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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so who has a separate phone just for swinging and arranging meets ...
i do now i given in as i swore for years not to use a phone for swinging but with so many messers now i think its time to talk rather than just message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always have it is a good way of rooting out the messers as if they won't give out a mobile number they are highly likley not to turn up for a meet I have found. |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
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Im picturing in my head something like the Batphone, a bright red phone that flashes as it rings when a call from a fellow swinger comes in. As it rings one person gasps and say "the Swinger Phone!!!!!"...
...aaaaannyway, as you were |
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A cheap non-smart phone is the simplest way to go, all you need is phone/text capability.
With a smartphone there's all the syncing between apps and if you're not careful lots of information is being shared between accounts and devices. And if the number is linked to social media, the people you call can trace you that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a swingers SIM card for years same network as my personal phone just switch sims out if number gose to a fake or ends up posted all over the place it’s easy to snap sim and get a new one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found if you sending messages then ask for a number and they go quiet alarm bells ring "
Yip alarm bells ring on my end as in they expect me to give them my address but no number first isn’t happening anyone who genuine shouldn’t have a problem give up number x |
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"I have a little old phone
I call it my fab phone
Only switch it on when out as daughter doesn't know about it.
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Ditto - I've got a little old Nokia as my 'play phone'...
....only switch it on when my wife's out... |
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"A cheap non-smart phone is the simplest way to go, all you need is phone/text capability.
With a smartphone there's all the syncing between apps and if you're not careful lots of information is being shared between accounts and devices. And if the number is linked to social media, the people you call can trace you that way. "
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"I think its the best way if you want to keep your privacy.
At least if you get some hassle you can always get a new sim card and snap the old one up."
. I do this often stops lot of people pestering you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a little old phone
I call it my fab phone
Only switch it on when out as daughter doesn't know about it.
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Exactly this, as someone said above old style Nokia which keeps charge for weeks and a pay as you go number that you can keep changing if you get a clingy nutter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dual sim phones are the way to go .
This, for a few years now. "
i could have done this but being the boss in an important job i could not work knowing my phone is going off whiles at work hence separate phone that i can switch on and off lol its for fab time so its only switched on for fab time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, no need. I have telegram if I want to continue chatting off site. I don't give my number out to anyone. Doesn't make me a time waster just cautious. |
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And a 'top tip' for those like me who have a pre-paid 'play phone', which in the current climate hasn't been needed for some five months - regardless of how much credit you may have on it, if you don't use it for six months, many providers will disable the SIM...
....so even if it's just sending a one-word text to your 'normal' phone, make sure you use it within the next couple of weeks, or you might just find when you need it to set up that long-awaited first post-Covid meet, you've been de-activated!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, no need. I have telegram if I want to continue chatting off site. I don't give my number out to anyone. Doesn't make me a time waster just cautious. "
Not at all but would definitely make it hard for someone to wine and dine you and see whare the night gose xx |
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"Nope, no need. I have telegram if I want to continue chatting off site. I don't give my number out to anyone. Doesn't make me a time waster just cautious. "
I second that! I either used kik or telegram to arrange meets when needed besides fab. Never had any issues  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve tried using a phone dedicated to swinging. Just turned out to be too much of a hassle. Having three phones in my pocket made wall lop-sided haha.
First phone = Personal
Second phone =Work/Client/People I Hate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, no need. I have telegram if I want to continue chatting off site. I don't give my number out to anyone. Doesn't make me a time waster just cautious.
I second that! I either used kik or telegram to arrange meets when needed besides fab. Never had any issues "
Kik not safe at all infact I would never accept a pic to my phone from a total stranger
You can write code in that pic so when the person opens it the code then copy’s it’s self to ur phone and give the person a back door in to ur phone honestly people surprised me on how much they think apps are safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope, no need. I have telegram if I want to continue chatting off site. I don't give my number out to anyone. Doesn't make me a time waster just cautious.
Not at all but would definitely make it hard for someone to wine and dine you and see whare the night gose xx"
It really doesn't. I can meet someone without giving them my number. My phone number or lack of has never stopped me playing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope, no need. I have telegram if I want to continue chatting off site. I don't give my number out to anyone. Doesn't make me a time waster just cautious.
Not at all but would definitely make it hard for someone to wine and dine you and see whare the night gose xx
It really doesn't. I can meet someone without giving them my number. My phone number or lack of has never stopped me playing xx"
Well fair play if it works for you more power to you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im picturing in my head something like the Batphone, a bright red phone that flashes as it rings when a call from a fellow swinger comes in. As it rings one person gasps and say "the Swinger Phone!!!!!"...
...aaaaannyway, as you were"
Then whip off your outfit to your swinging outfit and put on the husky voice as you transform  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so who has a separate phone just for swinging and arranging meets ...
i do now i given in as i swore for years not to use a phone for swinging but with so many messers now i think its time to talk rather than just message "
I really don't care about giving my personal number out for swinging.
Be lucky to even get a message anyway!! Haha |
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