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BDSM - what’s your kink?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who else is into the scene? What’s your kink? I like giving corporal punishment- I get so turned on giving pain. |
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I love all the scene, the outfits are my favourite part, dressing for the occasion. For playing, my favourite is to restrain and blindfold women, then tease and edge for as long as I can until they are literally begging to let them cum. I'm partial to a bit of spanking too. |
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We only dabble a little but I love being restrained & blindfolded, even better with earphones in and some erotic music playing. Then using toys, clamps, being spanked etc. A total sensory overload. I just enjoy losing control for a while. Then getting revenge 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rimming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to love dressing as a Domme and getting my subs to adore me. The urge to do so again is getting stronger |
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"Used to love dressing as a Domme and getting my subs to adore me. The urge to do so again is getting stronger "
I've always wanted to try being on the other side, something incredibly sexy about a dominatrix, but I've never met a woman dom enough, then again I think I'm drawn to sub women. |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
Female orgasm Denial.. Nothing more empowering than being handed control and then taking them to the edge of reason, to enjoying the free fall into subspace  |
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By *avinaNWTV/TS
over a year ago
Thornton-Cleveleys |
Receiving corporal punishment is my favourite... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else is into the scene? What’s your kink? I like giving corporal punishment- I get so turned on giving pain."
It's mostly in the mind for my pleasure. It's all about trust and control for me. I love to bind, chastise and cause different sensations to course through my subs mind and body. I like that they don't know what is coming next and when I allow them pleasure I love to watch and feel them experience it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Varies with different partners for me. However I've always lived restraint. I miss having a rope bunny, I'm out of practice... |
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It varies on my mood, but with the right person just about anything goes both ways |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
With the right person that I can trust implicitly - there are very few things I would not do to please them  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I embrace my inner submissive and within that I have my limits and my likes - but I'm also, with the right person, able to indulge in mutual "kink play" which embraces all the elements of BDSM without the D/s angle.
Impact play, restraint, sensory dep, CBT, nipple play, wax play and more besides are all interests and things I have either explored or am open to exploring.
Within the boundaries of both people there really is no limit, and all comes down to open minds and the ability to communicate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Electrics is shockingly fun! x |
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I would love to get into the scene, never found a willing partner im really interested in tho, plus online relationships are pointless, as im too tactile for that lol |
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By *X2019Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Something I'm yet to explore but keen to try. Always loved the idea of restraints and blindfolds |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
It depends on the person I am playing with, their experience and limits, but I love edge and thuddy impact play.
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A few of my likes are sensory deprivation, wax play, restraints and spanking either with a paddle or a hand.
Trust and Communication are equally important.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmmm lots of the above |
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Masks and voyeurism , full room play .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Electrics is shockingly fun! x"
This is about the only one that scares me a bit I think, I know I wouldn't be plugged into the mains but still, I have been zapped by many an electric fence in my time and seen stars  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like being restrained and blindfolded, probably gagged, and spanked, basically at somebodies mercy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else is into the scene? What’s your kink? I like giving corporal punishment- I get so turned on giving pain."
I have explored my masochistic side and enjoyed parts of it. I like bondage and sensory play & impact play. |
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"I like being restrained and blindfolded, probably gagged, and spanked, basically at somebodies mercy. "
Sounds like I could help |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Electrics is shockingly fun! x
This is about the only one that scares me a bit I think, I know I wouldn't be plugged into the mains but still, I have been zapped by many an electric fence in my time and seen stars "
Is a hard limit for me too...scares the bejeebus out of me |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
It's been something new to us recently but tie and tease, clamps, mild spanking with floggers etc
Most of all though, just love all the kinky outfits that folks wear |
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"Female orgasm Denial.. Nothing more empowering than being handed control and then taking them to the edge of reason, to enjoying the free fall into subspace "
Yes, that's the one. |
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corporal punishment
Electro play
Needle play
Sounds
Pegging
The list is endless really
Basically anything that causes discomfort to straight up pain from hell |
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"Electrics is shockingly fun! x"
Have you tried an electric cane, chuffing awesome |
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We both love fact that we are both switches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to be used as a sex slave and electro play and chastity |
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We’ve came from a bdsm background to now enjoy the more sexual element that swing provides.., ... mixing the best of both worlds we think ... |
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I didn’t have much luck experiencing all yet. However, bondage, rope play, mild sensual S/M definitely makes my body shiver  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I only play one way, L has a sub side, however, any signs of weakness and she switches faster than a light. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love rubber wear and leather hoods. They add another dimension due to the feel, smell and how the meet goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Female orgasm Denial.. Nothing more empowering than being handed control and then taking them to the edge of reason, to enjoying the free fall into subspace "
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Absolutely love this, although being quite feisty I don't always do as I'm told |
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I'm more of a bottom on the bdsm scene.
Bandage, light punishment, pegging, denial etc. Although I'm elsewhere on the net for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A great deal of my likes are in my story .
The Guest and the Good girl.
If you like BDSM you'll probably enjoy it |
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By *rre786Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I'm another who has sadly lacked finding someone willing to explore these things with. But there is so much I'd like to try with the right person (not to mention indulging them in their pleasures...).
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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago
wirral |
We are. Been together about three years, been exploring all our kinks since early on. Come a long way, but always exploring and evolving. Love tease and denial, chastity, edging...aspire to be a full on female led relationship (flr), work in progress. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Masks and restraints do it for me. Different scenarios can be played out to suit. |
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Love the dressing up as a submissive girly type and then being tied up. Being at someone else’s mercy is a massive turn on. Also mild spanking so I go from steely woman to humiliated slave to whomever chastises me  |
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I like to go with whatever
Nothings planned
But I love a nice round ass to spank
Has to be across my knee for the whole personal experience. |
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I look great in a uniform, and have a nice collection. I'd like to try my dom side a bit more, and explore the shadow side of sexuality. It's all in the mind, our greatest erogenous zone. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
Guess I'm classed as switch. I love restraint, sub Dom games exploration of boundaries, senses, mind play etc. It's all about the mind, senses,and creativity. Love the relationship between pleasure and pain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being hooded and restrained while T uses the cane on me |
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"I didn’t have much luck experiencing all yet. However, bondage, rope play, mild sensual S/M definitely makes my body shiver "
“Yet”
Mr and Mrs C xxx |
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"I didn’t have much luck experiencing all yet. However, bondage, rope play, mild sensual S/M definitely makes my body shiver
“Yet”
Mr and Mrs C xxx"
“yet” that’s right X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've many fantasies and kinks I want to try. Primal/prey, sensory deprivation, wax play, shibari rope, yoni massage and some others. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"corporal punishment
Electro play
Needle play
Sounds
Pegging
The list is endless really
Basically anything that causes discomfort to straight up pain from hell "
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Forgot about pegging, better add that to our list too  |
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I love sucking cock whilst being on my knees with my hands tied behind my back..
Also tied/handcuffed to the bed whilst blindfolded & being slapped, spanked is pretty hot - the addition of melted candle wax is rather erotic too
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Nothing more sexy than bossy woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to be mummified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being restrained and blindfolded, probably gagged, and spanked, basically at somebodies mercy. "
Perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Elite Pain or Torture Galaxy .
Thank me later  |
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By *abbit48Man
over a year ago
Catterick Garrison |
proberly to tame for some but being restrained by a woman
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking for a mistress mainly but also couples and single men anyone up for a meet in North Manchester x |
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I do did the sensations of latex, leather and rubber, but recently I’ve been pretty into exploring pissplay |
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Control... and exploring that point where fantasy meets reality. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Control... and exploring that point where fantasy meets reality."
Me, I would have phrased it where reality meets fantasy.
Semantics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vulnerability whilst tied up |
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"I would love to get into the scene, never found a willing partner im really interested in tho, plus online relationships are pointless, as im too tactile for that lol "
Let's be partners in crime |
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"Control... and exploring that point where fantasy meets reality.
Me, I would have phrased it where reality meets fantasy.
Semantics."
You see, I wouldn't. I guess it's a point of perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was on a different site.. Was hog tied.. Amazing when shibari done properly..
Done more softer bdsm.. Was sub.. Had a master.. Subs have the power |
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"Was on a different site.. Was hog tied.. Amazing when shibari done properly..
Done more softer bdsm.. Was sub.. Had a master.. Subs have the power"
I tried shibary 3 years ago in London it was an experience i always wanted to try . I see shibary as art also .
I 100% agree the sub have the power |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Control... and exploring that point where fantasy meets reality.
Me, I would have phrased it where reality meets fantasy.
Semantics.
You see, I wouldn't. I guess it's a point of perspective."
Possibly, every lady I met was wanting to escape intelligence and find freedom of sexuality |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Was on a different site.. Was hog tied.. Amazing when shibari done properly..
Done more softer bdsm.. Was sub.. Had a master.. Subs have the power"
So have Doms, one wouldn’t balance the other without it. |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
West Midlands and West London |
I adore being spanked, temporary pain, being restrained with his body or restraints, gagging on cock, being fish hooked etc and being dirty talked. It's so amazing to give up the control I have over my life and be in someone else's "control" sexually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im enjoying my ever evolving experience with bdsm.. Curiosities started 11 ish years ago and led me to the swing scene also. Way to many interests and likes to list the mental and physical sides of being with a sub always bring me joy.. |
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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago
Durham |
Extreme queening amongst other things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hottest ever was an interrogation scene with my dome mistress, trying to hold onto a secret whilst being used and abused |
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I adore pvc, bondage, being restrained and used, throat fucked, spanked, caned n pained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I adore pvc, bondage, being restrained and used, throat fucked, spanked, caned n pained "
caned and pained - a good expression |
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I love pretty much anything from being tied up, hooded and fucked to pain, chastity cbt nipple abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a Switch in the true sense of BDSM. My sub side is very much giving up all control to a Domme whilst my Dom side is very demanding and often cruel but also very loving in that i am ino DD/lg |
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There is so much more to spanking than most think ! Still not found that person..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really enjoy the trepidation of travelling to a location to submit to a Master of Mistress.
I adore having to strip naked outside somewhere, or even having to leave my clothes at home or in the car. Then put on my blindfold and collar so I have no idea who I’m submitting to.
I find that a real thrill.... waiting on my knees, naked, outside in my hood; not knowing when or if my Superiors will arrive and take control. My mind whirling at high speed wondering what will happen to me, how will I be abused? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many and varied to list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a switch who likes all sorts of things, especially interrogation scenes |
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I am not much into spanking and pain, but
I like the bondage part of BDSM.
Especially I love wrapping a lady into a clingfilm so she can't move and then play with her nipples and pussy until she had several orgasms and begs me to stop.
Or she begs for more, so I am going to control myself and keep her on the edge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keeping my eyes peeled on this thread...
The life of fet is a little Baron right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would love to experience some bdsm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a spanking "
always a good spanking
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that the Red Baron? Lol"
Haha!! I meant barren of course |
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Looking to experiment much more. Love tying knots and like lots of D/S so quite a switch. X |
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By *omin8rMan
over a year ago
In A Playspace |
It depends on what appeals to the submissive, some like sensory, deprivation, pain, ropes, restraints, punishment, humiliation and so on. I like the control, building the trust, and training. It's such a wide area. You have the brats, sluts, baby girls, hotwives, rope bunnies. Endless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spanking, restraints, pain.... |
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By *ai24Man
over a year ago
Hull |
Tying, teasing and denial |
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Hubby likes to be tied up and sometimes blindfolded whilst I’m enjoying some strangers cock.
I’ve made him clean me up (he likes doing as he’s told )
I’ve also started ball busting him especially when I’m wearing my Louboutins. Give him as hard a pounding as I’ve just had. It’s fun watching try to stay stood up  |
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"I love all the scene, the outfits are my favourite part, dressing for the occasion. For playing, my favourite is to restrain and blindfold women, then tease and edge for as long as I can until they are literally begging to let them cum. I'm partial to a bit of spanking too. "
Love this! But I hasten to add very much on request and with full informed consent! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really enjoy being tied up naked to a tree, arms above my head, attached to a branch above me so that I have to stand up on my toes. Then have my nipples clamped and tied up above me too, forcing me to arch my back up as my nipples are pulled upwards.
In the past I’ve been kept in this position whilst having my cock whipped with nettles and my backside caned.
Amazing evening! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really enjoy being tied up naked to a tree, arms above my head, attached to a branch above me so that I have to stand up on my toes. Then have my nipples clamped and tied up above me too, forcing me to arch my back up as my nipples are pulled upwards.
In the past I’ve been kept in this position whilst having my cock whipped with nettles and my backside caned.
Amazing evening!"
love nipple torture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"love nipple torture"
Me too! I adore really suffering with my nipples being clamped, pulled, stung with nettles, hot wax dropped onto them. Clamped and weighted so they are really painful anytime I move. |
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Nipple torture, electrics, needle play, body stapling, sealing wax, |
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Adie (male) loves to be tied up blindfold. Gagged. Spanked tease and torment. Cbt learning limits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Adie (male) loves to be tied up blindfold. Gagged. Spanked tease and torment. Cbt learning limits "
Sounds great! You ever need a second sub to abuse alongside Adie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Electric wand love them |
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We're looking for an experienced guy to help with a scenario we have. Someone into light bdsm and sensual play. Scenario is Alice will be tied up and blindfolded in a hotel room where she will be teased and enjoyed by the guys with toys, restraints etc. |
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restraints, teasing, pegging... in that particular order |
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"Tying, teasing and denial "
snap apart from you missed out pegging |
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Loved taking my sub to subspace.
Used to use a hood with just a mouth hole and have her wear ear defenders. The have her waiting for whst I'd do- sometimes fast and intense, sometimes slow and spaced out. Moving carefully and quietly round the room- keep them wondering what's happening next and where it's coming from... |
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Pleasing others, with a little denial, humiliaiton, cross dressing, spanking thrown in for fun. Helping another person with their kinks is great fun for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loved taking my sub to subspace.
Used to use a hood with just a mouth hole and have her wear ear defenders. The have her waiting for whst I'd do- sometimes fast and intense, sometimes slow and spaced out. Moving carefully and quietly round the room- keep them wondering what's happening next and where it's coming from..."
Ooh carry on |
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"Loved taking my sub to subspace.
Used to use a hood with just a mouth hole and have her wear ear defenders. The have her waiting for whst I'd do- sometimes fast and intense, sometimes slow and spaced out. Moving carefully and quietly round the room- keep them wondering what's happening next and where it's coming from...
Ooh carry on "
Does that appeal to you? |
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I like to turn my hand to most things but we all have hard limits. The sub always dictates the path they want to go and it's my responsibility to make sure they get there safely. Mental domination is something I really enjoy though. Once you get somebody's mind the body is never too far behind. It also allows the sub to go places they didn't think they could. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loved taking my sub to subspace.
Used to use a hood with just a mouth hole and have her wear ear defenders. The have her waiting for whst I'd do- sometimes fast and intense, sometimes slow and spaced out. Moving carefully and quietly round the room- keep them wondering what's happening next and where it's coming from...
Ooh carry on
Does that appeal to you?"
Absolutely. In my experience too many people think that kink is just about inflicting pain. Fortunately my ex knew it is more about control which, for me, is all about getting inside my head
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My kink is really all about my sub’s kinks and fantasies. Being handed control and given the opportunity to take use tease and punish a willing sub is the most erotic gift of all.
Seeing my sub lost in that space is one of the most erotic things I’ve ever enjoyed. |
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"restraints, teasing, pegging... in that particular order "
Woman after my own heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy some kink and like to dominate, nothing overly extreme (in my opinion) but enough to let her know that I am in charge. Love to restrain my partner and seeing her spread wide, helpless and vulnerable is such a turn on. Also enjoy collars, blindfolds, gags, spanking,flogging, teasing with toys, orgasm control/denial, wax, ice, nipple clamps, hair pulling etc,,all within pre discussed limits of course. Generally like to be in control, that is my natural state, but on occasions with the right partner and if the dynamic is there, I will let her get behind the wheel and get her own back ha ha. Ouch |
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"Loved taking my sub to subspace.
Used to use a hood with just a mouth hole and have her wear ear defenders. The have her waiting for whst I'd do- sometimes fast and intense, sometimes slow and spaced out. Moving carefully and quietly round the room- keep them wondering what's happening next and where it's coming from...
Ooh carry on
Does that appeal to you?
Absolutely. In my experience too many people think that kink is just about inflicting pain. Fortunately my ex knew it is more about control which, for me, is all about getting inside my head
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Being given control is such a gift. |
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"My kink is really all about my sub’s kinks and fantasies. Being handed control and given the opportunity to take use tease and punish a willing sub is the most erotic gift of all.
Seeing my sub lost in that space is one of the most erotic things I’ve ever enjoyed."
This guy gets it. |
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"restraints, teasing, pegging... in that particular order
Woman after my own heart "
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over a year ago
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We love hoods for sensory deprivation but probably our favourite is our queening seat |
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It’s how we got into swinging!
We’re both switches and love to introduce people to bdsm! |
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By *_nwMan
over a year ago
northwest |
"Used to love dressing as a Domme and getting my subs to adore me. The urge to do so again is getting stronger "
This with sone foot worship |
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We are, we’re a D/s collared couple.
Trust, control, submission and fantasy.
Reaching subspace and the aftercare.
The occasional trade of power.
Sometimes shared with friends. |
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Taking control. Getting what you want. Giving her pleasure while getting my own
Being firm and assertive with what you’re doing, letting her know you’re the one in charge
Pushing her into position – throwing her on the bed, against the wall, on the floor
Humiliation in the form of spitting, urinating, defecating
Tying her up on the bed use neckties or silk scarves and don’t tie too tight and stimulating her without completion Getting her to dress up and ‘act’ for me 00 per cent that the sex you’re having isn’t hurting yourself or others – and that everyone involved even peripherally is having fun – then you can feel good about enjoying it |
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over a year ago
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Love tying her tits then fisting her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love tying her tits then fisting her!"
My Kind of kink! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Breast play! Binding is wonderful - Watching those deliciously tied breasts darkening, fir and sensitive! Then pulling out a pinwheel, ice and wax, not forgetting the crop or flogger!
Love "forced" play, Forced O's, fisting, toys etc. Especially if I have tied them so very tightly!
Breath play and choking! Watching her cum like this is LUSH!
There is so much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tit tying, and we have a lovely vampire crop!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love breast tying,wax play and spanking |
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over a year ago
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I guess my kink is control - not taking it (though I'm very able and willing to take control), but being given it by a trusting submissive.
There's an interview on Fet I identify with a lot (not completely, mind):
"I'm not a sadist. I do, what appears to be, pretty sadistic things, but the motivation behind it is not sexual gratification from inflicting pain. I get my kicks from the bottom being aroused and gratified by my actions, most notably from something 'wrong' or taboo.
I also get my kicks from being good. Being talented and working well, making sure I'm giving the right stimulus for the right response, being aware and accurate. I enjoy knowing I've done a good job."
I'm not nearly as experienced or talented as the interviewee, but I recognise a lot of this in my own practice. |
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over a year ago
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I lie: it's the wide-eyed, "what have I got myself into" look. The moment where the bottom starts to realise what's about to happen to them. Everything we discussed, everything we agreed - like they're at the top of a rollercoaster: the time is now, and what's next has just dawned on them.
That's what really gets me off it's like crack. |
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"Who else is into the scene? What’s your kink? I like giving corporal punishment- I get so turned on giving pain."
Receiving a good spanking or caning |
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over a year ago
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Cuckold. Nothing quite like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being tied up with a blindfold on x |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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I love to cuckold x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sharing toys with one another |
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Find the use of chain very powerful. Its weight, the noise it makes, its feel against bare skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Submit
Body-worship
CBT
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This (but as the domme) |
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By *atford69Man
over a year ago
Westbourne park |
Strap on, love a woman in control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to be sub to a female foot and body worship receive punishment etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Breast squeezing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mainly bondage, specifically shibari, and impact play, making and using "tools"
Fuzz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Restraint and blindfolds for me |
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I like feeling used, so restraints, gags, corporal punishment. S likes to see me like that and makes sure I'm used in just the right way, so we complement perfectly |
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By *orteMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Communication and consent so like to have a partner that is as into it as I am. I need that because I like to be completely in control.
Partner restrained and helpless while I decide on the mixture of pleasure and pain. The exact method depends on us both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the right person I switch, but otherwise take a Dominant role.
I enjoy giving a good flogging or spanking, wax play, sensory deprivation, tease and denial, humiliation, sissification, the list goes on....
I’m also fond of the aesthetics of bondage, particularly Shibari, and I’m always trying to improve my rope skills. |
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over a year ago
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Sensory deprivation D/S forced orgasm. Orgasm denial edging over n over, exhibitionism, outdoor, loads x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tights, edging, nipple play |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pegging n dom'd by milfs |
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Choking and making her cum repeatedly or a good tit beating
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"Choking and making her cum repeatedly or a good tit beating
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Absolutely delightful xxx |
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over a year ago
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"Find the use of chain very powerful. Its weight, the noise it makes, its feel against bare skin. "
I’ve been dying to try chains with someone... love the feel of metal on my skin
Spanking and canes I love, along with restraints |
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over a year ago
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"Find the use of chain very powerful. Its weight, the noise it makes, its feel against bare skin.
I’ve been dying to try chains with someone... love the feel of metal on my skin
Spanking and canes I love, along with restraints "
A smaller chain also makes an interesting insertion |
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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago
Princess Risborough |
A pain wheel can be extremely erotic |
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over a year ago
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CNC
Fisting
Pussy stretching
Hand around throat
belt around throat (that 1 was done recently)
Watersports which I'm still playing around with as it's a new kink
Sensual play with ice, pin wheels and other items whilst blindfolded
Spanking
Rope play like shabari
Exhibition
Those are to name a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being dominated by Miss B, having a vibrator in my arse as she suck and wanks me, telling me what she’s done with other men... before using the flogger on me and spanking me until it hurts. Finished by mind blowing sex in the cow girl position. |
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"Being dominated by Miss B, having a vibrator in my arse as she suck and wanks me, telling me what she’s done with other men... before using the flogger on me and spanking me until it hurts. Finished by mind blowing sex in the cow girl position. "
I need a woman |
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There isn't much I haven't tried and most of it I'd do it again, partner dependant.
Though my most favourite is impact play. I'm a masochist/brat/sub in that order and absolutely love teasing to get that extra strike or two
I've been into bdsm a lot longer than swinging and have found it is very difficult to find someone on here I'd trust with the more extreme side of things, so I tend to keep my fab and bdsm sides separate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we love the scene too and miss it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cbt a true sign of submission when u allow another guy (girl) to torture your bits. My favourite |
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I'm switch.
B&D not into pain giving or receiving.
I'd love to be tied to a bed and blindfolded by someone I trust and left I the room (perhaps at a party) where may or not come in unobserved, play as little or as much with me as they dare or wish without anyone else knowing what they got up to and I've no idea who they are or their circumstances either. I'd just be their little secret... |
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We both love the dominant side love using rope, electrics, flogger and canes nothing better than a willing sub for us both to pay with |
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By *Nm19Couple
over a year ago
notts |
D loves being flogged and spanked, she loves that warm feeling on her ass following a session! I enjoy the tease and her not knowing whether it’s going to be stinging sensation or a soft one. D also loves wax play, when clubs were open we used to go to a dungeon and I loved watching others pour wax in her! Hoping to learn about rope play and sensory play with things allow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Flogging, restraints, pain, humiliation, tit tying etc etc....open to most things!! He he!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knelt and whipped with a riding crop until I cum hands free |
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over a year ago
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Receiving cbt, humiliation, torture. Serving Dom guys ?? |
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Young dominatrix in riding boots and jodhpurs standing over my naked body is hot. (reminds me of my fist domme) ! |
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over a year ago
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Unknown. Senory deprivation. Hot wax. Rope.. |
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Over knee bare bottom spanking |
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