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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"What veri info,???  I'm not sure what she means ??
Possibly that you say you haven’t had a orgasm since 2017 but have a veri from 2019. "
she messaged and explained. I had a meet but definitely not an orgasam unfortunately (and thats no disrespect to couple at all) xx |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life  xx
I'm T4 since 2004. "
im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x |
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x"
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x
Cool. "
Pretty sure we've spoke about this before? X |
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x
Cool. Pretty sure we've spoke about this before? X"
Have we? I'm 43, my memory isn't what it used to be.  |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x
Cool. Pretty sure we've spoke about this before? X
Have we? I'm 43, my memory isn't what it used to be. "
same here but you stick out in my memory for some reason. I remember you saying something about not wanting to date another wheelie, not your thing I think x |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x
Cool. Pretty sure we've spoke about this before? X
Have we? I'm 43, my memory isn't what it used to be. same here but you stick out in my memory for some reason. I remember you saying something about not wanting to date another wheelie, not your thing I think x"
I could be wrong  |
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x
Cool. Pretty sure we've spoke about this before? X
Have we? I'm 43, my memory isn't what it used to be. same here but you stick out in my memory for some reason. I remember you saying something about not wanting to date another wheelie, not your thing I think x I could be wrong "
No, that's something I would say, so you're right. |
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. im getting on with things an trying to not let it effect my life too much. Think its just the closeness im missing x
Cool. Pretty sure we've spoke about this before? X
Have we? I'm 43, my memory isn't what it used to be. same here but you stick out in my memory for some reason. I remember you saying something about not wanting to date another wheelie, not your thing I think x I could be wrong
No, that's something I would say, so you're right. "
Lisa, you are gorgeous! x |
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"Hey, anybody willing to help a guy out? I haven't had an orgasam since my accident in 2017 I feel like I'm ready to explode haha!! Xx"
Your pic dated July 20 shows a cock with cum flowing out of it! |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey, anybody willing to help a guy out? I haven't had an orgasam since my accident in 2017 I feel like I'm ready to explode haha!! Xx
Your pic dated July 20 shows a cock with cum flowing out of it!"
Its a recycled one from a while ago but good try. |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair  Have we? Sorry I have a poor memory. Who's chair? Mine or yours haha! Xx"
We did chat, potentially about going to a club in Leeds for moral support. The nice chair comment was aimed at the lady who'd commented earlier. My chair is battered and bruised but lives to fight on |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair Have we? Sorry I have a poor memory. Who's chair? Mine or yours haha! Xx
We did chat, potentially about going to a club in Leeds for moral support. The nice chair comment was aimed at the lady who'd commented earlier. My chair is battered and bruised but lives to fight on "
Ah yes sorry I remember now. Covid got in the way unfortunately but hopefully get to quest soon. Mine too but robust us wheelies aren't we xx |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair Have we? Sorry I have a poor memory. Who's chair? Mine or yours haha! Xx
We did chat, potentially about going to a club in Leeds for moral support. The nice chair comment was aimed at the lady who'd commented earlier. My chair is battered and bruised but lives to fight on Ah yes sorry I remember now. Covid got in the way unfortunately but hopefully get to quest soon. Mine too but robust us wheelies aren't we xx"
Covid definitely got in the way, but had a few decent chair based adventures, so not all bad, though a couple may have contributed to the battered and bruised thing |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair Have we? Sorry I have a poor memory. Who's chair? Mine or yours haha! Xx
We did chat, potentially about going to a club in Leeds for moral support. The nice chair comment was aimed at the lady who'd commented earlier. My chair is battered and bruised but lives to fight on Ah yes sorry I remember now. Covid got in the way unfortunately but hopefully get to quest soon. Mine too but robust us wheelies aren't we xx
Covid definitely got in the way, but had a few decent chair based adventures, so not all bad, though a couple may have contributed to the battered and bruised thing "
Hey...if its battered an bruised after a good night then you can't really complain ha! Xx |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair Have we? Sorry I have a poor memory. Who's chair? Mine or yours haha! Xx
We did chat, potentially about going to a club in Leeds for moral support. The nice chair comment was aimed at the lady who'd commented earlier. My chair is battered and bruised but lives to fight on Ah yes sorry I remember now. Covid got in the way unfortunately but hopefully get to quest soon. Mine too but robust us wheelies aren't we xx
Covid definitely got in the way, but had a few decent chair based adventures, so not all bad, though a couple may have contributed to the battered and bruised thing Hey...if its battered an bruised after a good night then you can't really complain ha! Xx"
They were more outdoor adventures - got stuck in the mud, in gateways and fell out backwards but I retrieved my dignity from the ditch and S dragged me up |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair Have we? Sorry I have a poor memory. Who's chair? Mine or yours haha! Xx
We did chat, potentially about going to a club in Leeds for moral support. The nice chair comment was aimed at the lady who'd commented earlier. My chair is battered and bruised but lives to fight on Ah yes sorry I remember now. Covid got in the way unfortunately but hopefully get to quest soon. Mine too but robust us wheelies aren't we xx
Covid definitely got in the way, but had a few decent chair based adventures, so not all bad, though a couple may have contributed to the battered and bruised thing Hey...if its battered an bruised after a good night then you can't really complain ha! Xx
They were more outdoor adventures - got stuck in the mud, in gateways and fell out backwards but I retrieved my dignity from the ditch and S dragged me up "
I've done the same many many times (mostly d*unk) xx |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!  "
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet "
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair? |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair?"
Yes, that's my day chair. Kuschall K4...... Somewhere in our pics there's a basketball chair pic too. |
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You are all inspirational. I was very lucky to suffer no lasting consequences after a 35 ft fall if any of you find yourselves in Scotland and are looking for some company at the clubs here ping us a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair?
Yes, that's my day chair. Kuschall K4...... Somewhere in our pics there's a basketball chair pic too. "
I didn't know the model but knew it was Kuschall from the swirls. I have a Kuschall Champion sitting in a cupboard in case my ancient rgk chair breaks.
I saw the basketball chair! I've never even tried a sport chair as I was totally unsporty before my injury...stayed the same after it too. |
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"You are all inspirational. I was very lucky to suffer no lasting consequences after a 35 ft fall if any of you find yourselves in Scotland and are looking for some company at the clubs here ping us a message "
Getting on with one's life after a life-changing injury isn't inspirational at all. We have no choice in the matter. |
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"You are all inspirational. I was very lucky to suffer no lasting consequences after a 35 ft fall if any of you find yourselves in Scotland and are looking for some company at the clubs here ping us a message
Getting on with one's life after a life-changing injury isn't inspirational at all. We have no choice in the matter. "
I didn't mean to offend |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair?
Yes, that's my day chair. Kuschall K4...... Somewhere in our pics there's a basketball chair pic too.
I didn't know the model but knew it was Kuschall from the swirls. I have a Kuschall Champion sitting in a cupboard in case my ancient rgk chair breaks.
I saw the basketball chair! I've never even tried a sport chair as I was totally unsporty before my injury...stayed the same after it too. "
im the same, I was never one for team sports before injury so im damed if im doing it after. I love being out in the open with me an the dogs, spending the whole day together. Just got myself a Mountain Trike an its amazing....hard work but amazing xx |
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"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair?
Yes, that's my day chair. Kuschall K4...... Somewhere in our pics there's a basketball chair pic too.
I didn't know the model but knew it was Kuschall from the swirls. I have a Kuschall Champion sitting in a cupboard in case my ancient rgk chair breaks.
I saw the basketball chair! I've never even tried a sport chair as I was totally unsporty before my injury...stayed the same after it too. im the same, I was never one for team sports before injury so im damed if im doing it after. I love being out in the open with me an the dogs, spending the whole day together. Just got myself a Mountain Trike an its amazing....hard work but amazing xx"
I was sporty before my injury, so it was brilliant to learn about wheelchair sports actually. I play wheelchair basketball and do seated stuff at the gym. I joined a road running club and I push 5 or 10k while they run. I started off road adventures during lock down, just pushing places in the countryside where day chairs aren't supposed to go, hence getting stuck in the mud etc. I should get a FrontWheel really, but find brute force often works
I'm also keen to try wheelchair racing and tennis and plan on pushing a half marathon as soon as I'm recovered from my recent surgery and back in training......... I'm still a fatty though |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair?
Yes, that's my day chair. Kuschall K4...... Somewhere in our pics there's a basketball chair pic too.
I didn't know the model but knew it was Kuschall from the swirls. I have a Kuschall Champion sitting in a cupboard in case my ancient rgk chair breaks.
I saw the basketball chair! I've never even tried a sport chair as I was totally unsporty before my injury...stayed the same after it too. im the same, I was never one for team sports before injury so im damed if im doing it after. I love being out in the open with me an the dogs, spending the whole day together. Just got myself a Mountain Trike an its amazing....hard work but amazing xx
I was sporty before my injury, so it was brilliant to learn about wheelchair sports actually. I play wheelchair basketball and do seated stuff at the gym. I joined a road running club and I push 5 or 10k while they run. I started off road adventures during lock down, just pushing places in the countryside where day chairs aren't supposed to go, hence getting stuck in the mud etc. I should get a FrontWheel really, but find brute force often works
I'm also keen to try wheelchair racing and tennis and plan on pushing a half marathon as soon as I'm recovered from my recent surgery and back in training......... I'm still a fatty though "
we all have the para podge so need to stay active whatever your past time i think. I used to mountain bike for the Army so thats my thing really but im more than happy with long walks in the countryside xx |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
"We've spoken before and hope you find what you're looking for.
Lisa, nice chair
I think your chair is nicer!
Which one?! The sport one was only borrowed, I've not taken a Fab pic in my own sport chair yet
The burgundy one. I thought it was an everyday chair?
Yes, that's my day chair. Kuschall K4...... Somewhere in our pics there's a basketball chair pic too.
I didn't know the model but knew it was Kuschall from the swirls. I have a Kuschall Champion sitting in a cupboard in case my ancient rgk chair breaks.
I saw the basketball chair! I've never even tried a sport chair as I was totally unsporty before my injury...stayed the same after it too. im the same, I was never one for team sports before injury so im damed if im doing it after. I love being out in the open with me an the dogs, spending the whole day together. Just got myself a Mountain Trike an its amazing....hard work but amazing xx
I was sporty before my injury, so it was brilliant to learn about wheelchair sports actually. I play wheelchair basketball and do seated stuff at the gym. I joined a road running club and I push 5 or 10k while they run. I started off road adventures during lock down, just pushing places in the countryside where day chairs aren't supposed to go, hence getting stuck in the mud etc. I should get a FrontWheel really, but find brute force often works
I'm also keen to try wheelchair racing and tennis and plan on pushing a half marathon as soon as I'm recovered from my recent surgery and back in training......... I'm still a fatty though we all have the para podge so need to stay active whatever your past time i think. I used to mountain bike for the Army so thats my thing really but im more than happy with long walks in the countryside xx"
"walks" hahaha!! You know what I mean x |
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Don't worry, we get the gist about
"walks" I'm in a running club, for fuck sake 
Yeah, losing/keeping off the tum is a bastard. I have mega lean and strong shoulders and upper body, one twiglet leg and one super strong and a big fat tum. My bum ain't bad, considering how much I sit on it |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
over a year ago
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"Don't worry, we get the gist about
"walks" I'm in a running club, for fuck sake
Yeah, losing/keeping off the tum is a bastard. I have mega lean and strong shoulders and upper body, one twiglet leg and one super strong and a big fat tum. My bum ain't bad, considering how much I sit on it "
My legs are OK an pretty muscular thanks to my constant spasms. But my belly is slowly taking over....i hardly eat!!! |
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"Don't worry, we get the gist about
"walks" I'm in a running club, for fuck sake
Yeah, losing/keeping off the tum is a bastard. I have mega lean and strong shoulders and upper body, one twiglet leg and one super strong and a big fat tum. My bum ain't bad, considering how much I sit on it My legs are OK an pretty muscular thanks to my constant spasms. But my belly is slowly taking over....i hardly eat!!!"
I have one good leg and one not. My calf muscle seems to be fading away. Maybe the spasms are why my quads don't look so wasted? I don't really get calf spasms anymore. I get quads and big toe/arch of foot and my hip feels like it dislocates often (it doesn't actually dislocate). Weird shit, nerves....... |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
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"Don't worry, we get the gist about
"walks" I'm in a running club, for fuck sake
Yeah, losing/keeping off the tum is a bastard. I have mega lean and strong shoulders and upper body, one twiglet leg and one super strong and a big fat tum. My bum ain't bad, considering how much I sit on it My legs are OK an pretty muscular thanks to my constant spasms. But my belly is slowly taking over....i hardly eat!!!
I have one good leg and one not. My calf muscle seems to be fading away. Maybe the spasms are why my quads don't look so wasted? I don't really get calf spasms anymore. I get quads and big toe/arch of foot and my hip feels like it dislocates often (it doesn't actually dislocate). Weird shit, nerves....... "
Very very wierd stuff nerves. They say you don't feel anything if your complete SCI but its just not true...under my injury is the worst pain I've ever had, and its constantly there. X |
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I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves  |
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves "
It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x |
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x"
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down "
It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x |
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x"
My leg is now burning like the firey pits of hell. Probably because I talked about it, the bastard. It was sore before bed, but it's really sore now. I want to chop it off at times, but my amputee friend has reined in that desire |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x
My leg is now burning like the firey pits of hell. Probably because I talked about it, the bastard. It was sore before bed, but it's really sore now. I want to chop it off at times, but my amputee friend has reined in that desire "
sorry probably my bad. My pain on the NHS scale thing is about between 7 an 8 on a daily basis but 10 on a bad day. Not that I really wanna talk about it on here but bowels an bladder romp in as a very close second to pain x |
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x
My leg is now burning like the firey pits of hell. Probably because I talked about it, the bastard. It was sore before bed, but it's really sore now. I want to chop it off at times, but my amputee friend has reined in that desire sorry probably my bad. My pain on the NHS scale thing is about between 7 an 8 on a daily basis but 10 on a bad day. Not that I really wanna talk about it on here but bowels an bladder romp in as a very close second to pain x"
Indeed, I fully understand that. My pelvic nerve issue is just loss of sensation. My loo issues are of another cause and I've just had surgery to fix one bit of it. I hop it lasts. Life's a bitch, eh?! |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x
My leg is now burning like the firey pits of hell. Probably because I talked about it, the bastard. It was sore before bed, but it's really sore now. I want to chop it off at times, but my amputee friend has reined in that desire sorry probably my bad. My pain on the NHS scale thing is about between 7 an 8 on a daily basis but 10 on a bad day. Not that I really wanna talk about it on here but bowels an bladder romp in as a very close second to pain x
Indeed, I fully understand that. My pelvic nerve issue is just loss of sensation. My loo issues are of another cause and I've just had surgery to fix one bit of it. I hop it lasts. Life's a bitch, eh?! "
I actually hate moaning about it because most people wouldn't understand but I've had a life before all this an I know how easy it was an I would have felt exactly the same |
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x
My leg is now burning like the firey pits of hell. Probably because I talked about it, the bastard. It was sore before bed, but it's really sore now. I want to chop it off at times, but my amputee friend has reined in that desire sorry probably my bad. My pain on the NHS scale thing is about between 7 an 8 on a daily basis but 10 on a bad day. Not that I really wanna talk about it on here but bowels an bladder romp in as a very close second to pain x
Indeed, I fully understand that. My pelvic nerve issue is just loss of sensation. My loo issues are of another cause and I've just had surgery to fix one bit of it. I hop it lasts. Life's a bitch, eh?! I actually hate moaning about it because most people wouldn't understand but I've had a life before all this an I know how easy it was an I would have felt exactly the same "
Hey, have a moan. Folks moan about far less. Get it off your chest - yes, lots of people don't understand and they never will if they don't know. Yesterday, on a post about working from home, a contributor told me that I could work standing up and that if I just practiced daily, I'd get stronger and would be able to stand for longer. Oh, and I'd lose weight. I had to put the phone down, otherwise I'd be banned right now. |
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By *ill Doe OP Man
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"I'm fortunate in that my injury isn't SCI, it's peripheral nerves only. My mate who is a below the knee amputee tells me a lot about what he can still feel despite his leg being in an incinerator somewhere. Crazy nerves It's true, its pretty mental what still goes on down there when nothing works....apparently. its worse when they tell you that you can't feel anything.....unless its pain haha x
Another massive question that needs answering - why is the pain always worse at night or exactly at times when you don't want it?! It's like there's a little electric shocker/burny thing sat waiting for me to let my guard down It's a true conspiracy put there just to piss us off. Everyone presumes the walking thing is the worst part about it.....its nowhere near as bad as all the other stuff that comes along with it x
My leg is now burning like the firey pits of hell. Probably because I talked about it, the bastard. It was sore before bed, but it's really sore now. I want to chop it off at times, but my amputee friend has reined in that desire sorry probably my bad. My pain on the NHS scale thing is about between 7 an 8 on a daily basis but 10 on a bad day. Not that I really wanna talk about it on here but bowels an bladder romp in as a very close second to pain x
Indeed, I fully understand that. My pelvic nerve issue is just loss of sensation. My loo issues are of another cause and I've just had surgery to fix one bit of it. I hop it lasts. Life's a bitch, eh?! I actually hate moaning about it because most people wouldn't understand but I've had a life before all this an I know how easy it was an I would have felt exactly the same
Hey, have a moan. Folks moan about far less. Get it off your chest - yes, lots of people don't understand and they never will if they don't know. Yesterday, on a post about working from home, a contributor told me that I could work standing up and that if I just practiced daily, I'd get stronger and would be able to stand for longer. Oh, and I'd lose weight. I had to put the phone down, otherwise I'd be banned right now. "
I've been told numerous times that if I put the effort in I may be able to walk again...I'm still waiting Haha. I think that if people see you in a wheelchair they automatically assume we are all in the same situation, of course this couldn't be further from the truth. Everyone has their own story to tell, as we well know x |
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"That's spinal cord injury for you. (I've got one myself). I'm T10 so not as bad as some but yeah...totally ruins your sex life xx
I'm T4 since 2004. "
T4 or what ever your still beautiful xx |
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