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By *rnaughty OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Why is it so difficult to arrange a gangbang ?
Single guys are great at talking the talk but when it comes down to it they hardly ever walk the walk.
Mistake number 1 if you actually put gangbangs down as a like on your profile it's silly to block single men as more often than not it's us who actually host them ( think about it )
Come on men get your act together, there are lots of gorgeous ladies of all shapes and sizes who would like to experience more than one man at a time, it's up to us to oblige and to prove not all single men are all talk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't seem to find two suitable men for an MFM, never mind a gangbang  "
Other way round here lol, plenty of guys, ladies like the idea but.......for some fantasy is just fantasy, me I prefer reality lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we tried to sort one, invited 15 or twenty, expecting half to not turn up, none of them did, we dont tend to meet single guys now, because of this"
There’s always a few that ruin it for everyone |
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The few I've been invited to, I have always turned up, rude not to, as people have planned an experience.
Agree most guys bottle it last minute.
In my mind if you want 10 guys advertise for 30, and make sure they live in a 20 mile radius. |
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It’s a big fantasy for guys to go to one of these but can be nerve wracking for some
I’d probably suggest those that are/have been members of clubs and used to public and group nudity and sex are less likely to get ‘stage fright’ than those for whom this is a bucket list fantasy thing |
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We have been to so many Gb's but would never dream of trying to organise one. I think (I could be wrong) only 20% ever actually turn up.
Thankfully, we now have a couple of groups we can rely on because they have their guys in place from turning up at previous Gb's so no let downs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wifey was sucking off 5 or 6 blokes in the glory hole room at Chams a while back and asked to take it further in the round room.
They scurried off when they actually had the chance to take it further.
What a waste..... |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
So many guys do only talk.
Arranged to meet a couple with 4 other guys, they (couple) had booked A nice hotel room. All should have been in hotel bar to get instructions about going to the room. I was the only one who turned up. 3 others stopped responding & one said he was in the bar, the guy from the couple & myself went to find him- not there.
I had a good night!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe its how you are arranging it?
I have never had problems with no shows. I never arrange it too far in advance, on the day a few hours before doesn't really give people a chance to mess you about , I take advantage of the guys that are repeadly eager to meet, those messages that annoy everyone else they are usually the most reliable for gangbangs funnily enough
Same with when I arrange dogging. I prefer doing it this way.
Not an expert, only done it a handful of times, just found a way that works for me xxx |
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By *ornsMan
over a year ago
west Midlands |
"I've arranged a few but not on here. These ladies talk the talk but run from a gang bang lol
Not all of us.
Agree!"
I hear ya, some do, some don't. So far arranged 2 no takers from here but we had a couple of brilliant nights with a few ladies from elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't seem to find two suitable men for an MFM, never mind a gangbang "
Surely not...with a figure like yours?
Cross the Pennines to Yorkshire. You'll have a ball. |
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"I've arranged a few but not on here. These ladies talk the talk but run from a gang bang lol
Not all of us.personally i think the females have more balls than the males."
That kind of gangbang, no wonder the blokes didn't turn up! |
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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
"Wifey was sucking off 5 or 6 blokes in the glory hole room at Chams a while back and asked to take it further in the round room.
They scurried off when they actually had the chance to take it further.
What a waste....."
How strange, must be mad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't seem to find two suitable men for an MFM, never mind a gangbang "
This can't be true.
Men will form a queue without social distancing outside your room |
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If you are a couple, you get bombarded by singles... most of whom dont bother to read the profile. It gets to the point that you csnt manage the tidal wave if a couple can be arsed to look at every one of them.
If you want to offer a GB then get a group together and setup a new dedicated profile. Singles are 10na penny but MM or MMM+ are not and easier to search for as MM is a specific search criteria.
As a single, you will not have been deluged with winks or "Hi" messages so your issue is not the same.
You wanna gang fuck... great... but advertise to your niche rather than shotgun frustrations |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
I have been to three gangbangs. Two in Bristol with 8 guys and 10 guys respectively at each event but at the last gangbang I went to with the same host there were 8 guys but when the girl arrived she bottled it and wouldn't go ahead with it. Eight guys wanting fun fully horned up and ready to go and nothing happened. It's the only time that the host was let down by the girl. Needless to say we were all gutted.
I have been to a couple of bi gangbangs with a woman in Gloucester where the guys fucked her and after she'd gone sucked and fucked each other. It was amazing.
I just don't understand the mentality of men who say they're going to a gangbang then don't show up. What a waste of time. I have always enjoyed the megahorny at atmosphere at a well organised gangbang. |
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I have been lucky enough to have been invited to lots of GB's and it's only about 40% that turn up on a side not I have met the same 3 guys at about 5 GB's in the same area. I think it's about the type of guy and you need to go by Veri's. |
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I do enjoy a good gangbang. If I say I can make it, then I will always turn up. I have never let anyone down regarding a meet.
The problem is that a lot of time wasters give us single guys a bad name. |
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By *rnaughty OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"The wife wants a gang bang but wants all cocks to be 8” plus ... she said she wants to be feeling it the next day "
I see lots of statuses from people saying must be over 9 inches etc which basically means they don't want to meet pmsl
Its hard enough to get just a small group of men together let alone a group of men all over 8 inches come on lets get real |
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"I can't seem to find two suitable men for an MFM, never mind a gangbang
*Puts hand up and waves like crazy*stansa on chair behind and waves even crazier "
Try doing a dance while waving like crazy. Always works. |
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I’ve been to a few gang bangs, the proper couples are always the best! I know when I’ve tried to organise some for a couple I just have to give up. Lots of guys say Yes then either have an excuse or go silent or even block me! Crazy!
Anyone looking for GB guys in the Essex area or want to try one out please get in touch! |
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By *rblue38Man
over a year ago
Maidstone |
I probably get alot of moans and abuse for this but it sounds like a breeding ground for Covid. There shouldn't be any sort of activities like this happening at the moment. You putting you and people around you at risk of getting the virus with cases rising its likely you will pick it up. |
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Ok self praise is usually no recommendation, but,
I have been organising and hosting GangBangs, in Manchester, for over 10 years.I
I am in contact with lots of guys.
Let me know how many guys you want.
I find 6 is about right.
All can and do, do what you want.
ALL,are very reliable and do turn up.
Please, get in touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tried organising one for dee's birthday last year. Was to happen on a Monday. Over the course of the weekend before one reliable guy she had met before dropped out due to travel for work. That was grand. Thought me and four other guys was enough anyway. Sunday night details were sent. Radio silence. Monday morning radio silence. Kinda annoying but we still had our fun anyway |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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In times when these things are permissible, I personally feel the easiest ways to organise it in a club, go along to the club of your choice on the night when single guys are welcomed, discuss who you would like to invite and ask them to join you in one of the private rooms.
Then you don't have to take care of any other details really. |
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I've been to a few gangbangs and always find them great fun. The problem is you don't always know what you are going to get. From everyone turning up to just one person. Quite a few organisers reckon on a 50 percent drop out which can make it difficult.
If you like gangbangs then turn up.
If you're curious then, also, turn up.
If you're fantasizing then fine, but don't ask for an invite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attended many gangbangs over the years (mainly in and around the West Midlands). I pride myself on always turning up if arranged. Luckily, the hosts I've met always seemed to have a good turn out.
Why anyone would pass up the chance of attending one is beyond me! I do understand nerves might play a part, but you should ask yourself if it's really for you before saying 'yes' and rudely leaving your options open. |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
N Peterborough. |
We tried to arrange a gb in North london, its easy to travel to from rest of London etc.
Had loads interested but when I followed up with details they mostly went quiet. One guy flatly denied ever being interested 
Managed to get 7 guys lined up and one by one they cancelled. We didn't bother in the end just had 2 guys round ours instead.
Still have the booking for the flat so might try again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arranged a gangbang for myself and a female play friend of ours. We invited 10 men, booked and paid for the hotel room and non of the men turned up. So we had a MFF get together instead.
It's still something I would like to experience.
Her x |
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By *ornsMan
over a year ago
west Midlands |
"We arranged a gangbang for myself and a female play friend of ours. We invited 10 men, booked and paid for the hotel room and non of the men turned up. So we had a MFF get together instead.
It's still something I would like to experience.
Her x"
Idiots all 10 of them! Whenever you are ready I'm here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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TBH it’s another reason why our play tends to be in clubs. The mix of social with eroticism, the facilities to chill, when it comes to other cpls then less perceived pressure to play if the spark isn’t quite there, as there are other possible playmates for all involved, and when it comes down to Gangbangs then normally plenty of guys available who are comfortable being part of a group and most of them know the etiquette and show the lady/cpl respect. |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
I would love to be involved in a gangbang that involves a MF couple, whether straight or bi. I have no idea how a misex-sex gangbang is, but I have been part of an all-male gangbang and it was purely a fuck-and-go situation, which really did not appeal to me. Is that how mixed-sex gangbangs are? -I'm asking genuinely. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
When I have been invited to a gang bang I ask for the time and location so that I can plan my journey.If I say I am attending I always turn up on time.It does seem that people that organise gang bangs get half the guys they want turning up which is why I think some couples prefer clubs or spas as the guys are already there and they can pick who they want to play with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so difficult to arrange a gangbang ?
Single guys are great at talking the talk but when it comes down to it they hardly ever walk the walk.
Mistake number 1 if you actually put gangbangs down as a like on your profile it's silly to block single men as more often than not it's us who actually host them ( think about it )
Come on men get your act together, there are lots of gorgeous ladies of all shapes and sizes who would like to experience more than one man at a time, it's up to us to oblige and to prove not all single men are all talk "
I'd love the chance of another gang bang. I always turn up if I'm invited but getting an invite is the hard part. |
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Been to a few GB’s and most had a great show of guys turning up, but once went to a party in Wrexham there was 5 couples and two single women, over 40 guys were invited and I was the only one that showed up! It was amazing lol |
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"Been trying to arrange one in my 2.5 years here. I could have probably obtained a PhD by now.
I get lots of offers from men wanting to organise ine for me.... but then they tell me that I’ll have to drop my expectations/as I’m apparently “too fussy”. This is an ultimate fantasy for me and if it is to become a reality, yes, I want it to be perfect and I’ll be as fussy as I like... quite happy to carry on with 1 to 1s until the right people/circumstances come along... "
Pm me with what you would want in detail id love to try and organise the perfect gangbang for you |
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I've been to loads, gangbangs, groups and so and so forth.
I've cancelled three times - All with plenty of notice. Only in situations where it couldn't be helped.
Once - at short notice - very recently after my father was hospitalised the day of the party.
I know I had a genuine reason and people I told were fine too.
But you still feel guilty letting people down I find.
But I'm genuine and theres plenty of opportunity to show I'm genuine. So I can't really let it bother me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't seem to find two suitable men for an MFM, never mind a gangbang "
I'm in the process of selling my left arm for the opportunity to be the first M |
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Of the folk who've no showed, does it tend to be first time folk you've invited or people you've met before?
For the guys who bail I can definitely understand the nerves for a first time. I was a bit jittery for the first group I'd ever taken part in and I think I'd been on the edge of go/ no go just before.
However in the end it was excellent fun and can't wait for another chance! |
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By *ustylouWoman
over a year ago
Aylesbury |
It was my fantasy for my 40th for a gang bang. I invited 15 guys who I either knew from clubs or were long time friends.
For various reasons only 6 were available. On the night only 3 turned up.
I went to Jaydees the next year.
Still only played with 3 but there was also cake. And lots of friends to socialise with after. |
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we have had lots of gangbangs its very hard to organise now a days, we have had some where 15-16 guys have turned up but sometimes only 2-3 will turn up, the perfect number for us is 10-15 we will be having one again soon |
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"I can't seem to find two suitable men for an MFM, never mind a gangbang
Same here"
your age range is quite strict...i understand that, but i wonder if older guys are more likely to turn up as they have been there done it, or is that just me and glenn
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly, Glitterbabe! I don't see the point inviting total strangers from the Web for GB!?
I've done it many times for friends of mine in a Club (usually Fridays as plenty of singleman to choose from). She tells me which guys she likes I invite them for chat, discussing the rules of play and...
Unforgettable memories for her!
Why GB in a Club?
* Single man who are regular in Clubs know how to play the game;
* Safe/controlled environment;
* Face to face contact is always better than exchanging pictures, chatting etc. |
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"Any plans for any in Leeds when it’s safe to have them? I would love help with organising one. 6-7 decent guys please......"
Go to clubs and parties at least the guys are already there there'll be some to choose from I'm sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the attraction?"
Many gorgeous men worshipping me and pleasuring me. Me being desired and wanted by multiple men and I equally want each of them to enjoy me as much as I enjoy them....
.... that's the attraction for me.
Her x |
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"What's the attraction?
Many gorgeous men worshipping me and pleasuring me. Me being desired and wanted by multiple men and I equally want each of them to enjoy me as much as I enjoy them....
.... that's the attraction for me.
Her x"
A great answer which I think describes your point of view very well. And, in case the questioner wanted to know what might be in it for the men...
For me there are a couple of things that I like.
I really love women who are sexually voracious, wanton, insatiable. This is a very good way to interact with women with those qualities - even if they are only this horny for that special occasion.
I *love* to watch women orgasm - especially if I'm making them do so but certainly still love it as another in the group. As part of this, I like to team up with others to focus on the woman in question and give her as much of a pleasure overload as we can.
Plus you meet some very nice people. And there's usually biscuits . |
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