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What gets you interested in meeting someone?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A well written profile which both excites and intrigues me with a selection of good pics is a good start."
I agree definitely with the profile, a one liner doesn’t do it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks attract, profile mmm hit n miss, could be the best written one on here but not written in earnest. Ultimately its how you get on chatting then face to face, if things don't align then it's not going anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say the first priority for me is that they send a message that show they have read my profile and understand what I/we want from a meet, then I can reciprocate that in my reply and talk about their needs. Sadly many people want to meet because they like our pics and they have none, one guy wants to meet me as he passes my house every day and assumes that is a good reason. Not going well for him is it? Tasmin |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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Pics first that suggest we’d be attracted, especially if we get the idea they’ve been taken thoughtfully...and if they suggest a hint of kink, even better!
Then it’s a sense from how the profile or message is written. If that’s thoughtful too then straight away there is interest. Not to meet initially, but to chat on the phone to see if we might like to meet, certainly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to say the first priority for me is that they send a message that show they have read my profile and understand what I/we want from a meet, then I can reciprocate that in my reply and talk about their needs. Sadly many people want to meet because they like our pics and they have none, one guy wants to meet me as he passes my house every day and assumes that is a good reason. Not going well for him is it? Tasmin"
Think he needs to put a bit more effort in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth 
It’s got to be fucking great sex!
You have to actually meet them first to find that out "
So true but thats what we’re here for? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth
It’s got to be fucking great sex!
You have to actually meet them first to find that out
So true but thats what we’re here for? "
What makes you want to have sex with them for the first time though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hot pics and then if they are sound
I love the build up then and then get to spoil her in person
Had a few couples message me with terrible attitudes. Such a turn off that is, i just leave that alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be a number of things.
A comment on the forum.
Something on their profile.
Pictures.
They have sent a message and it sparks a good conversation."
Oh yes i like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arrogant couples......also a huge turn off
Can you define arrogant? "
Sure can
Send abrupt messages, what they want with a rude entilteld tone
And also demanding i pay for the hotel
As if they can talk to any single male like that
Thoughts on that? |
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"Arrogant couples......also a huge turn off
Can you define arrogant?
Sure can
Send abrupt messages, what they want with a rude entilteld tone
And also demanding i pay for the hotel
As if they can talk to any single male like that
Thoughts on that?"
Yep, it doesn't sound like us!
I admit I find it hard to shake of the... Power dynamic... That he should be trying to impress us initially rather than us trying to appeal to him before we know anything useful about him. Hopefully given our profile shows so much about who we are that's not a bad thing... |
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Humour and Conversation!
You can look like the hottest, sexiest, most desirable person/s in the world, but if you have less charisma than a plank of wood - we probably won’t follow up your message!
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By *readMan
over a year ago
polesworth |
All these girls and buys talking about connection and generally personal chemistry.. get yourselves out and explore dating that was.. swingers like to do things inconceivable but also very controlled and pre established |
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