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HI male of the couple here. Has anyone slept with a work colleague recently? I had a night away with a married female work colleague last week. Not planned but we ended up.having great sex. Both plan to do it again. Would like to hear from people who have similar experience and how it went
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"Probably best advised not to do it. Can make things awkward later. "
I thought that but we have spoken every day since it happened and both keen to repeat it, just interested in getting broad set of views |
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over a year ago
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Think it happens quite a lot, ive met ex wife, gfs and had fun with married fems through work, when in same environment so many hours a week it easily can happen. |
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over a year ago
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"I had a mate who fucked her way through the office... Made some meetings and situations really awkward!
Do you still have her number?  "
Err do you work at my spot |
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Went to an awards do in London last year with a dozen colleagues, most of whom I'd never met before (large company, 1200 employees).
Sat next to a stunning woman and we got on like a house on fire. Back at the hotel one thing led to another and.....wow, she was a dirty, dirty girl.
That was last October and have never seen nor spoke to her again. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I left my previous company a while ago, I was sleeping with two different female colleagues...
It was great, but would have been less so if they'd found out about each other  |
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over a year ago
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"I had a mate who fucked her way through the office... Made some meetings and situations really awkward!
Do you still have her number?
Err do you work at my spot "
OMG I would love to have the opportunity to work your spot x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"HI male of the couple here. Has anyone slept with a work colleague recently? I had a night away with a married female work colleague last week. Not planned but we ended up.having great sex. Both plan to do it again. Would like to hear from people who have similar experience and how it went
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God no, never, it would compromise me professionally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did once. It was really good but destroyed the working relationship and subsequently the relationship entirely. It was a shame. She was a fantastic person. I missed out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back in the 90’s as a barman i would regularly have fun with barmaids . Could be quite awkward though as on a Saturday night you could potentially be working with 2/3 girls you had slept with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah use to sleep with a colleague I was married at the time but we would meet and fuck when ever we could she was far more open and broadminded learnt a lot from her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all the replies, good to see mixed experiences and outcomes. As long as her husband don't find out, I think it will be ok. Next time is going to be ar her place  "
I can’t see any potential issues with that, as risk free as it gets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What could go wrong...
Nah, in all fairness I've never been in that situation so can't weigh in. I think like with everything, it comes down to those involved.
Level headed individuals who both want the same thing and are on the same wavelength...have at it!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What could go wrong...
Nah, in all fairness I've never been in that situation so can't weigh in. I think like with everything, it comes down to those involved.
Level headed individuals who both want the same thing and are on the same wavelength...have at it!?"
In all fairness, you may not have been in that situation before, but I’m sure you realise the potential perils in shagging some blokes wife In his marital bed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What could go wrong...
Nah, in all fairness I've never been in that situation so can't weigh in. I think like with everything, it comes down to those involved.
Level headed individuals who both want the same thing and are on the same wavelength...have at it!?
In all fairness, you may not have been in that situation before, but I’m sure you realise the potential perils in shagging some blokes wife In his marital bed! "
And perils is putting it lightly...I absolutely agree.
Depends on the situation, if any of it involves sneaking around then you're asking for trouble |
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"Thanks for all the replies, good to see mixed experiences and outcomes. As long as her husband don't find out, I think it will be ok. Next time is going to be ar her place
I can’t see any potential issues with that, as risk free as it gets "
LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What could go wrong...
Nah, in all fairness I've never been in that situation so can't weigh in. I think like with everything, it comes down to those involved.
Level headed individuals who both want the same thing and are on the same wavelength...have at it!?
In all fairness, you may not have been in that situation before, but I’m sure you realise the potential perils in shagging some blokes wife In his marital bed!
And perils is putting it lightly...I absolutely agree.
Depends on the situation, if any of it involves sneaking around then you're asking for trouble "
Maybe he would be safer sneaking around on works nights out with her, rather then round her pad that she shares with her beloved? Just a thought
I look forward to seeing how this one pans out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back in the eighties I was working in a residential school. I had a girlfriend ( colleague), a fwb ( colleague) and was fucking the wife of another colleague. Only the fwb knew the whole situation and loved it. It could have ended up in such a shitfest but I got away with it and it was nirvana for a horny young guy. |
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"Back in the eighties I was working in a residential school. I had a girlfriend ( colleague), a fwb ( colleague) and was fucking the wife of another colleague. Only the fwb knew the whole situation and loved it. It could have ended up in such a shitfest but I got away with it and it was nirvana for a horny young guy."
Obviously there is always that chance that the husband doesn’t pop home, the neighbours don’t notice etc... and he reaches nirvana by her hands, rather than than the angry husbands... |
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"Back in the eighties I was working in a residential school. I had a girlfriend ( colleague), a fwb ( colleague) and was fucking the wife of another colleague. Only the fwb knew the whole situation and loved it. It could have ended up in such a shitfest but I got away with it and it was nirvana for a horny young guy.
Obviously there is always that chance that the husband doesn’t pop home, the neighbours don’t notice etc... and he reaches nirvana by her hands, rather than than the angry husbands... "
Because of where he works little chance of him popping home, a possible issue maybe someone we work with lives opposite her, they are working from home at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Back in the eighties I was working in a residential school. I had a girlfriend ( colleague), a fwb ( colleague) and was fucking the wife of another colleague. Only the fwb knew the whole situation and loved it. It could have ended up in such a shitfest but I got away with it and it was nirvana for a horny young guy.
Obviously there is always that chance that the husband doesn’t pop home, the neighbours don’t notice etc... and he reaches nirvana by her hands, rather than than the angry husbands...
Because of where he works little chance of him popping home, a possible issue maybe someone we work with lives opposite her, they are working from home at the moment"
Pre-empt this possible pit hole... tell the neighbour you are working on an ‘under cover’ assignment together, and they aren’t to let anyone know... |
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"Back in the eighties I was working in a residential school. I had a girlfriend ( colleague), a fwb ( colleague) and was fucking the wife of another colleague. Only the fwb knew the whole situation and loved it. It could have ended up in such a shitfest but I got away with it and it was nirvana for a horny young guy.
Obviously there is always that chance that the husband doesn’t pop home, the neighbours don’t notice etc... and he reaches nirvana by her hands, rather than than the angry husbands...
Because of where he works little chance of him popping home, a possible issue maybe someone we work with lives opposite her, they are working from home at the moment
Pre-empt this possible pit hole... tell the neighbour you are working on an ‘under cover’ assignment together, and they aren’t to let anyone know... "
Lol good 1 but if we said that I think she would turn round and say you mean you are fuckung each other lol |
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I had a 2 year ongoing affair with my married work colleague. It was a number of day hotels where we spent time enjoying each other while working remotely.
It was fun while it lasted. But got too personal as you end up knowing all about work, family and deep personal stuff. Near impossible to compartmentalise |
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"I had a 2 year ongoing affair with my married work colleague. It was a number of day hotels where we spent time enjoying each other while working remotely.
It was fun while it lasted. But got too personal as you end up knowing all about work, family and deep personal stuff. Near impossible to compartmentalise "
We have been good friends for 5 years and I do sometimes go out drinking with her husband |
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"Yes ongoing. Great fun openly outrageously flirting because people think it's all a joke and don't believe we are secretly shagging.  "
We have been doing the outrageous flirting for a couple of years but it has now moved on to fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently experiencing shagging a work colleague.
We've both not been able to due to past relationships but since becoming single and more chatty, and more able to, as we both have bubbles that we are part of, it's all OK.
And she has amazing tits, so win win.
I've also experienced bad times through work shenanigans.
Depends on the 2 Involved and their understanding |
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"Short-term great. long-term is not a good thing. Been there and bought a fridge magnet "
Seeing as we were married and together for over ten years before we became work colleagues, I'm satisfied that we will last the distance. It's not all doom and gloom. |
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over a year ago
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I’ve had a long term relationship with someone I worked with, and continue to work with although we are no longer together.
It’s all about behaving like mature adults when you split up and being considerate of your colleagues who don’t want to be involved in any relationship issues you may have.
My work has always had at least one relationship happening. At present there are 2 married couples and one secret relationship going on. |
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"I’ve had a long term relationship with someone I worked with, and continue to work with although we are no longer together.
It’s all about behaving like mature adults when you split up and being considerate of your colleagues who don’t want to be involved in any relationship issues you may have.
My work has always had at least one relationship happening. At present there are 2 married couples and one secret relationship going on."
My partner is fully aware but as far work goes its a very well kept secret and for the sake of.her marriage we will.need to keep it that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had a long term relationship with someone I worked with, and continue to work with although we are no longer together.
It’s all about behaving like mature adults when you split up and being considerate of your colleagues who don’t want to be involved in any relationship issues you may have.
My work has always had at least one relationship happening. At present there are 2 married couples and one secret relationship going on.
My partner is fully aware but as far work goes its a very well kept secret and for the sake of.her marriage we will.need to keep it that way"
I hope you manage to keep it a secret
The secret relationship at my work doesn’t need to be secret. The couple involved are both single, they’ve just not told anyone. I just guessed because I’m super inquisitive and put 2 & 2 together  |
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"I’ve had a long term relationship with someone I worked with, and continue to work with although we are no longer together.
It’s all about behaving like mature adults when you split up and being considerate of your colleagues who don’t want to be involved in any relationship issues you may have.
My work has always had at least one relationship happening. At present there are 2 married couples and one secret relationship going on.
My partner is fully aware but as far work goes its a very well kept secret and for the sake of.her marriage we will.need to keep it that way
I hope you manage to keep it a secret
The secret relationship at my work doesn’t need to be secret. The couple involved are both single, they’ve just not told anyone. I just guessed because I’m super inquisitive and put 2 & 2 together "
The only person who.knows at work is my best mate and I know i can trust him |
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"Does your wife know and is OK with it?
Screams to close to home for me but hey if it works for you and your mrs then good luck."
Yes my other half is fulky aware and has no problem with it so no worries on that score |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It went badly!!
She knew I was far from monogamous! And it was not serious.
Still she obviously hoped to change that. Was a tough learning exp for me!!
Would never do it again!! |
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"HI male of the couple here. Has anyone slept with a work colleague recently? I had a night away with a married female work colleague last week. Not planned but we ended up.having great sex. Both plan to do it again. Would like to hear from people who have similar experience and how it went
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I have, quite a few times.
And a lot more missed opportunities that i hadn't realised were there.
Been fine for me, but each time the women have usually ended up feeling rejected once it all ends.
I think they grow 'feelings', and hope it will become something more.
If you work somewhere small and its same office, it can become a problem.
In a big office, lots of people or sites, its usually not an issue if it goes wrong.
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
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I’ve had sex with four people from my work, it’s so helpful of my employers to regularly send us for a week in a hotel for training. Although one was in the toilets during an adjournment for a disciplinary (not mine)
One was an unhappily married lady who was a long term play, in cars a lot and a weekend away.
The most recent is a girl ten years younger than me who actually has a lot to learn sexually unfortunately and isn’t very adventurous. Sexy and cute though |
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