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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im seeing more an more profiles with this, males, females and couples. Out of curiosity (when we can obviously) how do people meet when this is the case? To me it seems like whoever's got that on there profile needs to be picked up,taken back to the other persons and then dropped off again!? Basically one person does all the travel/ work and one person gets to just play? As if it's a privilege for the other person sort of? x  |
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"Im seeing more an more profiles with this, males, females and couples. Out of curiosity (when we can obviously) how do people meet when this is the case? To me it seems like whoever's got that on there profile needs to be picked up,taken back to the other persons and then dropped off again!? Basically one person does all the travel/ work and one person gets to just play? As if it's a privilege for the other person sort of? x "
Jump through those hoops fella |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't ever want to invite a fab meet (even regular) to my home and although I ticked 'don't travel', in reality i do go hundreds of miles... But it helps me to manage the conversation  |
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If you don't tick either can accom or travel, the settings automatically show you can't do either.
I wish there was a sitting for "can accommodate but won't until I know you." SO many guys assume that can accommodate means I'm willing to let them into my home at any time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They may only meet at clubs, socials and parties OP. "
Sorry I should have clarified, AND they dont do clubs or parties lol
Fully get when people only meet at clubs I've spoken to quite a few people who do that  |
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"They may only meet at clubs, socials and parties OP.
Sorry I should have clarified, AND they dont do clubs or parties lol
Fully get when people only meet at clubs I've spoken to quite a few people who do that "
Do they even meet then?  |
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"I suppose you can still cam, I can understand people not being able to Accommodate for a number of reasons, but cant travel ? just lazy perhaps ? "
Or don't drive and have anxiety around public transport?
Lazy thinking. |
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Speaking from experience. I fully understand the 'can't accomodate' for single ladies as some guys will just assume they can turn up anytime they've had a few drinks and take advantage of the facilities despite the fact that there could be family,children around? When I was in a swinging relationship a few years ago my lady friend had this problem with a guy we'd previously met who she'd hosted at her home. (Lesson learnt there?) And surely it's up to the person wishing to meet if they wish to 'jump through hoops'? I can't see any guys getting away with it though? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Speaking from experience. I fully understand the 'can't accomodate' for single ladies as some guys will just assume they can turn up anytime they've had a few drinks and take advantage of the facilities despite the fact that there could be family,children around? When I was in a swinging relationship a few years ago my lady friend had this problem with a guy we'd previously met who she'd hosted at her home. (Lesson learnt there?) And surely it's up to the person wishing to meet if they wish to 'jump through hoops'? I can't see any guys getting away with it though?"
I've actually had this with two guys trying to get into my house at 2 am. Presumably one that I had accommodated thought it would be ok to turn up unannounced with his mate. I ended up locking myself in my bedroom unable to sleep for the rest of the night as I was living alone at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't drive... And live with someone... I don't play without him in our bed... I can still meet, either at theirs or a hotel, locally... It's not really rocket science!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Speaking from experience. I fully understand the 'can't accomodate' for single ladies as some guys will just assume they can turn up anytime they've had a few drinks and take advantage of the facilities despite the fact that there could be family,children around? When I was in a swinging relationship a few years ago my lady friend had this problem with a guy we'd previously met who she'd hosted at her home. (Lesson learnt there?) And surely it's up to the person wishing to meet if they wish to 'jump through hoops'? I can't see any guys getting away with it though?
I've actually had this with two guys trying to get into my house at 2 am. Presumably one that I had accommodated thought it would be ok to turn up unannounced with his mate. I ended up locking myself in my bedroom unable to sleep for the rest of the night as I was living alone at the time. "
Wtaff!?!?!the mind boggles at some people on here seriously |
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"Im seeing more an more profiles with this, males, females and couples. Out of curiosity (when we can obviously) how do people meet when this is the case? To me it seems like whoever's got that on there profile needs to be picked up,taken back to the other persons and then dropped off again!? Basically one person does all the travel/ work and one person gets to just play? As if it's a privilege for the other person sort of? x "
I meet at clubs, others houses. I can accommodate however I have four kids do need to find someone willing to have them all |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Speaking from experience. I fully understand the 'can't accomodate' for single ladies as some guys will just assume they can turn up anytime they've had a few drinks and take advantage of the facilities despite the fact that there could be family,children around? When I was in a swinging relationship a few years ago my lady friend had this problem with a guy we'd previously met who she'd hosted at her home. (Lesson learnt there?) And surely it's up to the person wishing to meet if they wish to 'jump through hoops'? I can't see any guys getting away with it though?
I've actually had this with two guys trying to get into my house at 2 am. Presumably one that I had accommodated thought it would be ok to turn up unannounced with his mate. I ended up locking myself in my bedroom unable to sleep for the rest of the night as I was living alone at the time.
Wtaff!?!?!the mind boggles at some people on here seriously "
Just a bit off putting tbh.  |
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"Im seeing more an more profiles with this, males, females and couples. Out of curiosity (when we can obviously) how do people meet when this is the case? To me it seems like whoever's got that on there profile needs to be picked up,taken back to the other persons and then dropped off again!? Basically one person does all the travel/ work and one person gets to just play? As if it's a privilege for the other person sort of? x "
yep thats about sums it up....i have lover who is like that....but its worth its she is soo good xx...she has kids at home, a partner and travels to work by train..so cant accommodate or travel |
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Usually implies they expect to meet you somewhere local to them or you pick them up near to where they live.... Had lots of meets like that over the years . Don't read too much into the accom flags, we have been known to accommodate if everything is right  |
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"Im seeing more an more profiles with this, males, females and couples. Out of curiosity (when we can obviously) how do people meet when this is the case? To me it seems like whoever's got that on there profile needs to be picked up,taken back to the other persons and then dropped off again!? Basically one person does all the travel/ work and one person gets to just play? As if it's a privilege for the other person sort of? x "
I don’t accommodate or travel.
I don’t want strangers in my house, especially men from Fab.
I will travel 10 miles but I have a phobia of motorways and don’t like driving distance for anyone, no matter how important they think they are.
At end of the day it’s my choice and not for men on Fab to query as that’s pressure. Pass me by if you don’t like my terms.
Think this OP. Would you like your sister being pressured by men on here about travelling distance or the issue of having random Fab men turning up at her house uninvited? I rest my case! |
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I put cannot accommodate, cannot travel. I also explain it in my profile. What it means for me is cannot and will not under any circumstances accommodate, but will travel up to 30 minutes drive. I’m not driving more than an hour’s round trip unless I already know the sex is going to be epic! I found that when I put “can travel”, what happened was that men all over the country expected me to travel for hours to them - sorry boys, your dick ain’t that exceptional. |
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"Other one is couples looking for single men but they block all single males. I get they may approach them direct but with a list as long as your arm to meet requirements."
It’s up to them how they run their profile, not you. |
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