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Kind of new, with no luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey man, just add a few more basic photos just so people can get a bit of a feel for you, what you’re about, maybe add what you do yourself in your spare time without going into detail, just any little talents or hobbies that are basic conversational points you can slot in. Because you’re a Male unfortunately you are a numbers game. So standing out is the main point. Construct your messages around the profile you’re messaging and make sure it’s an actual message rather than a sleazy request of what you want. Not saying you do this, but the multitude of messages women get I’m assuming this comes in a lot. Add a recent face picture to messages will potentially help. This is what I’ve learnt my short time being here and it’s probably all wrong!
Most importantly don’t put it down to ‘not having much luck’ you’re here for enjoyment, not to feel down about it, have fun and worst case scenario every one in the forums is lovely for a laugh  |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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"Thanks man, do you have any advice for my profile?"
When you have none legal waffle (that makes you look like you believe anything  ) that makes up 70% of your profile, then you dont really have a profile. |
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In my opinion the single most important thing for a profile is a profile picture that isn’t the default silhouette. There are lots of other important things too, but if there’s no profile pic I’m unlikely to even open the profile to see anything else. Your messages are also much more likely to get buried in someone’s inbox if you have the same silhouette picture as a load of guys sending “fancy a fuk” messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion the single most important thing for a profile is a profile picture that isn’t the default silhouette. There are lots of other important things too, but if there’s no profile pic I’m unlikely to even open the profile to see anything else. Your messages are also much more likely to get buried in someone’s inbox if you have the same silhouette picture as a load of guys sending “fancy a fuk” messages"
Will fancy a fuk work for me since I’m not a silhouette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate there's good advice here, along with countless forum threads on the same subject.
Lose the legal rubbish and extend your profile. Perhaps a selection of photos?
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