"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them. "
Apologise and say it's not working for me and leave, hastily... It happens and shouldn't be a problem, there's no obligation to have sex with anyone on a meet. I said it and been told it, it's life... |
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"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them. "
It has happened to us in the past, unfortunately it's usually because the people had aged alot from the face pics we had exchanged.
We asked one couple how long ago the pic they sent us was taken and they told us it was 10 years ago!!
Shame they didn't tell us that before we arranged to meet as it was a very awkward drink  |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
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"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them.
It has happened to us in the past, unfortunately it's usually because the people had aged alot from the face pics we had exchanged.
We asked one couple how long ago the pic they sent us was taken and they told us it was 10 years ago!!
Shame they didn't tell us that before we arranged to meet as it was a very awkward drink "
yep. Meet with one couple who were 15years & 4 stone away from their pictures |
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"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them.
It has happened to us in the past, unfortunately it's usually because the people had aged alot from the face pics we had exchanged.
We asked one couple how long ago the pic they sent us was taken and they told us it was 10 years ago!!
Shame they didn't tell us that before we arranged to meet as it was a very awkward drink yep. Meet with one couple who were 15years & 4 stone away from their pictures "
the 4 stone heavier seems to be a common theme.
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And that’s why it’s always best to have a social meet first. We’ve had a good laugh over drinks but not fancied the other couple but at least we had a nice evening out with no obligations.
I feel like I took one for the team a little bit on our first meet so lessons have been learnt since then!
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them. "
We had one it was feeling obliged to stay but cringed and was awkward no play but lots of cringe. Next time we meet someone who doesn't resemble their profile or pics we will say a polite sorry but no thanks as liars don't appeal or have an attraction. We were very disappointed and wasted time and effort. |
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Do social only meets first. On the very rare occasion that I have planned to do more than social then I would have to be pretty sure already that I think it will progress and I would have plans in place just incase ie mutual location, my own hotel room etc |
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