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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Before i start yes i know each have different tastes as do we ,but im always dubious of younger guys who message ,i answer if they are bi as that is our thing and hubby likes younger ,but the times it seems ok till we exchange face pics then usually even when i ask for an honest answer rather than waste time we just get ghosted ,sadly we are not lucky enough to have the faces of a 25 year old at 56 and 66  i wish we did ,we have had younger and they have been nice guys but not for a long time ,now im tempted to change my age filter but its what we like but seems impossible now ,do others have this issue are we punching above our weight ....? |
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Retro and vintage are back in fashion you should certainly widen the filter look at us oldies. I suspect we appreciate all forms of gorgeousness and adventure with a more discerning eye. Age is but a number, attitude and effort count for so much more. |
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over a year ago
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Don't change anything. You might miss out on those younger guys who would be been keen.
There's no such thing as punching above your weight. Everyone finds different things attractive and whilst some younger guys may seem you older than they fancy or not for them for whatever reason, there will be others who are keen.
I know it can be frustrating but don't ever deny yourself the chance to have what you want based on the opinions of a few 
Good luck 
Lu  |
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Are you sure it isn’t a lot of young guys getting nervous at the last minute too?? Your pics look fab. I find young guys often want to meet when they message and then lose interest if they have to wait more than 30-60 minutes. This is why I often play with older guys as I find they’re more likely to take their time and want to enjoy playing. |
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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland |
"Don't change anything. You might miss out on those younger guys who would be been keen.
There's no such thing as punching above your weight. Everyone finds different things attractive and whilst some younger guys may seem you older than they fancy or not for them for whatever reason, there will be others who are keen.
I know it can be frustrating but don't ever deny yourself the chance to have what you want based on the opinions of a few
Good luck
Lu "
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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Are you sure it isn’t a lot of young guys getting nervous at the last minute too?? Your pics look fab. I find young guys often want to meet when they message and then lose interest if they have to wait more than 30-60 minutes. This is why I often play with older guys as I find they’re more likely to take their time and want to enjoy playing. "
Oh they are interested initially and chat to us both but i like to get face pics done as not to waste time and that usually ends chats ,without even saying sorry your not for me ,is manners old fashioned ?
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"Are you sure it isn’t a lot of young guys getting nervous at the last minute too?? Your pics look fab. I find young guys often want to meet when they message and then lose interest if they have to wait more than 30-60 minutes. This is why I often play with older guys as I find they’re more likely to take their time and want to enjoy playing. Oh they are interested initially and chat to us both but i like to get face pics done as not to waste time and that usually ends chats ,without even saying sorry your not for me ,is manners old fashioned ?"
us older chaps have been there and done it we know what life is about,whats important, and manners say much about who you are. Speaking personally i enjoy chatting and flirting and knowing where its leading. Maybe it just me but ireadwhat people write and of course i will send a face pic and expect the same of the fabber...however i have found quite a few fabbers want a face pic but then ...nothing!,,thats life i move on |
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"Before i start yes i know each have different tastes as do we ,but im always dubious of younger guys who message ,i answer if they are bi as that is our thing and hubby likes younger ,but the times it seems ok till we exchange face pics then usually even when i ask for an honest answer rather than waste time we just get ghosted ,sadly we are not lucky enough to have the faces of a 25 year old at 56 and 66 i wish we did ,we have had younger and they have been nice guys but not for a long time ,now im tempted to change my age filter but its what we like but seems impossible now ,do others have this issue are we punching above our weight ....?"
Nobody punched above their weight, we're all just people.
If someone isn't attracted to you they won't be regardless of your age. Maybe send a face picture straight away, then nobody's time is wasted.
I'm not sure what kind of honest answer you're after but if they're not responding it's telling you they're no longer interested.
None of us old uns look 25, younger people know that |
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