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men who will meet me at a dogging spot yet wont pick me up to meet any other time why?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them. |
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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them."
Ditch them....plenty more fish in the sea |
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them."
Honest opinion? They are not interested in you as a person, just as someone they can satisfy a need with.
You need to decide if that's good enough for you. |
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them.
Honest opinion? They are not interested in you as a person, just as someone they can satisfy a need with.
You need to decide if that's good enough for you."
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't pick someone up and take them dogging, I like things to be on my terms and if I wanted to leave a place I would hate to have to wait until someone else wanted to go. I would shag them at a dogging place but I wouldn't offer to drive them there and back. |
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them."
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I dunno op - probably a combination of being in a relationship so not wanting to be seen driving a woman around - and wanting to leave as soon as they’ve shot their load rather than waiting for someone else! Never been dogging but I imagine it’s a little like porn - once you’ve shot your load you tend to leave rather than watching the rest of the film? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the same reason people only look to meet at clubs and not their houses or another persons house, some people are only interested in the act of dogging maybe just their preference. Maybe move along and find someone that would be looking to take people dogging everyone on here has their own preferences, wants, needs, situations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your threads Denise always amuse and amaze in equal measures!!!!!
Maybe get a taxi there and back!!!!
T"
Perhaps it's a safety issue? Having trust in the fella taking her, won't let anything untoward happen to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them."
Probably because it's the dynamic of dogging they like. When they meet or watch you whilst dogging, it's a thrill because you are someone else's partner at the time. If they took you themselves you would then be with them, and it would have the same thrill for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't pick someone up and take them dogging, I like things to be on my terms and if I wanted to leave a place I would hate to have to wait until someone else wanted to go. I would shag them at a dogging place but I wouldn't offer to drive them there and back."
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I’d love to take a wonderful girl dogging with me. Watching her enjoy herself and seeing how many men she can satisfy before dropping her off on the way home again. Getting to play with her before, after and during and we’ll as possibly some other girls there too
Sounds like so much fun. Unfortunately haven’t found the right girl yet. Such a shame you’re not local  |
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I think there are a high number of guys who go there as it's very close to anonymous sex for them, which they want for many reasons.
Having a dogging fb is not anonymous, so it fails their needs.
I've had guys who've enjoyed me being their partner and we'd go together - they do exist. You've probably got to engineer it. Also be careful of safety, as you are vulnerable. Even getting stuck in an isolated rural spot in the dark, puts you at risk, if someone decides not to take you back nearer to home.
Find the right person, either as fbs for action there and elsewhere or for individual enjoyment when you're there. |
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them."
You need to assert your authority and make them take you dogging. Don't take no for an answer, it's your world girl you're the boss.
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"why do some males who go dogging, and meet me there, are not prepared to pick me up at any other time in order to have a meet with me away from a dogging spot? They always ask when am going out dogging again and if the man who takes me out isnt available they wont come to pick me up themselves. So they only want to play with me if am taken dogging by someone other than them."
Either they just want the ‘quickie’ of a dogging meet with no fuss, or they have issues with being seen picking you up from home, and dropping you back later? Either way, I would ditch them as they’re not your friends |
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