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Cane or flogger?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to use than hand, its much more personal and intimate.
I like the crop too but find that different things work better on different parts of the body.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Floggers have a bit more versatility, while canes need to be used with due care and attention to avoid serious harm.
My favourites though are two brutal wooden clubs closely followed by a pair of mallets. Thuddy impact all the way. |
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"Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?"
Flogger, definitely.
I don't like using or receiving a cane. If flogger wasn't an option,
I'd go for the leather strap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Floggers have a bit more versatility, while canes need to be used with due care and attention to avoid serious harm.
My favourites though are two brutal wooden clubs closely followed by a pair of mallets. Thuddy impact all the way."
Haha!!!! |
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By *palWoman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
Hand as I love a good spanking, flogger because they are sensual in the right hands but definitely no canes as I was caned as a child by my dad and had to go and pick one from the garden as a punishment. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
A flogger is so versatile both sensual and as impact play toy.
A cane is, how can I say this, is not as playful and more an intense instrument.
Not many fully understand the cane I suspect. |
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Preferably bare handed....the warmth of a hand is delicious.
But then on the flip side I do enjoy the crisp sharp sting and bite of a crop. Floggers are enjoyable , I've only had one encounter with a cane...it was enjoyable but I don't think I could deal with it ''full on" so to speak...I'd probably end up tapping out 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hand
flogger
not fan of canes as once had one used so hard to make me safeword - was supposed to be a lesson in that it was ok to safeword
but in the right hands they can be ok
like with everything depends on who is weilding them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love hand and the feeling of a strong hand when they are good at spanking. Aside from that I've only been flogged and never had anything else used on me  "
Yet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I break canes in minutes...
A good riding crop, or dressage whip and then we’re taking "
Riding crop all the way for me - so versatile.....but then a belt is so much more primal 
Decisions...decisions....  |
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"Depends on my mood, I like marksto show so whip or cane but I do love a good hand spanking
If you like marks - try a riding crop "
Haven't tried a riding crop so thank you , I've got a bullwhip though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?"
Cat o'nine tails, hand, paddle. But cat o' nine tails is the best imo, very sensual too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember that Pleasures once had table tennis bats that could be used as whackers  L whacked me so hard one night that the handle broke off bat went flying across the room! |
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Flogger then cane
However as we can also make other suggestions then we have a number of custom items which we find can give amazing experiences and marks.
For a real sting, then a mark you can watch appear, an iPhone cable folded in half is an amazing toy!
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"Floggers. Anyone tried a Cat o' nine tails? thinking of making one."
We feel that any dominant worth their salt should know what every toy they use, feels like. That way they are better able to use it to full effect for the benefit of their submissive.
Cat of nine, is a great hybrid between flogger and bullwhip, although we would recommend you practice on something other than a submissive. The sweet spot is not very forgiving, so it is easy for you to hurt your partner (not in the intended way)
Also found a dragons tail to be great, and is works as a great middle ground before moving to longer/harder toys like the whips
Hope that helps |
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A long session broken into sections. First sex then flogging calf to neck front and back then more sex then singletail or thin horse whip used all over. Mmm.
Had a BT wire hand made whip used on Holls once. God it was severe but used properly she loved. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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I tend to enjoy using the flogger more. It makes a lovely noise and can be used for nice sensation and stepped up a few levels if needed.
Never been a fan of the cane and the harsh marks it leaves, but not to say I won't use it if they've been really naughty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally depends on my mood.
For catharsis, thin whippy stingy cane every time...
Flogger, thick cane or belt for fun...
Paddles are evil...
For intimacy, a hand spanking. "
hand spanking is always my real favourite, either way |
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I quite like it when she whacks me with a soft bag of cotton wool . As for all those other bloody things , No thank you I have no preference at all !!
And to those so called friends who decided it would be a good idea to teach her “ single tail “ ... Thanks a lot !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been known to use anything that is in the nearby area that can give a satisfyingly impact from tapping nipples with the back of a spoon to using a fish slice or similar
If it produces the right effect and a little colour and heat it’s all good   |
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By hand first. Always the most tactile and sensual way to find out just how and how hard to strike to get the right response. Love a good old ruler for thighs and pussy. And a leather belt just makes the most glorious sound on bare cheeks |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Flogger, definitely flogger.
The cane hurts sooo much
A flogger can be used with different levels of intensity. More difficult to do that with a cane  "
You can give a massage with a cane, they don't have to hurt... It takes practice but it's not difficult |
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"A friend of mrs Icebreaker gave her what she called the bastard cane - a lenght of bamboo wrapped in heat wrap so that it shrank to the shape of the bamboo. It leaves fine, fine marks."
Very fine marks
Ms icebreaker |
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"Flogger, definitely flogger.
The cane hurts sooo much
A flogger can be used with different levels of intensity. More difficult to do that with a cane
You can give a massage with a cane, they don't have to hurt... It takes practice but it's not difficult "
I definitely need to practice more! What a shame! |
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I can't choose between the two as they are completely different and both have their place in my heart.
Ultimately though, it's the person's skill in wielding the instrument that makes all the difference.
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Riding crop is one we use most often, very versatile, for punishment or heightened arousal. The cane is for punishment only, reserved for the most slutty behaviour.
xx"
Oh. I'm not sure I like the thought of that. I think slutty behaviour should be praised and celebrated. Not punished.
I want a 'good girl' for being a filthy slut and punishment when I'm not  |
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