I started pushing him off, saying no, he shot his load inside me and withdrew so would probably say when I said no he stopped. I was really shaken for a long time afterwards even though there was no violence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is that not r@pe
You're probably right. It took me a few seconds to come to and realise what was happening and when I started pushing him off, saying no, he shot his load inside me and withdrew so would probably say when I said no he stopped. I was really shaken for a long time afterwards even though there was no violence. "
I'm sorry to hear of your negative experience, I hope you're ok now. Personally I'd find it a turn on waking up having sex on a meet, but different people are comfortable with different things, or have different expectations I guess. I do hope you're alright hun xx |
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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago
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"Amazing the amount of guys saying no but it’s the first thing most ask us if they can do. I smell bullsh*t guys
I'm starting to think people might be telling porky pies
If this was the general attitude in the uk, sti's would be rare.
I know people are telling porky pies we have very few meets but have never spoke to any man regardless of profile who wouldnt go bareback and we have spoken to many many men in the years we have been here, not a single one said only safe sex, these posts are purely in the hope of getting a shag if you say what people want to hear xyep definitely agree"
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
I even put a glove on to drive my car now a days never mind anything else ffs safety first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nay on all meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Block list growing.. "
Mine too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a hope in hell
NO GLOVE
NO LOVE
NO EXCEPTIONS - simply as that "
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Yay?
Or
Nay?
No - but I’ve seen many, many profiles who have safe sex as an interest and yet have posted bb pics With several different partners - hence I always look closely at the pics! "
Plenty vids posted echo this too. |
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As I've exclusively played bareback for at least the past 10 years, it's a 'Yay' from me...
....and as someone else has stated above, being upfront about it on my profile and in threads such as these has led to contacts from ladies and couples who want to play that way...
....those who don't like it, block away! Those who do, feel free to get in touch... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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What is this “meet” thing anyway?
That’s stupid enough at present. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a fucking chance anyone daft enough to do it needs their head looked at |
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Absolutely not. With cringe ontop.
Each to their own but not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my late teens it was normal, but now I'm older and understand the risks its a definite no! |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Nope...
In answer to the oral sex question... The risks from oral sex are far less pronounced. In 14 years of escorting I never had unprotected penetration but did offer oral without and I never had an std.
There have been no reported cases of transmission of HIV through oral sex alone, only when open sores have been present so There are things you can do to reduce those down even further.
* Don't brush your teeth for at least 2 hours before meeting.
* Use alcohol free mouthwash if you want to freshen your breath.
* Don't eat hard foods (pizza, crisps etc) for a few hours before a meet.
One thing that always shocks me, even with those who play safe, is the lack of awareness of secondary transmission.
In clubs I've seen people insist on condoms but will let some guy finger them who has just been wankinh himself, or will be playing with a guy but will then play with themselves.
First thing I was taught at hooker school (no it doesn't really exist but kindly hookers taught me things).
One hand for him, the other for you...
Clean both hands before putting on the condom.
As a woman, always use your own condoms.
Regularly use 'your' hand to check the condom is in place. |
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