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Are MFF threesomes a thing of the past?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do couples still search for single women? 
Do single women still search for couples? 
Feel free to use this as a matchmaking thread (For future arrangements, meeting responsible social distance guidelines etc) 
Pm me i like to hear about any connections made  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed.
It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off.
Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face.
Think a number of threads support that.
Love to be proven wrong though.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed.
It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off.
Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face.
Think a number of threads support that.
Love to be proven wrong though.
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I agree entirely!!! I found it easier to make connections in clubs. In the absence of the club option how else can the interest be drummed up?  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed.
It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off.
Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face.
Think a number of threads support that.
Love to be proven wrong though.
I agree entirely!!! I found it easier to make connections in clubs. In the absence of the club option how else can the interest be drummed up? "
Possibly an opportunity, don’t know.
I suspect, and this is me, too many single ladies feel the internet profiles have some odd motives and not very congruent.
I will go back to face to face, it removes incongruity.
We are lucky, we have stunning friends, okay, it’s not luck. |
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"All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed.
It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off.
Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face.
Think a number of threads support that.
Love to be proven wrong though.
I agree entirely!!! I found it easier to make connections in clubs. In the absence of the club option how else can the interest be drummed up? "
I've REALLY struggled to make connections in the clubs, but then it's REALLY difficult to be a solo guy in the club scene. I'm just in the throes of organising another fmf meet with two of my regular friends, and I have another fmf waiting in the wings too. NONE of my circle of friends I have met through the clubs, most through their Fab profiles, and two from another site.
If a mate asked for a recommendation, ie using Fab or the club scene, I would always advise him to stick with Fab as a solo guy, and visit clubs with a female friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have always been the ones making the first contact with a single lady.
I would guess we would consider ourselves lucky on here when you read the fortunes of other couples.
We did visit a club once, but as we are only interested in meeting single ladies, then the odds were against us. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
To me, and this is just me, the forums put out “come to us”, never “we will meet you on your own turf”.
Is it’s the difference that makes the difference in doers and perhaps-ers, I don’t know. |
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"Get messages about mff from couples all the time so seems like it's definitely somwthing that's still a thing..
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Not surprised you’re stunning, any couple would be over the moon to have you join them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the whole time we've been doing this we've only had one true FFM and it was lovely and went so well and we'd love to have had another but never been able to repeat though.
Feel free to get in touch.... |
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We would like one but don't expect to find anyone on here so we don't message single ladies.
We are thinking that if this would happen it would likely be in a club so we will just have to be very patient for now
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bloomin well hope they’re not, I’ve had a few mff’s and I absolutely love them. Hopefully there’s still some couples out there looking after this is all over |
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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago
Medway |
We also hope not but don’t tend to look much for a single female these days as the few around get far too much attention and we don’t like being too pushy.
Hopefully we will get to have a mff one day though. |
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Certainly not a thing of the past,we have been lucky enough to experience it outside of the swinging scene, ironically though, it's how we ended up on here and starting to visit chams! However we're finding it nigh on impossible on here ,as it seems that 99% of couple's want full swap,where as we can think of so many possibilities without swapping male partners...* Shrug. On a side note, feel free to inform us on how to improve our profile |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
MFF is just logistically harder to sort out than MMF (or technically MFM).
Many (not all) swinging couples consist of straight guy and bi girl.
When arranging MMF only the girl needs to be attracted to the 2nd guy (although certainly in our case husband still wants guy to be attractive).
With MFF the girl and guy need to fancy the 2nd girl and she needs to fancy both in the couple. Statistically more difficult!
Like others have said vast majority of our MFF fun has been at parties or clubs then follow on meets rather than through websites...
Plus the unicorns are flooded with messages and likely overwhelmed anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't say a thing of the past but certainly have always been very difficult to arrange. But again I think it's just a simple case of supply/demand and the options available to the ladies on the sites. Given fabs has less women to couples and men plus when you add in how many of those women are bisexual. Then you add in attractiveness, ages, location, accommodation and so forth.
It's easy to see why it's such a headache to organise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much a thing. Had the pleasure of 2 of my fab friends contact each other to arrange a birthday treat. Buggers got on so well that mff is now a regular thing unless I lose them to ff |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female. |
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"Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female. "
We have had a few of our single friends say that's how it can meke them feel, we always go with the flow and let the Single girl lead the pace and play,and had some very memorable nights |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples still search for single women?
Do single women still search for couples?
Feel free to use this as a matchmaking thread (For future arrangements, meeting responsible social distance guidelines etc)
Pm me i like to hear about any connections made "
Yes... I have a couples profile with my boyfriend and we meet single females. We meet a lovely single female fwb who we enjoy together and individually.
Her x |
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Ours all seem to have been from meeting at a club rather than arranging on here, there just seems to be so many fake profiles for single females that it makes it difficult to believe when you are approached by a single female profile lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came back to fab just as lockdown started so have not been able to sort any ffm meets out, but would love to chat and get to know a nice lady in the meantime.
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We don't go out looking for anything specific other than meeting people we get on with and seeing what develops from there. We want want anybody we got involved with to know that we are interested in them for more than what they can do for us sexually. Their pleasure is as important to us as our own.
With this approach, the possibility of us of having MMF and MFMF experiences is very real right now just by being friendly and not meeting people with a specific sexual goal in mind.
We've never been to a swingers club night, only naturist venues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only had one successful fab ffm in 2 years. I get messages from couples, understandably they are going to letting some woman into their bedroom so it's a big deal, but I always feel like as a single woman I'm getting vetted for weeks.
It's much more laid back way of meeting couples in a club and obviously not spending weeks chatting just for messages to stop, you just have fun and swap details afterwards clubs are the way forward for ffms in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have only had one successful fab ffm in 2 years. I get messages from couples, understandably they are going to letting some woman into their bedroom so it's a big deal, but I always feel like as a single woman I'm getting vetted for weeks.
It's much more laid back way of meeting couples in a club and obviously not spending weeks chatting just for messages to stop, you just have fun and swap details afterwards clubs are the way forward for ffms in my opinion. "
That’s crazy. We definitely wouldn’t hang around if we got chatting. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're definitely not a thing of the past for me, I love being the unicorn, or cuckcake for a couple. FFM is something I've done quite a few times and would love to do again, once the pandemic is over.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are still open to them but after wasting some time communicating with fake profiles we’ve stopped actively pursuing them.
Also think a lot of couples (like ourselves) initially enter the scene in search of FFM but in reality a 4 way couples meet is actually, in our opinion, a more enjoyable and balanced way to spend the night. We learnt this along the way |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Mff are not hard to find, there are stunning ladies in clubs who love to join in.
Just go and meet them, don’t ask them to come to you.
If it clicks, you would be surprised how quickly friendships develops. |
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It's something we would love to find. Rhi has really enjoyed her mmf fun but now wants to share me and watch me have fun. She says she feels guilty but I'm totally happy with how we are. We go with the flow and what happens happens. I get my pleasure from watching her have fun and let herself let go . I'm not selfish lol |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"It's something we would love to find. Rhi has really enjoyed her mmf fun but now wants to share me and watch me have fun. She says she feels guilty but I'm totally happy with how we are. We go with the flow and what happens happens. I get my pleasure from watching her have fun and let herself let go . I'm not selfish lol"
Like the word “fun“, it’s not mentioned a lot in this type of forum |
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"It's something we would love to find. Rhi has really enjoyed her mmf fun but now wants to share me and watch me have fun. She says she feels guilty but I'm totally happy with how we are. We go with the flow and what happens happens. I get my pleasure from watching her have fun and let herself let go . I'm not selfish lol
Like the word “fun“, it’s not mentioned a lot in this type of forum "
If there isn't fun what's the point? We a dead a long long time. Have fun, make people laugh and make them feel good. Spread happiness where you can and go out laughing. That's sounds like a good life to us. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
We do enjoy them, but as we are more of an acquired taste find it challenging.
But you miss 100% of the shots you don’t make, and so we continue to pursue single women in the hope we will find some like-minded individuals who are looking for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it is hard to find said ladies for such awesome ideas. In fact hard to find single ladies for single fem fun. We definitely would be interested in playing with a single fem and oit doing each other for who can make her tap out first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs DIY and I would love to meet up with just another lady (it's what she'd prefer, as she's not really 'into' other guys so much). Unfortunately just as we only started getting into this in January, so haven't progressed too far for obvious reasons! |
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80% of how we play is mff or ff. meeting people on here can be a bit tougher but we’ve met some wonderful friends through here, clubs make it a lot easier and then just friends we have or make in bars and normal clubs etc.
Don’t think there’s any real secret, we just like to make friends first and foremost, and then if the attractions there and everyone’s comfortable that’s when you have the best fun. |
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"Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female. "
I do get some messages from couples but it tends to be the female half wanting to "put on a show" for the male half (Oh it's his birthday, let's put on a show for him. He's had a promotion in work, let's put on a show for him. It's his fantasy, let's put on a show for him). I'm not a performing seal so I tend to back away sharpish.
I think it would be tougher to arrange on here than in a club where things could build more naturally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female.
I do get some messages from couples but it tends to be the female half wanting to "put on a show" for the male half (Oh it's his birthday, let's put on a show for him. He's had a promotion in work, let's put on a show for him. It's his fantasy, let's put on a show for him). I'm not a performing seal so I tend to back away sharpish.
I think it would be tougher to arrange on here than in a club where things could build more naturally."
I agree with your comments, very few couples that message consider the female at all.
Purely the couple wanting the extra for a fun show.
That said I have met 3 very lovely couples, all I consider to be good friends.
It's all about the approach taken |
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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
"Do couples still search for single women?
Do single women still search for couples?
Feel free to use this as a matchmaking thread (For future arrangements, meeting responsible social distance guidelines etc)
Pm me i like to hear about any connections made "
I fucking hope not |
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We are definitely always interested in fmf plays! We have met all of ours via fab (forums included) and as soon as it’s safe we hope to pick it back up again it’s what we originally joined for and what we enjoy the most!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mff, Mfff, Mfffffff, mfffffffff and any number of M+F combinations all appeal to us immensely haha!
Single ladies are just so inundated that it's hard to make a connection and an arrangement.
But hey - all the single ladies, all the single ladies, a the single ladies put your hands up haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely still a thing but not restricted to couples seeking single women. Not restricted to here either actually. I've had a couple of MFF threesomes lately that came as a result of online dating Apps. |
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I dip in and out of fab depending when I'm single, or more recently was on with a guy I was in a relationship with. Didn't get to do Mmf with him as lockdown hit.
We've split up since, but going back to a single on here, Mmf or ff is what I look for.
I've had some good Mmf and some not so good. The best couple I had several Mmf with I'm still friends with in vanilla way too now.
I always do social first, have to feel comfortable with them out of a play setting first. Just what makes me feel comfortable.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dip in and out of fab depending when I'm single, or more recently was on with a guy I was in a relationship with. Didn't get to do Mmf with him as lockdown hit.
We've split up since, but going back to a single on here, Mmf or ff is what I look for.
I've had some good Mmf and some not so good. The best couple I had several Mmf with I'm still friends with in vanilla way too now.
I always do social first, have to feel comfortable with them out of a play setting first. Just what makes me feel comfortable.
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We wanna try Esteban in Chorley your welcome to join us for a social
Drinks on us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet girls to play as it's what we both enjoy as Nawty is very very much bi.
Harder to find the right person to join us, but that makes it more fun when we do get the chance to.
For us it's also the social aspect and having fun both in and out of the bedroom with the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something we really enjoy prob more so me as I enjoy ff play aswell !!! But if I say we’ve not had enough but hopefully this will change in the next few months
Mrs Spice xx  |
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I've been very lucky and had a few mff plays over the years when I was married but they happened when I wasn't looking for them, mainly it would happen when we were at parties without my wife joining in strangely enough as she was busy with other men.
There was an occasion when we went to Cham's, after getting changed i popped to the toilet and when i came out my ex wife had pulled a single female in the cinema opposite so naturally I joined in.
I have a feeling as a single man things will be very different |
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We've loved the few mff threesomes that we've shared but often simpler with one half of a couple we've got to know and reciprocated as well with. The single ladies seem mostly just so overwhelmed with invites and pestering that trying to strike up the conversation works better face to face in clubs or at socials. |
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Definitely more fun at clubs 
Scouse doesnt like clubs but happy to chat and meet for socials first x
Definitely on my fuckit list, though 
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