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By *oung_wild OP Couple over a year ago

Paisley

Hi guys. Me and my wife going to meet a couple for a first time this week. We are very excited about this but also concerned a bit. Do you guys think exchanging the partners on first meet would be a good idea??

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes if everyone is happy.

Gotta bite the bullet at some point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's why your here isn't it I'm assuming you guys have spoken about all your ground rules and such... We went into our first meet saying we would soft swap and see how we felt but wouldn't be upset with each other if things progressed more.........it turned into a full swap as harley ordered the guy to put on a condom as she was that turned on we've not looked back really its all about honesty and trust

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"That's why your here isn't it I'm assuming you guys have spoken about all your ground rules and such... We went into our first meet saying we would soft swap and see how we felt but wouldn't be upset with each other if things progressed more.........it turned into a full swap as harley ordered the guy to put on a condom as she was that turned on we've not looked back really its all about honesty and trust "

Beautifully put

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By *oung_wild OP Couple over a year ago

Paisley

Yeah we set some rules... but then we meet them on social meet and we get so excited.. that we said we will go with the flow lol. It meant to be same room fun at the beggining lol... any tips how to not been jealous?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t suppose you know how you feel until you’re in that situation. I just like to reason it ‘what’s the point in jealousy’. Your OH is going home WITH YOU and you are there as a team. You should be cheering them on x

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By *atinocoupleCouple over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Our first meet with a couple was soft swing, as was our first party. Eased us into things, exploring boundaries. However we met a couple at the party who we met some weeks later and that started soft but during the evening evolved into our first full swap. We loved it and never looked back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've learned to deal with jealousy it honestly never goes away but you've got to weigh up what you want out of it we love to experiment sexually and at the end of the day we know full well we're going home with each other at the end of the day...i did feel jealous watching harley with others guys at first but also massively turned me on too as I said you need to discuss your ground rules and how far your both willing to go without upsetting each other

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

Agree. We're not really a full swap couple at the moment. We came in with certain rules and ideas of what we would and wouldn't do. But we found that we just go with moment. We've done things we weren't expecting to do with some people and kept very ridged to things with others. A lot depends on the rapport, atmosphere and mood at the time. Boundaries and a frame work are good to establish first but as long as your both well attuned to each other and have good communication everything should just flow naturally and you'll have a great time. Also just remember evertime is different. Don't expect things to be or feel the same every time. But the adventure is a big part of the fun.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We have a social first and then meet again if we all are happy

Only do what you are comfortable doing and don't be rushed or pushed into going out of your agreed boundaries

Hope all goes well

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By *evoncream2017Couple over a year ago

exeter

Do whatever you are both comfortable with. There’s always a second time after you’ve discussed the first

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