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Snogging is essential.
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them"
this for me. Majority of my meets I havent kissed people.
121 is a little different but it certainly hasnt been an issue.
I cant and wont kiss everyone x |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them"
you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are"
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them"
Likewise. I prefer not to kiss anyone other than my partner. If it's a deal breaker so be it. |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences "
Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences
Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. "
I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical".  they should be so lucky to find out |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences
Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss.
I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out "
You are so right. We've had some mindblowing meets and not one kiss (on the mouth) was exchanged between anyone other than me and my other half - and there was nothing cold or clinical about it  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging."
I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like.
I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging.
I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like.
I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance."
No, I meant that I didn't understand the process.  |
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging.
I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like.
I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance.
No, I meant that I didn't understand the process. "
In what way? |
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging.
I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like.
I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance.
No, I meant that I didn't understand the process. "
It's not a process, once you get that you get how people can have sex without kissing |
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Absolutely. I’ve passed up a meet before as the couple were insistent that there was to be no kissing. (Which I totally understand as for some it’s a line not to be crossed.) But for me it’s a massive part of the fun. X |
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"I thought it would matter not snogging. But I had a steamy fuck without kissing because he had a cold sore and didn't want to spread it
That was quick thinking! "
tbf we wanted to fuck eachother for ages, so getting down to it with no traditional foreplay like kissing and touching didn't matter as the sexual chemistry was really present  |
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Most of the MMF meets I’ve had have involved lots of lovely snogging (even, very occasionally, MM kissing). However, when a couple make clear they’d rather not (“we like to keep that for ourselves”) I’ve not found the meets less exciting or sexy. I’ve had very passionate non-snogging meets. |
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A good snogging is absolutely amazing but I’m very picky about what counts as “good”.
Too many guys I’ve been with just face smash 
Good snogging is a real talent but when it’s done right it can be the best thing about a meet  |
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To us it's a must. It helps get the pulse racing and juices flowing. Totally understand those who don't and think it's too intimate but we feel sucking on others genitals is more intimate but happily enjoy that  |
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"Is a good snog essential to anyone else?
I love a good snog, male female or trans."
Not essential but I do love a good snog with a kissing compatible companion. (Why do my lips fit so perfectly with some people and not with others?).
I think I would rather have a really sexy kissing session with some passionate groping than almost anything. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Snogging is ace, sensual, and essential."
To some people anal sex is essential, but certainly not to everyone, so perhaps you should say "essential to me".
Also the sex I have is always sensual, but the sex itself is enough. I don't need intimacy to enjoy it, neither have any of the men, or groups of men, I've played with. Intimacy is for me and my partner - I can have great sex without it, just as I can have great sex with a vibrator, and I don't need to kiss that either! |
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Sometimes it depends on the meet.
Usually I would say it’s totally a must, part of the foreplay and having that connection.
But for some meets where you want it to be less romantic shall we say, that can be hot too.. |
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"Wow
How cold and awful would sex without kissing be ..
Totally not natural.
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That is totally your opinion but I can assure you that, for me (and those we have met) sex can absolutely be both hot and amazing without them kissing me on the mouth. I don't want or need that intimacy from a third person joining us. I get all the intimacy I need from my partner. No complaints as yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a kissing, it’s part of the fore play for me. Having said that as a single guy I am obviously willing to compromise to gets meets!
Interestingly I fine kissing is much more likely on private meets than when playing in a club. I wonder why that is? |
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"Kissing is an essential part of our play
Same. I’d rather not meet somebody than meet without kissing. "
You clearly wouldn't be compatible with someone who didn't want to kiss. The question of meeting wouldn't even arise. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Wow
How cold and awful would sex without kissing be ..
Totally not natural.
That is totally your opinion but I can assure you that, for me (and those we have met) sex can absolutely be both hot and amazing without them kissing me on the mouth. I don't want or need that intimacy from a third person joining us. I get all the intimacy I need from my partner. No complaints as yet "
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
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"A good snogging is absolutely amazing but I’m very picky about what counts as “good”.
Too many guys I’ve been with just face smash
Good snogging is a real talent but when it’s done right it can be the best thing about a meet "
So true.
Nice and slow and easy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely essential - if people aren't into kissing, then nothing else is going to work. You might as well watch some porn or have a cup of tea without it. |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences
Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss.
I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out
You are so right. We've had some mindblowing meets and not one kiss (on the mouth) was exchanged between anyone other than me and my other half - and there was nothing cold or clinical about it "
From the many, many threads I’ve seen on this topic over the years, rule of thumb seems to be that for most ‘genuine’ singles it’s essential - totally understandable as meets, for many of us, are as much about intimacy and affection as they are about damned fine sex.
Couples seem to be a split - also understandable. They already have someone to share that intimacy/affection with so may feel it inappropriate to share that intimacy with someone else.
As long as the person/people they’re meeting are aware of this from the outset, I see no issue with it.
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences
Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss.
I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out
You are so right. We've had some mindblowing meets and not one kiss (on the mouth) was exchanged between anyone other than me and my other half - and there was nothing cold or clinical about it
From the many, many threads I’ve seen on this topic over the years, rule of thumb seems to be that for most ‘genuine’ singles it’s essential - totally understandable as meets, for many of us, are as much about intimacy and affection as they are about damned fine sex.
Couples seem to be a split - also understandable. They already have someone to share that intimacy/affection with so may feel it inappropriate to share that intimacy with someone else.
As long as the person/people they’re meeting are aware of this from the outset, I see no issue with it.
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If only other people approached it from your point of _iew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love kissing, and it never fails to get me going. Kissing is a pleasure in its own right. I'd say it's near essential. While I would try a meet without snogging, it simply wouldn't be the same or as enjoyable as one with. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
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Some of you may have guest by now I love senual kiss/snog gentle tongue play.
Always works wonders downstairs.
So no kiss no meet for me.
But all are entitled to there own opinions of course.
Enjoy everyone xxxxx xxxxx
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I adore kissing. Rather essential.
Here is the sad bit.
I haven't been kissed by a sober person in 5 or 6 years. The d*unk lady, who kissed me in this period, is a friend and she was quite d*unk so I put her to bed.
It is immensely sad and I physically hurt when my wife doesn't kiss me more than a peck. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
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"I adore kissing. Rather essential.
Here is the sad bit.
I haven't been kissed by a sober person in 5 or 6 years. The d*unk lady, who kissed me in this period, is a friend and she was quite d*unk so I put her to bed.
It is immensely sad and I physically hurt when my wife doesn't kiss me more than a peck."
Your not alone re PECK let me tell you. |
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person. "
Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest |
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person.
Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest "
People make all sorts of assumptions about those of us who choose not to kiss. |
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person.
Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest
People make all sorts of assumptions about those of us who choose not to kiss. "
We prefer kissing but have had meets that dont and in the throws of meet etc didnt notice too much but we do ask for kissing now but respect if others dont its all about each others choices ,hubby and i share a guys cock etc ,but its not everyones thing each to their own i say especially on here // |
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person.
Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest
People make all sorts of assumptions about those of us who choose not to kiss. We prefer kissing but have had meets that dont and in the throws of meet etc didnt notice too much but we do ask for kissing now but respect if others dont its all about each others choices ,hubby and i share a guys cock etc ,but its not everyones thing each to their own i say especially on here // "
Agreed.
You rarely find people who don't kiss making wide ranging assumptions about people who do but it seems quite acceptable the other way round. I've never understood why. |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences "
was reading thay back just now and thought why did i put chair of all things haha, i respect peoples decision might not always agree with them but that just one of them things i suppose  humour is the turn on for me but ive not met a woman yet that turns down a good session of tonsil tennis lol |
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are
A chair?
It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences was reading thay back just now and thought why did i put chair of all things haha, i respect peoples decision might not always agree with them but that just one of them things i suppose humour is the turn on for me but ive not met a woman yet that turns down a good session of tonsil tennis lol"
I think you put chair to imply that people like me are cold and unfeeling like a piece of furniture. |
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