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By *rManners OP Man
over a year ago
Sheffield |
Ladies, what ticks your boxes for a good opening message when approaching someone you like for the first time? I’m respectful and polite, I don’t talk filth in my original message or suggest a meet right now. I generally just make it clear I’ve read the profile, thought we may be compatible and ask them to check my profile and then see if they fancy a chat. I get next to no responses.
Guys.... what have you found to be a successful approach that’s worked for you? |
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By *rManners OP Man
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"A politely worded message that shows you've read the profile is always a good start OP
The ratio of men to women has you at a disadvantage but in my opinion your approach is good.
Happy fabbing."
Thanks, it’s just a numbers game then I suppose. I shall persevere! |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"Ladies, what ticks your boxes for a good opening message when approaching someone you like for the first time? I’m respectful and polite, I don’t talk filth in my original message or suggest a meet right now. I generally just make it clear I’ve read the profile, thought we may be compatible and ask them to check my profile and then see if they fancy a chat. I get next to no responses.
Guys.... what have you found to be a successful approach that’s worked for you? "
I don't think there's a magic formula that's guaranteed to give you success, just go with the flow and enjoy your time here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m respectful and polite, I don’t talk filth in my original message or suggest a meet right now. I generally just make it clear I’ve read the profile, thought we may be compatible and ask them to check my profile and then see if they fancy a chat. I get next to no responses. "
OP, I do precisely that! I read the profile and try where possible to make a reference to something on it to show I've read it. My messages are polite, courteous and more often than not include a face picture.
The vast majority of messages do not get read. Of those that do get read, a tiny minority get a response which, in most cases is "no thanks" (not a problem and I appreciate their honesty and courtesy). But every once in a while, a conversation starts...
Be yourself OP, be patient, and live to your standards, and eventually the type of person you appeal to will come your way. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Ladies, what ticks your boxes for a good opening message when approaching someone you like for the first time? I’m respectful and polite, I don’t talk filth in my original message or suggest a meet right now. I generally just make it clear I’ve read the profile, thought we may be compatible and ask them to check my profile and then see if they fancy a chat. I get next to no responses.
Guys.... what have you found to be a successful approach that’s worked for you? "
a hello, my name, were im from, what my job is seems to do me ok 
because if i met them in a bar those would probably be in the 1st few questions/words id say to someone id just met |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
A box at end of your bed |
In the words of Ozzy Kevin Bloody Wilson
"Do you fuck on first dates" it may work for you as it's not worked for me yet.
If that doesn't work ask if she has a sister that does, that's worked for me a couple of times.
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I’ll always write a well mannered, friendly and humorous message. Making reference to something unique to their profile. Signing off with a face picture of myself and basically open for them to reply if they’re interested. |
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"In the words of Ozzy Kevin Bloody Wilson
"Do you fuck on first dates" it may work for you as it's not worked for me yet.
If that doesn't work ask if she has a sister that does, that's worked for me a couple of times.
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DILLIGAF! |
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