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over a year ago
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That is interesting. You are talking from the womans point of view I take it. Do not think it is about not feeling enough for each other. Depends if your in a relationship and you are on fab secretly I suppose then fantasy is all it will ever be. Nothing wrong there either. |
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I’m not in a relationship, but know that it’s something I would like to explore if I was...it’s more about the power/control that turns me on, not that my partner wouldn’t be enough...I would just worry that he might take it that way especially if I were to bring it up early in the relationship |
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"I’m not in a relationship, but know that it’s something I would like to explore if I was...it’s more about the power/control that turns me on, not that my partner wouldn’t be enough...I would just worry that he might take it that way especially if I were to bring it up early in the relationship "
Perhaps best to bring it up early in realationship. if not agreeable to partner your not going to lose a long time relationship. Perhaps best in your situation is have an understanding male buddy |
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I suppose it depends on the individuals involved. Sorry to generalise but for example there are many single guys here that would like to play with couples. But that door is firmly shut to them as singles, however with a female from here those doors open. I personally have evolved from being a dreadful womaniser and a bit of a cad because I realised it was the thrill of the chase I loved. So being a man in a relationship where the woman has needs I am unable to fulfil, be that playing with other women, needing a more dominant man or liking better endowed gentlemen all means that thrill of the chase engages because I have to be the one she comes home to and appreciates the lack of control and no demands from me. In essence the perfect ‘she has her cake and eats it with either cream or ice cream lol all too many supposed sub males or cucks want the woman to do and sleep with who in their mind gets them off. That should not be the case. The significant other supports her and makes her feel sexy, intelligent, desirable which empowers her to see other men, women or couples!
Only my humble point of view and how I see my partner playing! |
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Difficult one this one.
We were already in a relationship which just kinda evolved.
I can imagine it would seem very weird to a vanilla person to just come out with it haha.
I guess try pick your partners from the non vanilla bdsm world. Haha not sure how you would do that tho
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