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Fabbing pics, why does it matter to me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not that much, but I always check my pics that have been fabbed when I notice people have looked at my profile.
It's not a big thing but pleases me massively when there have been fabs and slightly disappoints when there's no new ones ha.
Does it matter to most or am I mental?
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I love getting fabs?
Always boosts my confidence.
I feel so good since joining the site and seeing people liking me, as I never believed people would before.
I've just posted some new ones and excited to see how they do  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx"
Well there's not one of yours I didn't fab ha, but as for an idea of what interests people.... For me it's your bum and thighs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love getting fabs?
Always boosts my confidence.
I feel so good since joining the site and seeing people liking me, as I never believed people would before.
I've just posted some new ones and excited to see how they do "
Yeah I'm the same, nice little pick me up ha |
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"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx
Well there's not one of yours I didn't fab ha, but as for an idea of what interests people.... For me it's your bum and thighs. "
Really, thanks for your input  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx
Well there's not one of yours I didn't fab ha, but as for an idea of what interests people.... For me it's your bum and thighs.
Really, thanks for your input "
Definitely, all your pics are great to look at, but your bum and thighs........   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse "
Not all men thanks. I only fab what I actually like |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Still nice though hey?? "
Sweeping generalisation there of men really  |
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Still nice though hey??
Sweeping generalisation there of men really "
Not really |
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Still nice though hey?? "
It is for some for me i don't even look lol don't need anyone to boost my confidence xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Still nice though hey??
Sweeping generalisation there of men really
Not really "
I think it is. You've just described the opposite of what I fab.... I'm a man.
So it's not "men" really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same I always look to see if any pics have been fabbed when someone's looked at me and it does your confidence the world of when someone has fabbed them it also gives you an idea of what sort of pics to put up in the future |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm the same I always look to see if any pics have been fabbed when someone's looked at me and it does your confidence the world of when someone has fabbed them it also gives you an idea of what sort of pics to put up in the future"
Glad it's not just me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do  And I fab lots too  "
Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.
Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself "
I get that part, what I meant with arrogance was saying all men are the same basically amd fab anything with a pulse.
I'm glad she's confident enough that it doesn't matter. |
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Not all men thanks. I only fab what I actually like "
Same here.
Means I have a nice quick way of viewing all my fav pictures at any point I need too  |
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"You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself "
I wish you were that happy with yourself.
I just checked out your profile and you are absolutely stunning!
Just giving you a load of fabs!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all love fabing lovely sexy teasing pictures. "
seems to be the case in general.
I like what was mentioned previously about getting an idea of what's liked and what's not. I seem to be liked by men a lot more than women ha |
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"We all love fabing lovely sexy teasing pictures.
seems to be the case in general.
I like what was mentioned previously about getting an idea of what's liked and what's not. I seem to be liked by men a lot more than women ha"
Haha. Same here.
Wish I'd get more female fabs |
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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do And I fab lots too
Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.
Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses. "
Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do And I fab lots too
Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.
Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.
Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too "
You are entitled to that opinion of course, but it's wrong.
If it was true I'd have fabbed your picture as you have a pulse, but I only fab what I like.
So not the case that "men" will fab anything with a pulse
All the best. |
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Not all men thanks. I only fab what I actually like "
Same here I may look through them all but only fab selected ones. Really like the more artistic photos not necessarily nude either |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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I rarely fab photos unless it's of something that I really like or different, but as I say rare. I never expect mine to be fab'd, I wouldn't think they are good or interesting enough. I think many fab in the hope they will be noticed! There are also a lot 'asking' for fabs, which I would avoid. |
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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do And I fab lots too
Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.
Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.
Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too
You are entitled to that opinion of course, but it's wrong.
If it was true I'd have fabbed your picture as you have a pulse, but I only fab what I like.
So not the case that "men" will fab anything with a pulse
All the best. "
Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex |
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"Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex "
I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.
Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.
Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?
Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?
No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.
So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.
'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such. |
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"Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex
I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.
Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.
Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?
Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?
No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.
So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.
'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such. "
I never actually meant men fab anything with a pulse I meant they would fk anything with a pulse and Fabing pics they interested in is their way of thinking oh they may msg me because I have fabbed their pic sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex
I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.
Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.
Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?
Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?
No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.
So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.
'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.
I never actually meant men fab anything with a pulse I meant they would fk anything with a pulse and Fabing pics they interested in is their way of thinking oh they may msg me because I have fabbed their pic sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x "
It's all forgotten
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed quite a few of the elite on here are positively begging to be fabbed on their profiles it’s slightly sad but saying that if they have low self esteem a few fabs can’t hurt |
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"Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex
I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.
Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.
Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?
Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?
No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.
So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.
'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.
I never actually meant men fab anything with a pulse I meant they would fk anything with a pulse and Fabing pics they interested in is their way of thinking oh they may msg me because I have fabbed their pic sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x
It's all forgotten
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"Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex
I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.
Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.
Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?
Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?
No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.
So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.
'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.
I never actually meant men fab anything with a pulse I meant they would fk anything with a pulse and Fabing pics they interested in is their way of thinking oh they may msg me because I have fabbed their pic sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x "
That's OK. I see what you mean now.
It is sometimes hard to get your point across in text.
Glad everyone is happy again now
Have a lovely day x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do And I fab lots too
Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.
Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.
Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too
You are entitled to that opinion of course, but it's wrong.
If it was true I'd have fabbed your picture as you have a pulse, but I only fab what I like.
So not the case that "men" will fab anything with a pulse
All the best.
Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex "
Again though though you've just said what we are all driven by as men. I know full well what drives me ta. As do other men.
We have more experience of being men than you do
As for the inbox thing again that's only the messages that you've received from those men. It's not all men. Check your inbox, you don't have a message from me.
That's my point, most men... Or men in general would be a better way to phrase it than "all men" is all I mean.
Like a nice healthy debate and mean no offence but I won't be told who I am/what I like/what motivates me because of someone's experiences with other people.
All the best.
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When I joined this site, I wasn't comfortable with my body at all. I used to see pics and think "there is no way anyone wants to see my mum bod on display!"
In the 2+ years I've been on here, my confidence has gone through the roof. Not so much that I think I am the most gorgeous woman ever, but I am now comfortable in my own skin Apart from my bum, I will never like that! Lol.
Fabs on my photos do make me feel good, it is nice to know people appreciate the photos I put on, but I don't expect them.
I put the photos on for myself and if someone else likes them then it's a bonus.
Being comfortable in my own skin means I'm more confident in the bedroom, so the sex is way better...it's win win |
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We don't really pay any attention to how many fabs we get on our pics but we genuinely do like comments in messages when people say how great we look together or how hot we look as a couple in our pics. Hearing nice things about what other people think of our pics is definitely a confidence boost for us and something we love to hear |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse
Still nice though hey??
Sweeping generalisation there of men really
Not really "
Then why not remove the option to fab your pictures? It's easily done.
In any context it's nice to receive a compliment, and a fab is just that. Not a big thing, but for me something to be grateful for. |
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